The relationship between the sun and the moon

Relationship is the “KEY” to everything in life.

Please read that again..

Now let me break this down. You see, life is all about in and out (i.e inside and outside, internal and external, yin and yang)

It’s 9:19pm right now as I’m writing this, laughing at how I’m hoping you reading this “overstands”this.

The sun is the daytime and usually what we experience is people doing activities during the day and sleep (reboot i.e die) at night( is when the moon and the stars are out). See where I’m going with this?

The outside world , this world where you are reading this from is a projector screen basically! You are seeing what you are thinking plus feeling!

This is why I said in my last post if you are able to give your external activities 12 hours out of 24 hours in a day to doing whatever you do.. the other 12 hours in a day which of course is the other half, why not use it to reboot( ie sleep, create, listen , feel etc). This is the new age ! The new wave. The age of Aquarius and i believe it’s my duty to teach this in the most simplest of ways possible so we all can grasp how far fetched we think life is versus what it really really is !

The relationship that you have between your thoughts and your action is what I mean when I say the relationship between the sun and the moon. Because that’s what it actually is ..

Please read that again..! I don’t think you caught that ..

The moon is only a reflection of the sun. That’s what it is .. so it means your external actions come from within( internal : ie moon ).. Get it ??

When we understand the concept of relationship we would begin to enter into a new world. Relationship is the merging of two or more energies .. it’s that simple. This could be in form of anything. Think it so it is..!

The way you think( which is of course done in the head, is the only think that makes you act how you act ( ie the sun). Because even physically the moon only reflects the light that the sun emits. (This is why we have phases of the moon * because the reflection of light from the sun changes as it orbits around the earth)..This is why women see their periods once a month (ie once per one moon rotation aka per month).

If you notice something, about all these bodies they all rotate right? The sun rotates around the earth likewise the moon . Think deeply about this for a moment .. Why do you think that people say life is turn by turn ? ( aka rotation? Aka ‘what goes around comes around”? All of those statements are true because it is CONSCIOUSNESS! If these planetary bodies that are here to give us light have to rotate and each have their own time to shine just as the sun has day the moon has night right? Why won’t individuals understand that you also have to wait your turn ? But while wait, learn to love yourself ( which simply means accept your habits and your flaws and your awesomeness no matter how terrible you have been labeled to be. Because there is no space to be anyone else but you..! Everyone is already taken !

Create a bond between your thoughts and your feelings then you begin to take charge of your life. When you realize you are having a negative thought and you can catch yourself in the moment. Hmmmm.., then you are beginning get deep into your own ascension.

We are all royals in our own right and you got to get it so you don’t get “EAT”* (en).

Remember, you are the creator of your universe. Tune in to the right mindset and change your life.

Till the next read..

The Moon

So let’s talk about this very unique satellite, “THE MOON”. The brightest and largest object in our night’s sky. Earth’s only natural PERMANENT satellite. The broadcaster! The 5th largest planetary satellite in the solar system..so enough with hype right?,What is so special about the moon?

Obviously, the moon is very much underated unlike the sun. We talk a lot about the sun and how much benefits we get from it,both health and spiritual benefits. It’s just like saying we care more about daytime more than we do for nighttime and I hope you get what I mean..

This is because we sleep at night” (I wonder who made this law though) but remember according to number of hours we have in a day, half of it belongs to day and half belongs to night right? Which means we have 12 hours each for both day and night.

Esoterically what I mean is we tend to pay more attention to the outside (the sun ie the light,ideas,masculinity) more than the inside(the moon ..ie your feelings and emotions,femininity).

The moon is all about how you feel,your deepest desires, your inside, your emotions. It’s who you are versus who you show the world you are ( battle of day and night). So basically what I’m saying is —- the moon holds equal amount of power and importance as the sun does. As much as the sun is in charge of daytime (ie, light, sun) and the moon is in charge of night (dark) but sometimes the moon is up during the day.. why do you think that is ?

Everything in life is interwoven just like little particles of molecules and atoms.. every single thing. You and me, animals and plants. Every single thing (matter)..This is why all lives matter.. We have come into a time where the real truth has to be shared and that’s what Barisity is all about. Bringing the real truth back to reality..

Basically it is very important that you treat your intuition as right as you treat your logic. When your head and heart are in unison… Then you are in alignment with your solar system. No one has power over another..

So, absorb the energy of the moon just as much as you do of the sun.. The key here is balance.. if I were to relate this to a physical experience in our realm of reality, I’ll say gender equality the sun versus the moon ( masculinity versus femininity).

Life is all about balance..

Everything is everything …

“ Be the reflection of your own sunlight ” a.k.a Be you completely inside and outside -Queen Tomca

If you missed my last YouTube episode on “THE SUN”. Watch below👇👇

Till the next read..

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THE SUN

What is that bright light up there all day?

What does it have to do with our existence?

Why does it come out only during the day?

Is this even important?

Well, that depends on what is important to YOU.

Meanwhile, what you’re about to read should even bring about more questions.. (this is where you begin to use your mind ). As usual, read with a totally open mind.

okay..

The sun, the most important star in the universe. It actually is an enormous sphere of extremist hot gas that is continuously shining and spinning around. It also is the closest star to planet Earth yet it is extremely far from mother Earth.

We call it the “Solar” system because it is in the center of our system and all the planets in it revolves around the sun.

Here is what I would like you to ”over-stand”,

YOU ARE THE SOLAR SYSTEM.

YOU ARE YOUR OWN SOLAR SYSTEM

Read that again so it registers in your mind🙏🏽.

The world revolves around you. All the planets evolve around you including earth which means you are in the center which also means the core. You ! Your universe. I really hope you overstand and understand this.

The gravity that connects what you know and what you see is basically what’s going on behind the scenes” ( in your mind) in the spirit realm and that’s where all the magic happens!! (which is all in our minds). This is why i always emphasize on the power of our minds..Catch the drift??

This is where almost everyone and even most spiritual teachers got it fucked up. Heaven is within, which is the conjugation of everything inside you and the reflection is hell which is what is outside (without) because we are mirroring each other. This is why when people say we are living in hell they are absolutely right because we all are living in hell .(hilarious isn’t it?, hmmm..)

So the question is what does your solar system do in hell ? Does it sleep or does it awaken to shine? The choice is yours . It is the new age and my duty is to remind you of how individually powerful YOU ARE!

The new wave 🌊. Welcome to the age of Aquarius ♒️.

You have to be really open- minded to get this deep so you can understand that there really is more to who we are as human beings living here and it’s true no one has it all figured out but as a whole, individually and collectively we create our consciousness in every single moment..

Yes you read that right, the sun is symbolic for your actions. So who is in control of your actions? you? your spouse?, your family?, your friends?, your environment,your culture?

Who makes the decisions in your life ? Who takes action in your life? Whose life is it ? ..

The sun is in charge of the day, just as the moon is in charge of the nighttime. So what do you do during the day?

I know.. a lot of questions right ?…All I’m saying is the sun is the light you shine to the world which simply means….Your actions!

Your actions define you..So how bright are you shining today? What have you done today to bring out the light from within?

Are you living or dying ?

We have been blessed with the gift of choice so you have to open your “eye” in order for you to choose right so you can BE YOUR OWN SUNLIGHT.

I’ll be shedding more light on this via my YouTube channel… The link will be down below if you’d like to see more👇👇

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYh0itxbqR2dJTtk3TazKog

Create and recreate your own SUNSHINE!

Have a great day..

Till the next read…

Types of Motivation

 Motivation is literally the desire to do things. It is the crucial element in setting and of course attaining goals. It is usually interchanged with “Inspiration” and there are of course,Internal and external factors that stimulate desire and energy in people to be continually interested and committed to do anything.

Before we get into the types of motivation, it is important to acknowledge a few things..

First of all, we say our main goal in life is to be as happy as possible, have you really asked yourself what it is going to take for each of us to achieve that?

Secondly, just as you must have seen on other posts on this site… i write a lot about how we all have our own individual map of reality. We see the world according to what’s important to us. Therefore,we cannot keep all the knowledge of what’s important to us in our conscious awareness always because there’s too much information and our brain is being bombarded with over 40,000 bits of information every moment and we might get lost or distracted into some of all that data. This is why it’s important to keep yourself motivated to enable you filter through all that data in order to get the job /task done.

So, there are two major types of motivation :

Intrinsic and Extrinsic Motivation.

Intrinsic Motivation is geared toward internal rewards and re-inforcers. This is just like when we celebrate our success when we do well and then beat ourselves up when we don’t .Intrinsic just as the name implies is geared towards internal rewards. Internal rewards are associated with high academic and occupational achievement.

It seems motivation is strongest when we do it for the fun of it…or for the feeling of accomplishment. It could be a hobby, or a career path, or our purpose in life even. Some examples of internal reinforcers are “Shoulds”, “Musts”, and “Oughts”, a guilty conscience, and even Toxic Shame.

Traits of intrinsic motivation can be seen in believing in ones self. For example, you may be motivated to get a promotion because of self-improvement or the joy of learning. Conversely, you might be motivated to succeed because you want to positively affect the lives of the people around you.Some examples of internal rewards are achievements, enjoyment, a sense of competence etc..

Extrinsic Motivation is geared toward external rewards and reinforcers. This is more common than intrinsic motivation because it includes achieving things due to a specific incentive, fear, or expectation, all of which depend on external factors. For example, people may want to get a promotion because of the expected raise that comes with it..(an this is obviously geared towards an external reward). Some examples of external rewards are money, praise, awards, etc. Few examples of external reinforcers are disciplinary action, boundary-setting, procedures and policies.etc..

Motivation is actually more complex than simply defining it by its internal or external drivers. Each broad type of motivation has many sub-types of its own, but having a broader view of the types of motivation could be the foundation you need to start something new.

Basically, ask yourself, ”what is the reason behind your actions and how did you arrive at that?”… ”Did i do that out of love or out of fear”?

Till the next read

Motivation

The word motivation is one of the most used words i believe.It is “a reason or reasons for acting or behaving in a particular way.”This word certainly cuts across all races, ages and even differences.

A motive is an impulse that causes a person to act. Motivation is an internal process that makes a person move toward a goal. 

Motive + action = Motivation

So two things are involved here: a reason , then action!

Motivation is a word we use a lot but do we really understand what it means to be motivated?

It means, YOU NEED A REASON TO TAKE ACTION!

Read that again.

So i believe that means no matter how inspired one is, until you take action you were never really motivated. This is due to the fact that motivation can only be inferred by noting a person’s behavior. 

Anything or anyone can be a motivation. It all depends on the reason you are searching because at the end of the day only you can take the action it requires. This is why your point of view in any situation is really important.

When i was about 4/5 years old i remember how my dad would take me everywhere and introduce me like i’m an adult so i’ll say hi, my name is ..nice to meet you., whomever i was stretching my hands to would go.. Wow, that is interesting. The next thing i’ll notice is, they treat me as an adult because of how my father had made me approach them. This eventually inspired most of the kids around me to greet or speak to people in a certain manner and before i knew it i became an adult before i was even 7. My actions became inspiring to make my father’s friends want me around even though i had nothing to say..

So sometimes, the reason to take action may not necessarily be from where or whom you expect it to come from and that requires focus to take action. This boils down to…*how bad do you want it*? I say this a lot but i’m sure you would agree with me.

Till the next read.

Learning |2|

In my last post, i wrote about learning and asking yourself the right questions. Today, i want to teach you how to know how you learn.

There are actual learning styles, which refers to the means in which a person acquires information best.There are four main different types of learning, that is,: visual , auditory, verbal and kinesthetic learning.

Visual (spatial): You prefer using pictures, images, and spatial understanding.

Aural (auditory-musical): You prefer using sound and music.

Verbal (linguistic): You prefer using words, both in speech and writing.

Physical (kinesthetic): You prefer using your body, hands and sense of touch

If you pay close attention to yourself you will already know your learning style. Ask yourself how do you prefer learning naturally. However, certain individuals have more than one type of learning style and that’s awesome.

Now that you know how best you learn by looking at those four awesome categories above, try this exercise for 24 hours/48hours 🙏🏽.

Observe all the things you’re inhaling or learning via your learning method and see if it aligns with where you want to be.
Make a list of the things you remembered all through the day during the exercise (just before you sleep) and ask yourself genuinely if those things you gathered were all aligned with where you want to be.

When you look to learn something, everything because to happen to enable you learn that. You start seeing ads, maybe numbers, movies, experiences etc… all these are happening to enable you learn it, but learning is a choice just as your life is ..

This is how you know that you learn every single day but you have to know how you learn. (“because you are paying for it with your time”)do you get it?

“Learn to live and you will live to earn”

When you pay attention to the wrong things, then, wrong things begin to manifest in your life. Here is what i mean.. Let’s say you are in a dilemma and you are definitely confused.. if you are observant, you notice you listen to certain kinds of songs, watch certain kinds of movies, listen or talk about similar experiences etc.. that’s how we are all programmed to react to something you do not understand.. but look on the flip side.. if you already knew your own method of learning you would realize we are uniquely created beings and we learn differently, we experience differently and so on…(therefore through your unique method of learning you would see a different light and come up with a possibility to better the situation) but it is your job first to know how you learn so you know what influences your actions, thoughts, words etc..

How else would you understand the beauty in our mystery?…

Till the next read.



Learning

Learning is the process of acquiring new, or modifying existing knowledge, behaviors, skills, values, or preferences.

We learn at all times either consciously or subconsciously whether you believe it or not. We learn via using our senses and we are told we have 5 senses. I know for sure that we have more than 5 senses…(But that’s my belief). However, everything we accumulate comes from all those senses and that is how you can understand what you’re manifesting.

You see, teachers are our greatest assets because they are the story tellers and we definitely need more great teachers. I would like to implore our teachers, leaders, parents and bosses to celebrate “Trying” . Please … applaud the staff,children or students for any grades/progress at all for trying as it encourages them to learn the habit of ‘LEARNING’. Because failing is part of learning if they are shown love for “trying” I’m certain we would have more failures and that will certainly mean more success stories and not the other way around.

“We learn to live when we live to learn”

This is what i mean, you see the billboards, the media,(social media inclusive) are all teaching you something. So ask yourself what are you learning? What are you teaching yourself? What you see around you, smell, touch, watch etc…is what you are inhaling and that is all energy..What you may be learning may not even have anything to do with why are you are still alive in the first place. So i ask you again.. what are you learning?What are you acquiring?

Remember if you ‘Nourish your mind, you nourish your life”..

If you would like to see more about this please see below.

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Mindset 2 ( Get the trash out)

Talk about a sequel right?

I have a lot to share as regards to this so I might add a couple more episodes to this topic just as I would on my YouTube channel.

There are two words here – mind and set”. Your mindset comprises of you and a decision. ( because everything is a choice).

Let me put it this way, take a look at your phone for instance, it is a machine just like your mind. You have so many apps on it that you don’t even use ( just like the areas of your mind you haven’t even tapped into). Please Get the trash out !! Create space and empty the unwanted thoughts and/or information clogging your phone or mind space in this instance.

If your mind is clogged, then your life is clogged!

Read that again.

You see, your mind is unlimited but what you do with it depends on how you perceive your experiences. Can you even begin to imagine how vast your mind is ?

The mind of a man built planes, ships, gadgets, bridges, robots, now they are making clones , Ai, etc.

So what would be the importance of understanding your mindset as an individual? That would be life changing wouldn’t it ?

Your mindset is your life’s foundation. It is the beginning of every action you take. You know how they say “you reap what you sow”?thats because the foundation on which you plant determines how the fruits would turn out.

You can watch more about it on my YouTube channel below

Any reason behind your action or reaction to something or someone is based on your perception ( how YOU see it) . Notice the keyword “you”.

I believe that means YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF YOUR MINDSET ( Your point of view )..

Do you know why they say “food for thought” ? It’s because the mind feeds via information. That’s right ! So feed it right . Set your mind right! Your mindset is a goldmine and you best believe that..Your mind is feeding off of millions of information every moment and it’s your duty to feed your mind right and get the trash out.

Till the next read.

Mindset

Our overall judgement per say is our mindset. What you do or say, how you act or behave is all based on your mindset. How you perceive things, how you react to the circumstances in your environment, career, relationship,religion and even spirituality.

As seen below on my Youtube channel, i shed a bit more light into the importance of your mindset..

Mindset is everything. Literally everything. Your mindset is your collage of thoughts and beliefs that shape your thought habits(which really means your whole life) and your thought habits affect how you think, what you feel, and what you do. It is mans best friend and worst enemy because it could make or break you but the best part is, each individual is in charge of theirs. It’s the only property you have as a human being.

There are two major types of mindset:

Fixed and growth mindset

Having a fixed mindset means one believes that certain things are just that way, that talent and intelligence is enough and that makes them likely to document past achievements out of fear failure while a person with a growth mindset sees challenges as a way to learn and grow. They believe new abilities can be developed via practice which helps create a love for learning and this of course makes life more exciting.

I for one, believe that as good as raw honey is, it is bitter to someone else’s taste bud and that is a Mindset right? Does that make you perceive me as a certain individual?, of course yes! That is because we are all judged by our mindset and we already do that to ourselves which is bad enough. How about we tried something different. How about we be less judgmental and just allow people grow and learn after all that’s why we are all here.

Nomatter how young or old you may be, when you have learned/gathered enough experiences according to your own role in life you sign out. Isn’t it ?

That’s right.

Having a growth mindset (the belief that you are in control of your own-skills and ability, and can learn,grow and improve) is the key to success. Yes, hard work, effort, and persistence are all important, but not as important as having that underlying belief that you are in control of your own destiny.

“Your future is only a projection of your imagination which makes your mindset your greatest asset”.

Its not about what is happening it is always about ‘why’ you think that way.. It is always about they whys’, ask yourself why you do , think, say things in a certain manner and there a new journey begins…

Till the next read.


Change

The only word that is constant in the whole universe…

Change is like the wind when it blows .. everything scatters..ever experienced a whirlwind of emotions happy or sad, how do you react? If excited, you celebrate you smile, jump etc.. if otherwise, you scream (certainly moving), cry or even throw things around..

You see, everything that comes with change comes with change goes with change. Change is life… life is change because it is forever moving. Get it ??

Change is inevitable and until we accept that change is inevitable we may continue to live in chains.. Breaking free requires change and it is never comfortable.. You have to get comfortable with being uncomfortable.

So let’s say for instance, you have a habit of doing the same thing over and over again or you’re trying to solve a problem and you keep throwing things around does it solve the problem? You see, if you keep throwing things around you’ll end up cleaning more spots.. That’s why they say if you keep doing the same thing over and over again you’ll end up getting the same results.Imagine trying to break a wall do you do that by patting the wall ? It requires effort because it’s not in your comfort zone and that means you have to get uncomfortable yet being okay with it.

Change is always in motion

Change is fluid

Change is nature

Change is life

This decade calls for so many changes and i am super excited to see how we evolve with these changes.. We consciously create beauty when we see a need for change within and without.

Change is a constant because every matter is constantly vibrating. Even everyone is. Change is invisible just as life is you have to be it” or create it” ( “it being change”).

“Be the change you want to see in the world”..

❤️

Wake up call

Wake up it’s 2:22. The moment you’ve been waiting for..” The bells are ringing.. The trumpets calling.. can you hear it ?? Okay,okay… born ready ! “I said”..while waking up yawning like a new born. Checked my bed size clock, 2:22am and date : 22/01/20, Oh wow another dream..

This was another wake up call and I know I needed that”. That was me from my dream space this morning and I felt I should share that message. That was me being my own wake up call in my dream..

Okay firstly, what is a wake up call?

A wake-up call means an event that makes someone realize/understand that something must change in his/her life. For example- If one’s electric bill is high, it might be a wake-up call to draw up a budget or switch off some appliances.

Sometimes, one has to be his/her own “wake up call”.

Waking up could feel like work if you’re not happy but if you are ..easy breezy.. You know how they say sleep requires peace yeah? It does require peace and that’s why we should always be our own divine source of peace individually and collectively. This could mean organizing, doing your shadow work, detoxing and integrating ( I do this to cultivate myself and I can tell you for certain it’s not for the weak).Life is fight or flight ✈️… where do you stand? What do you stand on?and if you are just waking up, please take your time… Breathe.. there really is no destination.

Yes life is a journey not a destination so your wake up call should be what can you do to enjoy yourself on this fun trip everyday after all there is no destination…

Okay,let’s look at this way. If you’re traveling to a certain place what are the things you would need to know, where would you like to visit and how ?, what activities would you partake in? What kind of people would you love to meet ?

What do you value ?

Whom do you value ?

What is your value?

Remember energy flows where attention goes..

So what defines your day? your life? your art ?

Do you have someone / something to fight or flight for ?

Then what are you waiting for ?

🔔 ringing… listen to the sound of your soul.

Start today!

Today is this present day.

Today is also the beginning of the rest of your life.

Today is the only day you’ve got to make it right.

Today is the moment you have been waiting for.

Today is the most beautiful day you’ve ever seen. Ever watched the sunrise? Damn..

Today is the day that you get to make a different decision.

Today is the perfect day for you to start anything.

Today!!

Today is tomorrow’s today.

Today is the beginning of tomorrow. It sure is!

So what are you doing today that will make your tomorrow feel like an upgrade?!

Stop procrastinating. These are some steps that could help you start today.

1. Make a list. Just as simple as that. Could be penned down or even on the notepad on your phone. It keeps you focused. So look at your list and do one thing on it right now!

2: Set simple achievable goals : Most times, procrastination seems like the only choice due to over daunting goals. Set goals that you are certain is achievable. So if your goal feels daunting, break it into bite-sized steps. Remember, you don’t have to know every step of the way; just the next few steps immediately ahead.

3 : Write down your goals, include a deadline and a reward for yourself: This puts you into action because a goal without a deadline can be put off indefinitely.

4 : Harness fear : This seems weird but it works magic. Fear is a powerful emotion that can keep us mired in excuses. Yet, by focusing on what you don’t want, you can harness it in your favor. So write down how you will feel a year or two from now if you do nothing. Be brave and really honest with yourself about the cost of continued inaction. After all, if nothing changes, nothingchanges!

5: Be brave : Building momentum is crucial as you begin and yes that could be uncomfortable. So commit to stepping out of your comfort zone at least once per day. Start now before your fear-laden excuses, disguised as sheer laziness, kick in again. It can be something really small. After all, it doesn’t matter how fast you are going, so long as you are stepping forward in a direction that inspires and empowers you. So take that first step, then another, then another.. after all a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

6 : Visualize the end result. When you feel the emotions and imagine how it would feel at the end. This is freedom from anxiety or self -doubts. Accomplishing put off tasks could dramatically boost your confidence and energy. So why wait ? Start today.

Start now! Change your patterns. Be better…

Individuality

I am….

The two most important and powerful words of the universe because whatever you say after that you become.

For example saying “I am a beautiful woman” means I “believe” that I am beautiful right ? Same way saying “I am clueless” means you believe you have no clue”.

Individuality simply reminds you of who you are just like the words I am”..

It reminds you that you’re a whole person and even if your choices and decisions are made by someone else it is very important that you arrive at them through independent analysis and thoughts. You know the saying “just because everyone does it doesn’t mean it is right”..Nonetheless, individuality doesn’t mean you should always be a contrarian but it suggests that you take a proactive role in your life and think for yourself.

By all means anything that makes you distinctively you is individuality. This could be in style, your temperaments,attitude,walk, slangs etc.. It’s okay to tap some knowledge and wisdom of the universe but be responsible for your actions and choices because you are “ A WHOLE INDIVIDUAL.

There are so many ways to help figure out your individuality.. You can start by making a list of things that excite you . Inclusive of activities, events, hobbies. Knowing how you arrive at certain decisions in your life could be the game changer you have been waiting for.

Everyone of us has a number of impressive yet distinctive qualities. It’s high time you embraced yours because you can not be someone else.

Words of wisdom( WOW)

Be your own Individual— You came alone and that should mean something..

2020 vision – The redefinition

It’s the 2020’s finally!

The 20th year of the 3rd millineum.

The 20th year of the 21st century and also the 1st year of the 2020’s decade. Wow!!

It’s been a long-ass time coming. We have been expecting you.

For generations, 2020 seemed like the perfect year to come”. A year full of expectations, plans, visions and even huge unexpected changes because of the so called vision 20/20.

What does that mean exactly ? Does Vision 2020 mean to have perfect sight?

According to numerology 2020 = 4

The number 4 signifies – practicality, pragmatism,building solid foundations, home, families, business growth etc .

I for one believe it’s a year full of twist and turns. The year of crystallized visions. The year of Redefining!

On a global scale , the world is changing and 2020 is a physical manifestation of our collective imaginations in terms of growth. So basically the year of massive growth and of course the return”.

This would probably be the redefinition of new global deals, trades, policies, music, art, politics, growth and mostly spiritual awakenings all over the world and that requires individual efforts. We have to redefine where we are in every area of our lives because times have just changed and we are about to experience a whole new decade which usually comes with new energies, waves,sounds, styles etc.

Words of wisdom —Redefine your mind, body and soul. Sculpt and remold!

Wishing you all the best decade of your lives ❤️

Celebrate your small wins

What does an actual ‘win’ really mean?

What does it take to win or lose?

Below are my thoughts..

An actual win simply means — an achievement which means :

It takes “Ballz” to win!

In order to win or have victory, first you must take the required action.

It’s become vivid to me how much our actions are everything..Literally ‘everything’..because to win, you must take action, to lose you also must take action..Life is a series of never ending action..

So now you see how no matter the outcome of any situation you are in actions are everything. Nothing actually happens until you take action.

It’s the season of celebrations per usual but most importantly the season of love,reflection and gratitude.

We tend to live too much inside our heads and sometimes forget to acknowledge the beauty around and within us. So many people fought and conquered so many silent battles this year and even the years before but sometimes they forget to celebrate how much effort they put in after the battle has been won. This is a gentle reminder to always stay gracious and celebrate yourself..irregardless of what time it is..

Get your butt up and celebrate something you accomplished this year..no matter how small. If you think you don’t have any accomplishment to be proud of, then take a look at yourself in the mirror.What do you see?

You’re still here!

That is more than enough.

Yes or yes?

Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a bright new year!

P:S Any thing that’s accomplished should be celebrated.

Recreate!

We are here to create and re create. It is our nature to create! (Nature”,“ natural”).. Take note of those words. As a matter of fact. Read that again..

It is our nature to create therefore you should by law of nature create yourself, your kind of food, your style your “anything”!

We are coming into a new decade and energetically I know this is going to be a hell of a decade..It’s like having a do over of a bad pot of noodles ..

Life is really about individuality and to create you have to destroy ! It is what it is..

I’ve come to create and create I will ✌️

Creating simply means mixing and mastering if I were to describe it the way an artist would. Just as a chef mixed water and pepper to make soup.Just as a writer creates a vivid imagination in your mind while reading.

We have so many labels for things that our words can’t describe hereby making language a huge barrier for pure communication.. Art is a very huge part of life and every single one of us creates everyday. Consciously or Subconsciously .. but we are too busy to slow down and breathe..

We are recreational animals but it’s unfortunate we have to pay to re- create as most of the beautiful natural recreational facilities are now tourist centers and one has to pay. However, do not be discouraged it’s okay to be a clown in this boxed” world. To be recreational doesn’t mean use all the eggs/ sperm in your body to create”. It basically means to learn mix and master something..anything ! Otherwise help/elevate those who can..

I would love to see a world with so many creators living freely and most importantly recognized because there are so many people waiting for someone to take the lead..So many lost souls who need to find their way home..

Wake up !!!!!

The world needs you today. The world needs you right now..

The Universe is screaming come on baby! Take back your power and create..

We are ready for the 2020’s..Let’s FCK shit up !!

Dreams and Visions

What are dreams ? I mean really what are dreams in the definitive sense?

How do you know it was a dream ? Do you know remember it always ? Does it matter ?

Do you know about visions ? Do you understand what it means to have one? Have you ever felt the need to understand any of your dreams and visions ?

I know .. I know I’ve asked so many questions but hey 👋 ..

We attend to our daily, weekly or yearly dreams, goals and visions , our plans for the future, the visions we might have for our next job or next vacation etc. But do we even evaluate the dreams and visions we have? Is it so scary now to be yourself first before anything else ? We tend to run away from the main purpose or reason we are even living in this magical place called Earth and we deliberately chose to run away from the truth because it seems scary..

Dreams are guidance from your highest self to you and it is a special tool you could use to mould your life.. I believe that’s the best way to put it…

I’m writing to implore you to always try to remember your dreams and pen it down it may literally be all you might need to live the life you deserve or desire..

When you are able to merge your dreams with our physical futuristic dreams or practical dreams then you have unlocked a special treasure within you and that my dear royalties is my piece for you today.

Words of Wisdom (WOW) ;

“Help God by helping yourself “ just as it states in the Bible “ Heaven helps those who help themselves” ..

Remember one thing that cannot be recycled is wasted time!

Till the next read

Te amo…

Mornings are Mournings

Good morning Royals, How do you do?

It’s a beautiful morning isn’t it?

Have you ever wondered why morning sounds like mourning ?

Why wake” sounds like wake wakeeping?

Death and rebirth, sleep and wake are all interwoven.

Mornings are new beginnings everyday.

Mourning is a new beginning in its own way ( after a transition/ sleep )but still a “ new beginning”..

When a person dies, a wake-keeping is done. Know why it’s called a wake-keep”? Do you even ask these questions?

Everything we try to do again” is a “morning or a mourning” .. We are either creating or destroying!

Keyword above “do again”- ( everything you want to do has already been done”)It’s all about perception.

Mornings are mournings “ A good morning means goodnight to the you I saw/knew/met yesterday.. I.e The old you” ( which is simply death to yesterday”). We need to begin to * Over-stand not understand * that our words were mostly derived from other cultures, philosophies etc..

How you feel every morning has a huge influence in your whole life. Do you feel like you’re having a good morning ? Or do you feel like you’re mourning?

Everyday is money. Every morning is a bag of money. Spend it wisely!

Word of Wisdom ( WOW) ;

Remember your mornings define your money..Sip a cup of money every morning so you won’t be mourning when others are yawning*

Good morning Royals👑❤️

Gratitude equals Addition

All things bright and beautiful

All creatures great and small

All things wise and wonderful

The lord God made them all

That’s a verse in the old catholic hymns book”

Those words always struck a chord within me anytime I come across em’..Wanna know why?

Well, one of the very first things my parents taught me growing up was gratitude 🙏🏽 and it was the best skill they could have instilled in me.

I always wondered why ants greeted each other while marching.. Ever seen a group of ants( any kind) anywhere? Watch them for just few seconds. It’s mind blowing! A million ants could be marching and they all greet each other. Damn !!.

You can imagine how many ants there are in the world yet no matter what happens when they see each other they stop to greet. That’s love, respect loyalty and Gratitude. I believe this should be every human being’s mindset but you know what I say about Soldiers? Just like the ants not every one is designed to be a soldier and that’s perfectly okay.

You cannot be proud and grateful at the same time. Same way you cannot be proud and productive”.. Haba! Common sense should tell you that”.

From experience I’ve come to understand Gratitude is a very very very humble feeling. It takes nothing to be grateful but it looks like it takes everything.

Gratitude is not just a “ Thank you”. It is an experience, a feeling , a vibration, an energy!.

Imagine ants being so humble greeting and loving on each other yet they are soldiers marching ! How about that???

They are the tiniest of insects but also “SOLDIERS”Gratitude has to “GLADLY” make you feel tiny as an ant. Humility begets gratitude’..

What I call HUMILITY some call HUMILIATING

Mindset!!

Gratitude is one of the most necessary skills you could learn but the hardest to hold onto because humans prefer the “Ego” and honestly it’s super easy to be proud. I mean anyone can be Proud after all.

Even the Bible says “Give thanks in “Every Situation”. The same Bible says “ Pride comes before a fall” ..

The energy of gratitude automatically attracts more things to be grateful for. It’s as simple as 1+1 =2

Gratitude = Addition

It’s that simple..

When you are grateful for good things more good comes your way. Gratitude is attractive. Damn that sh** is sexy…

So my dear Royalties, you gotta wake that ass up ! Jump up if you can because you have for one “Life inside of you” to be thankful for.

Just like fueling fire..The more fuel you pour, the larger the fire gets. Such is the energy of gratitude.The more grateful you are the more fuel you’re pouring onto the fire..

What are you grateful for today?

“How hungry are you”?!

Humming this morning a song “In pidgin language ( native to Africa)

“One Sunday morning ,I wake up from sleep.. I go kitchen I no see food 🥘..

I put on my dress I go one canteen, dem gimme two Loi-loi, one meat..

I chop am no pay.. dem pour me egusi soup, I Dey take style Dey lick am cause the soup was so sweet..

😂

P:S If you know this song we should have a physical office for family meeting ✌️

Meaning of song : One Sunday morning after waking up,I checked on some food in the kitchen to no avail. I dressed up,stepped out to a canteen,placed an order: Two fufu(Loi-loi as is called is cassava starch like eba “) one meat( beef or whatever ..lol) in Egusi ( melon ) soup.

Knowing fully well there was no money to pay I ate and waited to be asked for payment and they*The canteen owners” poured soup on me” as punishment (their point of view) and I licked the soup poured on my body because it was so sweet. ( the songwriters point of view)

How insanely ridiculous is that ?!

That was a very popular song during my childhood around my aunties for some weird reason😒. I believe it has a relevance to what I call “The food chain of how we behave as human beings”. We are programmed to kind of wait till things get terribly bad/sour.. before we do what we’ve always known we would do and that is what brings about Shame,anxiety/depression etc.

According to Paul Coelho” Going after a dream has a price.

It may mean abandoning our habits, it may make us go through hardships, or it may lead us to disappointment.

But however costly, it’s never as high as the price paid by people who live in their comfort zone.

A dream doesn’t have to be a career, marriage, PHD or even traveling the world.It could be a very important decision to be made that may seemingly be irrelevant to you now because *YOU THINK YOU STILL HAVE TOMORROW.. sigh

How hungry are you ?

Every dream REQUIRES SACRIFICE!!

“As you all know by now my weird sense of humor is here thinking .. (according to the song/poem “at the beginning..” )whoever created that song made a seemingly stupid sacrifice to feed” but she did it anyway so she could eat.”

P:s .. I’m sure she could have begged to eat, but she chose what she thought was her “only choice”

It’s all about “PERSPECTIVE”

Anyway back at it:

Keyword : SACRIFICE”

It may mean abandoning your choices/habits or even leaving your family. It may make us go through the dark rabbit hole. Still…

How hungry are you ??? What are you willing to let go to receive?

No guts to glory !

How bad do you want it ?

Till next read❤️

SHARE!!

Why do we hide our feelings ? Especially the bad ones ?

Why?

Why do we share the good ones and get scared to share the bad ones ?

What is it with the word “Bad”?

Why do you believe in “good or bad”?

Have you ever wondered why??

You see.. we have all been programmed to believe words in what we read, what we are told and mostly what we watch.

Words are in everything !!! Everything! Even in silence .. Same as numbers and symbols.

Sharing is simply connecting. It’s one of the main reasons why we are all here. It’s a part of your purpose as a human being to SHARE! The good, the bad and the ugly and until we come to realize that.. there’s a lot to unlearn.

Sharing detoxifies the soul. Just as exercise detoxifies the skin.

Share what you can how you can. Tomorrow is not certain.

Till the next read ❤️