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Fear of abandonment


Let’s talk about this very common fear in our society and it’s different attachment styles. The fear of abandonment is a form of anxiety about losing your loved ones. It is quite common with people who have lost a loved one. So this results into making you feel like the people in your life will disappear if you don’t put all of your efforts into relationships or you might run away from every relationship because you’re afraid of getting your heart broken. Either way, you might have a fear of abandonment.

This fear doesn’t just make a home in your chest overnight. It’s linked to the different experiences you have had with people over the years. You may feel this enormous fear because of a childhood experience or because of an abusive ex-lover.


Abandonment issues also happen when a parent does not provide the child with consistent warm or attentive interactions, leaving them feeling chronic stress and fear. Naturally children are expressive and they need love. Our body holds memory and life is like a repetitive circle. The experiences that happen during a child’s development will often continue into adulthood. This is why abandonment issues become more prevalent as you get older and can affect your relationships.

Abandonment fear could also stem from childhood loss. This loss could be related to a traumatic event, such as the loss of a parent through death, separation or divorce. It can also come from not getting enough physical or emotional care. These early childhood experiences can lead to a fear of being abandoned by others later in life.

How can the fear of abandonment be avoided?

Only the constant presence of parents or guardians in childhood, with affection and attention, can bring the security that the child needs. This way they feel that their survival will be guaranteed and they do not need to be afraid.

In the case of the child who has had conflicts in school and the unsafe partner in the adult relationship, they are both acting unconsciously as a way of drawing the attention of the mother or partner. Calling attention to yourself is an unconscious way of feeling secure.

The child begins to create mechanisms to raise the attention of parents from a very young age. When their brain realizes that their behavior is successful, that it works to gain attention, it becomes automatic so they feel safe and protected. In adult life, the same thing happens: if the fear of abandonment makes your partner try to give you more security, the insecure uses this fear as a way to gain more attention.

Types of Abandonment Issues

Abandonment issues can present themselves in three insecure attachment styles. These are: 

Avoidant Attachment Style

People who follow this style don’t allow anyone to get close to them. You may feel like you can’t open up or trust others, making you appear distant, private, or withdrawn. 

Anxious Attachment Style

People with this type of attachment style cope by developing intensely close and dependent relationships with others. You may feel anxious about separating yourself from your partner and tend to be emotionally reactive. It may be easy to see conflicts as a concern that your partner may leave, which makes you act out of fear. 

Disorganized Attachment Style

People with this attachment style have difficulty remaining intimate and close but can also be inconsistent. You may feel anxious about being in a relationship or want to avoid the closeness. This attachment style may come with other potential disorders. 

Signs you are suffering from fear of abandonment

1. You give too much in relationships

Due to your fear of abandonment, if you choose to start a relationship with someone, you go all in.

You do whatever it takes to please this person and to make them happy.

This goes to the extent of forgetting about your own wants and needs, because theirs are more important to you.

However, forgetting about your own boundaries in the name of a relationship is a clear sign you have a fear of abandonment.

You give too much and receive too little.

Relationships require work from both sides.

If he doesn’t deem all your efforts to be loving and caring acts, then it’s his fault, not yours. You don’t deserve to be in a one-sided relationship.

2. You push people away to avoid rejection

Another sign of your fear of abandonment is if you choose to avoid relationships altogether.

You push people away and don’t let them see your vulnerable side all because you’re scared you’ll get attached to them.

What happens when you get attached? You give them the possibility of hurting you.

You fear rejection because it is a direct blow to your self-esteem. It literally activates your anxiety and fear of abandonment.

That’s why it’s easier to stay away from people than to give them the possibility of hurting you.

3. You are very codependent

A very obvious sign of a fear of abandonment is when you have mostly been involved in codependent relationships.

You thrive on the fact that a person makes you feel needed, even if it’s anything but healthy.

You want to be helpful in every single way possible and they exploit that.

Your previous partners might have seen that they could take advantage of your fear of abandonment and they treated you whatever way they pleased, because they knew you wouldn’t leave.

4. You feel insecure in yourself and with your partner

As said previously, a fear of abandonment is a form of anxiety and it brings a lot of insecurities into your life.

Your fear is the main reason behind the fact that you feel extremely insecure in yourself.

You’re always looking in the mirror and nitpicking all the reasons why you deserve to be heartbroken.

This also transfers into a romantic relationship because if you don’t love yourself right then you can’t love your partner right.

You’re always questioning when he’ll leave you and you see every small fight as the end.

When he’s mad at you for whatever reason, you see that as a sign that he’ll leave you immediately, even if it’s not true.

5. You persist with unhealthy relationships

If you have a fear of abandonment then you should be able to spot it in the number of unhealthy relationships in your life.

Whether it is romantic relationships, friendships, or very unhealthy family links, you always end up as the victim.

This is because you sabotage connections by either being extremely emotionally unavailable or being very clingy.

If the other party is the one who is toxic toward you, you might not even realize it out of the fear that you might get your feelings hurt.

So you end up staying in that relationship as you can’t help it.

6. You’re very clingy

Because of your insecurities and your fear of abandonment, you can also be extremely clingy. What does this involve?

Besides always wanting to be physically around your partner, you’re also always texting and calling him.

If you do get a moment away from your partner, you get extremely anxious and you don’t even realize you’re being clingy.

Your fears and anxieties are valid, but you need to realize that no one is going to leave you permanently just because they have gone out with their friends for the night.

7. You’re jealous

Another very clear sign of a fear of abandonment is when you yourself are an extremely jealous person.

You fear that your partner will find someone better than you and leave you for them.

You see every other woman as a threat.

This leads to very uncomfortable conversations with your partner, where you’re always asking him about the women in his life, even if it’s just co-workers.

A little bit of jealousy can be adorable at times, but when it becomes a symptom of your fear of abandonment, it’s not that cute anymore.

8. You’re in a state of constant anxiety

When you think of your partner, your first instinct isn’t to feel happiness, but rather anxiety.

Your smile fades whenever you think of him and you feel your stomach make a flip.

All of this because you think about all the bad things that could happen in your relationship that may lead to a breakup.

Your first thought might even be the last time you did something wrong in your relationship and he got mad.

This anxiety doesn’t leave you. It gets less obvious when you’re right next to him, but it never truly disappears.

9. You feel unworthy of love

Your insecurities, your clinginess, everything comes from a deeply-rooted fear of abandonment. Just like the fact that you feel unworthy of love.

You feel like no one will ever be able to love you. Even if they say they do, you take that with a grain of salt.

Long-Term Effects of Abandonment Issues

A person who has experienced abandonment may be more likely to have long-term mental health issues. These are often based on the fear that abandonment will recur. A child who was abandoned by a parent or guardian may have mood swings or anger issues. These behaviors become an automated lifestyle that can alienate potential intimate partners and friends. A child’s self-esteem can also be affected by lack of parental support, love or care.

Abandonment fears can impair a person’s ability to trust others. They may make it harder for a person to feel worthy or be intimate. These fears could make a person prone to anxiety, depression, codependence, or other issues. Someone who lacks self-esteem due to childhood abandonment may seek relationships that reinforce their beliefs because that’s the language they understand.

Maintain a positive mind is a way to treat this fear


To overcome this fear, you need to do the following:

  • Maintain a positive attitude and mindset
  • Learn about yourself
  • Understand the people around you
  • Practice the habit of forgiveness
  • Say what you feel (Be clear in your communication with anyone including your partner)

When it comes to relationships, usually the detachment in relationships happens because of some concern that a person is feeling and that their thinking cannot be in focus. The greater the degree of understanding and companionship to overcome this problem, the greater the chances of living healthy relationships, which are based on affection and not on lack or fear of losing. When you are aware of the feelings you both experience, you are most likely to live in peace and harmony.

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How to heal the wounded inner child

Children are born without any means to defend themselves or face the world. Children are totally dependent upon their parents for love, acceptance, and shelter. Sometimes parents fail to provide the emotional, psychological, and physical shelter required for healthy children. This results in adults who are stuck in trauma-time who remain forever ruled by an inside force, the wounded inner child. In Africa where I come from, most parents beat, punish and maltreat their children in order to discipline them. Even worse they barely listen to them which traumatizes them from an early age and they grow up with a different mentality of what love and acceptance truly is.

The inner child is the part in your psyche that still retains its innocence, creativity, awe, and wonder toward life. Quite literally, your inner child is the child that lives within you – within your psyche that is. It is important that we stay connected with this sensitive part of ourselves. When we are connected to our inner child, we feel excited, invigorated, and inspired by life. When we are disconnected, we feel lethargic, bored, empty and unhappy.

Growing up, it is the emotional and biological responsibility of our parents and family members to create a safe environment for us. But not all parents accept that responsibility, are aware of that responsibility, or have the capacity to fulfill that responsibility.

Safety doesn’t just mean physically protecting us from harm, feeding us, or the other essentials. Safety also means supporting us on the emotional, psychological, and spiritual levels inherent to us as human beings.

The process of healing your wounded inner child is one of grief, of pain. Do you have a wounded inner child inside yourself? Every child faces emotional challenges that are key-points for their personality. Parents and family are fundamental to give emotional support to overcome those challenges and create an environment of safety and protection. Although each of us has some issues that come from unprocessed emotions as a child, and for that, we all have wounds, some of us need to pay close attention to this wounded inner child.

The traumas that come from childhood have a substantial impact on your daily life and future decisions, and most of the times, we have trouble recognizing them, making them even more critical. For example, someone can avoid meaningful relationships if the environment at home was of fight and incomprehension. In extreme situations, these wounds can compromise someone’s life.

Let’s find out more about the wounded inner child and how to heal your relationship with it! Find out how to get into a reflective space.

Connect with your inner child


Start by thinking about your childhood, reflect about it. How was the environment at home? Did you feel safe? Did you feel a sense of belonging with your parents? Were you allowed to be your true self? How do you feel when you remember yourself as a child? Asked this to yourself and write down the answers and reflect about it.

Remember to take care of you, to be there for you, to take time for yourself.

Signs that you have a wounded inner child

There are some signs you need to pay close attention. If you identify many of these in your current life, remember that you need to do an effective work-related to your wounded inner child. These inside parts of ourselves have a significant impact on how we see ourselves and how we behave as adults. Some signs you have a wounded child might include that :

  • You feel there’s something wrong with you
  • You experience anxiety when you face something new
  • You want to please everyone around you
  • You experience the need to be in conflict
  • You feel inadequate
  • No achievement feels enough for you
  • You always criticize yourself
  • You are rigid and perfectionist
  • You struggle to say “no” and stand up for yourself
  • You have trusting issues
  • You never feel close to others.
  • Have a deep feeling that there is something wrong with you
  • Are a people-pleaser
  • Are a rebel and feel alive when in conflict with someone else
  • You are a hoarder
  • Are not able to let go of possessions and people
  • Experience anxiety with something new
  • Feel guilty for setting boundaries
  • Are driven to be a super-achiever
  • Are ridged and a perfectionist
  • Have problems starting and finishing tasks
  • Exhibit constant self-criticism
  • Feel ashamed at expressing emotions
  • Feel ashamed of your body
  • Have a deep distrust of anyone else
  • Avoid conflict, no matter what the cost
  • Have a deep-seated fear of abandonment.

If you feel you connect to many of these issues, let’s find out more about how you can heal your inner child.

Repeat supporting affirmations

  1. I love you: some of us used to think we needed to achieve more to be enjoyed. Tell your inner child it’s loved no matter what.
  2. I hear you: some adults don’t pay attention to what children say, what can deeply hurt someone’s feelings and never really feel they have something meaningful to share with the others. Don’t suppress your inner voice!
  3. You didn’t deserve this: it’s easy to convince ourselves we needed to suffer, or we did something wrong, and that’s why bad things are happening. Change your mindset with these simple words.
  4. I’m sorry: allow yourself to feel ok with the things you did and didn’t do, say sorry to yourself for all the times you pushed too much.
  5. I forgive you: let go of the same and regrets.
  6. Thank you: be thankful to your inner child for all the things you did, show gratitude.
  7. You did your best: accept your failures and acknowledge you’ve always done the best of you.

You can create other affirmations or mantras that are important to you, more specific to the feelings you have to heal with your inner child. Be creative, be free and always positive!

Write a letter to your inner child

Writing a letter to your inner child will help you to organize your thoughts, but it will also strengthen all the things you have left to say. There is no formula; you can write whatever you feel you haven’t yet said and that will help with this relationship.

You can also write a letter from your inner child. Get in deep connection with it and let go and write down all the things that once you wanted to say, but you were not able to. It can be one of the most potent and releasing experiences of your life.

If needed, you can repeat both practices as many times as necessary until you feel your voice was finally heard, the one from now and the one from the child in you.

Do an inner child visualization or meditation

Search for mantras, meditation or visualization that can lead you towards meeting your inner child. You can do it with the help of a coach or therapist. Another option is that you record the steps with your voice and then listen.

  1. Close your eyes
  2. Imagine yourself walking to a place where you feel safe and enter that place
  3. Give yourself some time to feel relaxed, safe and connected to this place
  4. Walk around and let your inner child appear to you
  5. Come close: What is your inner child’s face like? What are the emotions it expresses? What are the words said? – Give yourself time to communicate with it, make a question or listen to what is there to be said.
  6. Give a hug to your inner child and be thankful for it to show to you and be able to reconnect.
  7. Come back to where you were.
  8. Talk to your adult self to ask for aid in grown-up decisions
  9. Give rewards to yourself every day
  10. Get plenty of sleep
  11. Practice mindfulness to remain present
  12. Tell yourself that you love you even if it feels awkward
  13. Think about the good memories you had in childhood
  14. Make new “good” memories and traditions

After finishing, try journaling your experience. Repeat it as many times as you like, allowing different aspects of this wounded inner child and your relation to come to light. This is a very powerful tool that helped me personally on my healing journey anc could be the turning point you need.

Remember to take care of you, to be there for you, to take time for yourself. Being your protector every day is a vital part if this process, and will allow your wounded inner child to feel safe as never before, because it will be no longer dependent on the others, but it knows it can truly rely on yourself.

Practice mindfulness to remain present Tell yourself that you love you even if it feels awkward Think about the good memories you had in childhood Make new “good” memories and traditions

If you are interested in working with your inner child, I want you to reflect on your own childhood, the timeline of your early years, and how you felt as a child. Did you feel safe? Did you feel a sense of belonging in your family? Were you permitted to be you? What is your current relationship with your inner child like? All of these questions are extremely important to ask, and if you haven’t asked them yet, I hope you do. If you would also like a deep healing approach or if you prefer one on one help, feel free to drop a comment down below or send me an email. Would be glad to be of assistance.

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Types Of Multidimensional Beings

Did you know that you are a multidimensional being? All humans are. Just as we also interdimensional beings. We exist in the first, second and third dimensions all the time, but we also extend into the fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh dimensions and beyond that as we develop our higher mind and expand our consciousness.

Many people think of multi dimensional beings as beings that can move between dimensions, and they exist in a dimension outside of our own. They never comprehend the idea that we are capable of being multidimensional beings ourselves. Even those who claim to have the greatest understanding of multi, inter and extra-dimensional beings forget all too easily that the human mind is an amazing tool and can elevate us to greatness if we work and train it.

Whether we like it or not, entities are everywhere in the 4th dimensional field around us. If you’ve been drawn to read this post, then I imagine you have already experienced the challenges that having beings around you might bring.

It’s a bit of a taboo subject in western culture, one of those subjects where people are a bit concerned about being labelled as ‘crazy’ so I felt inclined to break the ice and bring a bit of light to the subject. There are 4 main types of Multidimensional Beings which are animals, guides, angels and Extraterrestrials ( ET ).


Animals

Animals are far more than meets the eyes. Most come from other areas of the universe and in a certain respect they are Extra Terrestrials incarnated on earth. The bodies they inhabit on their home planet may be completely different to their bodies here or may be very similar. As humans are involved in a reincarnation cycle on earth, each group of beings throughout the universe has there own reincarnation cycle. The beings of each cycle have a similar consciousness and have similar personalities. They are expressing a part of the creator simply by being themselves. All life is evolving to a certain extent and so as each group continues its incarnations it gradually changes and becomes more of itself. Individuals can incarnate into different cycles for a life and return to their cycle or even leave their cycle and join another one if they desire to do so but generally groups tend to stay together. The reason for this is that the individuals in a group all have a connection to the same being of higher consciousness. For example all humans have higher selves which have higher selves which have higher selves which eventually meet up with each other. We are in fact the expression of a huge being that incarnates through all of us. The same goes for other civilizations and groups of beings.

It is important here to understand that the animal’s spirit or higher self comes through its light body which like ours does not shine through with perfect clarity. Like us, animals have an astral body which incarnates through the etheric and physical bodies.

Animals may seem to be less evolved than humans but if you were to see them on their home planets and in their multidimensional bodies you may realize that they are in fact very advanced. They have incarnated here into bodies that are very restricted and very much controlled by the instincts of the lower self as we reside in the 3rd dimension where matter is extremely dense. Remember that it is only a small part of them that resides within the body and as the instincts take control of their body in most situations many conclude that they are of lower consciousness than us intelligent humans. This is an illusion which was important for our purposes on earth.

All animals resonate with vast beings of higher consciousness and are but a part of these beings incarnating into the third dimension. They have come here to help us with our purposes and are all beings of infinite love and light.

What further facilitates our capacity to more fully understand and, by so doing, more deeply experience inner-peace, is when we are able to acknowledge the possibility that the human race is made up of multi-dimensional beings at varying degrees of conscious evolution and spiritual awakening. Add to this the spiritual ‘bigger picture’ that we are all a part of The Divine Plan, where all is known, pre-determined, in support of the evolutionary journey of each Soul. (Note that free will is part of The Divine Plan, for all rivers (choices/lessons) lead to the same ocean (ultimate understanding). By resonating with these phenomena, we begin to consciously acknowledge the multi-levelled experience that is life on Earth, the multi layered experiences that accompany spiritual evolution and can thus begin to consciously acknowledge, recognize, integrate and embody the fact that we ourselves are indeed multi-dimensional beings.


Guides

Guides are usually other beings who have incarnated as humans before. They are just like us except they are not incarnated while they are your guide. They may or may not incarnate again on earth but generally they have incarnated at least once before. They are fit to help guide you because they know what it is like to be here and they are not currently incarnated. They are essentially residing in their light body in higher dimensions and so they have a much broader view of reality. They are not distorted by the astral body so they can communicate with many levels, beings and dimensions clearly and with ease.

They have agreed to help guide you from the other side for this life. They are in contact with your own higher self and they know your purpose for incarnating on earth. They know a lot about you and your future and will help in whatever way they can for your highest good. However they cannot help you if you do not want them to or if what you ask is against your higher self’s purpose. All beings in higher dimensions respect your free will and it is a rule that they may not impinge upon it. If you ask them to help you they will certainly do all that they can (as long as what you ask for is within your highest good).


Angels

Angels are from higher dimensions and do not incarnate into matter. They are like creator’s messengers and healers. They will always come when asked and help to heal you and send you love. As they come from higher dimensions of love and light they are unable to really feel and understand what it is to be human. They can send us love and healing and help to guide us through certain periods of life. They are essential when it comes to spiritual work as they send vital light and love to help heal our energy bodies, activate the Light body and repair its structures. Without their help spiritual transformation would be extremely slow if possible at all.

There are different types of angels with specific tasks. For example a certain group of angels play a huge role in pregnancy and birth. If you tune into a pregnant woman with your third eye you will see and feel a huge amount of gold light around her which is the light of these angels. Incarnation into matter is a very hard process for the incoming spirit and these angels are vital for the process.

In the last 20 years (during the age of Pisces) a huge number of angels and other beings have begun to help with our spiritual awakening and transformation. Prior to this it was far more difficult to make real progress as the energies needed to transform and activate our energy bodies were not here for us.

Through your daily meditation practices you will quickly become aware of the presence of angels around you and you will be able to connect with them and communicate at any time. They are truly amazing beings. There are also guardian angels assigned to every single one of us since birth and you can connect and communicatee with them when you get ready. Just say the word. They cannot interfere without your permission, because of our free will.

Extra Terrestrials

Extra Terrestrials are any beings incarnated in the 1st to the 9th dimension that come from a planet other than Earth. There is an amazing variety of life in this universe and the number of life forms is nothing short of miraculous. There are civilizations and cultures living on and within many planets all over the universe. They come in all shapes and sizes such as insect like giants, dolphins or other humanoid beings. In all of the 9 material dimensions there is a birth and death experience as a being incarnates into the life form and eventually leaves.

In higher dimensions it is not uncommon for beings to live for thousands of years or even hundreds of thousands. On these planets and in the dimensions inhabited by such long lived beings you would find places of amazing harmony and spiritual knowledge. To us these worlds would seem like heaven and in a sense they are. In fact compared to our lives on earth almost the entire universe is heaven from a dualistic point of view.

It is quite possible for humans to incarnate on other planets in between lives on earth. It is also possible for ETs to incarnate here for a life and this has occurred many times throughout history. However there is a group of beings who make up the human race and these are the ones who make up the vast majority of people here.

Some people who have recently incarnated on other planets may have strange memories of such a place and know very well that it was another planet. They may be able to telepathically connect with beings from the other planet or may be visited in dreams by these beings. It is not just the angels and guides that are helping us but also many ETs from many different planets and dimensions. The connections formed through a few of us having lives on other planets were to help ground some of the forces from various planets and dimensions onto earth.

There are many ETs around the earth at the moment in various spaceships and the like. Many are in higher dimensions and so cannot be seen but there are also ships that can become third dimensional. These ETs are mostly here to help us to shift into the 4th dimension and to see what has been happening here. We have been involved in something never tried before and the results will affect the entire universe. So we have aliens all around us and many of you will have connections with certain groups. These groups are here to help us and use what they know about healing to help heal our subtle bodies. During meditation and sleep you may be visited by various ETs, they will help heal you and speed up your spiritual transformation.

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Multidimensional Beings

All beings are multidimensional including humans. Our problem is that we have forgotten our multidimensional nature and have been disconnected from much of ourselves.

Whether you know it or not, you are a multidimensional being of staggering proportions. You are more than meets the eye, much more — more than your body, more than your soul, in fact, you are an integral part of the Universe. If you read my post on What is the Spirit, soul and body? You would understand that you are part of the composite consciousness that is the Universe and beyond! You are actually present on many levels of reality simultaneously and more powerful than you have ever imagined. Are you ready to expand your concept of selfhood to include higher selves, other/parallel selves, and probable selves? If so then, let’s dive in!

We are all multidimensional beings, crossing the dimensions at will and unknowingly. The higher your vibrations and natural positivity, the higher dimension you are dwelling upon.

So the topic of multidimensionality or the word “multidimensionality” is a little bit of a fuzzy one to the person who is not fully familiar with the term. It is almost like the term the universe -what does the universe even mean? So we will attempt to explain it with a little bit more precision.

A human being in your focused frequency, in your now, is doing many things at one moment.

To be multidimensional is to have your reality focused in multiple dimensions at one time.

That might seem a little wild to you, a little “Back to the Future” for you to realize that you might be in several different dimensions at one time, but we would say to you, you are now in many familiar dimensions. Literally!

In other words, as you sit reading this material, you are a cellular being. Your heart is beating. Your breath is moving through your body. Your food is digesting, or your stomach is crying out for more food. Your brain is sending synapses through your body. Your hair is growing. Your nails are growing. Your bug bites are itching, or you are hearing sounds that the brain is processing as background noise. Your eyes are reading the lines of this. You are recalling memories or associative images from reading this material. You are swallowing perhaps, or you are thinking about what will come after reading this material and we would say to you that all of this is happening in your now and in multiple layers which we are calling dimensions.  

Makes sense?

It may be a little bit of a foreign concept to consider being hungry as a different dimension from processing and reading material, but it is. Because dimension is simply a place of energy; a focusing of energy that results in a reality or a world of recognizable focus.  

In the same way that your body is creating all these levels of processing – as well as the brain and the personality – understanding what abilities and what focus it exists as, we would say to you that non-physically you are souls – you are in a soul organization and you are also your version of your focused frequency.

You understand yourself as that person with a particular birthday, with a particular focus on today’s date, but there is also all the other versions of you that exist from your birthday to the present now.

So we can go broader and broader and broader in our examples of multidimensionality in the sense that we are simply just speaking initially of you from your birthday and every energetic deviation of that.

Our states fluctuate constantly from one dimension to the other, being in several dimensions at the same time. Very often we live in several dimensions at the same time. However, most of us at the present time are mostly in the vibrations of fear and anxiety, which results in being mostly in the lower 3d vibrations for most of the waking state. Hence why you should always work on raising your vibration.

In order to break the cycle of fear and lower density, regular moments of coming back to oneself is needed throughout the day, especially morning and night time. The best time to cross across the magic of dimensions is at sunset and sun dawn, when the Earth’s own transitions and cycles help us travel through the dimensional veils.

Try this small physical exercise. Sit or stand in a safe place, and just experience your feet on Mother Earth, your weight, your breath. ( The power and benefits of grounding) Listen to your body guiding you in the places it needs attention, listen to your feelings and emotions, even the one that you have no desire to admit to. Just experience your self-be. Let go of negative imagination, let go of the 3D dimension and allow yourself to dip into the higher dimensions.

Humans are multidimensional beings composed of many parts and with connections to many dimensions. The human as well as the Universe are far more complex than scientists would have you believe. As physics is the science of the physical realm and its laws and functions, Metaphysics is the science of all realms, their laws and functions. From a Metaphysical viewpoint the physical world that we see before us is the third dimension.

There are other physical dimensions ranging from the 1st to the 9th dimensions and then many more above the 9th which are not so much physical dimensions but dimensions of consciousness and many dimensions below the first which are dimensions of material. The material in these lowest dimensions is in a state of fertile chaos and is yet to be formed into physicality.

The lowest dimension and the highest are actually one and the same. At the deepest level of reality called the Ultimate Reality or the Absolute where all is one, before any differentiation, the two forces meet and truly are One. This state is often referred to as the void, as it has no form and no movement, just perfect balance. All of creation is contained within this void in a dormant state. From the Ultimate reality the first differentiation between active and passive forces occurs, creating consciousness (the active or Yang/Male side of creation) and material (the passive or yin/female side of creation). From these two differentiations of the absolute everything is created.

Matter has been formed by Consciousness into certain frequencies of vibration. For instance the 9th dimensional material vibrates at a much faster rate than the 2nd. The slower the vibration of the matter, the more dense the physicality of the dimension will be. As consciousness vibrates very fast it is much harder for it to incarnate into the lower dimensions and it has less control of the physical substance there. In the Third Dimension we need to eat food and drink water to gain energy for our physical bodies’ survival and hence the need for the food chain. In some higher dimensions, energy and sustenance for the physical body can be obtained directly from the atmosphere. The 9 dimensions are separated from one another by certain structures of energy but physically they can be in the same place. For example the earth has an expression of itself in each dimension. These different dimensional expressions of earth are all in the same place and are all a part of the same earth.

A multi-dimensional being could go to and explore Earth in all of the dimensions but humans can only see and explore her third dimensional aspect because we have a third dimensional body.

You could experience these other levels while in your physical body by cultivating your subtle perception. If you could raise our body’s vibration to a high enough level we could then enter the fourth dimension and explore there. Although the Dimension’s are somewhat separate, they do interact and are all vital for each other. It’s like a tower, without the foundations you cannot have a first level and without the first level you cannot have the second. So the dimensions are places where being’s can incarnate into matter and live a life in the particular dimension that the chosen body is made for.

Many Extra-Terrestrial’s have bodies that can move through dimensions such as between the 4th to the sixth. The fifth would be this ET’s natural resting place but they have the ability to densify or lighten their body to move up or down to the 6th or 4th dimensions at will. Because a being is able to move between dimensions does not mean they are more evolved than a human. Their body is certainly more versatile and can do many amazing things that a human cannot but this is due to their incarnation into a multi-dimensional body.

The human is a being of consciousness which transcends all dimensions and who has incarnated into a human body for a short period of time. It’s next incarnation may be here again or in a much higher dimension or a lower one or maybe it will not incarnate again. The point here is that higher dimension does not mean better, it is just a different place to incarnate and leads to different experiences.

The variety of beings out there which you will become aware of through awakening your third eye (a.k.a your first eye or your mind’s eye) and spiritual transformation is truly amazing. From nature spirits to angels to Extraterrestrials to huge beings maintaining the dimensions to the tiny beings in particles, there are beings everywhere. An explanation of the infinite variety of beings in existence is beyond the scope of any book as it is truly infinite. By awakening your spiritual senses, you will inevitably become aware of many different beings and you will be able to communicate directly with them.

The communication used is telepathic although sometimes you may actually hear words. Generally, telepathy involves the transmission of feelings which the receiver can then put into words much like a translation. There will always be information lost in translation just like when trying to explain to someone an experience you have had. Can they ever really know how you felt by your description alone? Can you know the taste of a piece of fruit by a description? You may get some idea but you can never know until you taste it. Indeed even with friends, loved ones and others here on earth telepathic communication could rid the world of so many misunderstandings.

When communicating with beings in other dimensions it is sometimes a good idea to save the translation for later. While communicating simply use the means available and wait until the end to try to put things into words. Telepathy and inter-dimensional communication is based on feelings. The reason most cannot communicate in this way is that they are not in touch with their feelings.

There are some beings that are working with humans here on earth who are helping with our spiritual transformation. These include Guides, Angels and Extra-Terrestrials. There are other multidimensional beings that can and do interact with us such as Animals, but these are the main ones that you will be in contact with and who will be helping with your spiritual awakening and self development. For this reason I will give a brief description of these beings in my next post.

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Chromotherapy: How to balance physical, mental and emotional health with colors

Life on our planet, as we know it, depends on light. Light creates life and if it were not for the sun’s energy, life on our planet would cease to be. It makes sense then, as instruments are developed to harness the color light spectrum, that our body would respond in healing ways to this exposure(such as infrared, light therapy sauna treatments etc.)

When colors enter the body as light, they have an effect on the health of our brain, organs and body systems. Different colors are powerful and able to not only stimulate different parts of the body and the mind but heal them completely. These practices have existed since the ancient times in Egypt and Asia.

The rainbow has long since been a promise of hope and love for inhabitants of planet earth. These auspicious moments afford us the unique opportunity to observe the color spectrum of light that encircles us at all times. While the rainbow of color can only be observed with our eyes under particular conditions of moisture occurring simultaneously with the sun’s luminosity, in reality, this spectrum of color bathes and serenades us in its beauty at all times.

Chromotherapy or Color Therapy Healing is the practice that uses the 7 colors of the spectrum to improve our mental well-being and the health of our bodies. The 7 colors (of the rainbow as discussed in COLORS AND SPIRITUALITY) have the ability to affect the vibrations of the body in the frequencies that affect health, welfare and harmony.

So how does color therapy work?

Well, in exactly the same way that different frequencies of sound energy are musical pitches, so are colors different frequencies of visible light energy.

As you already know, each cell, organ, and body system has its own distinct frequency. When disease strikes, that frequency is altered. But it can be easily corrected by applying the original healthy frequency in the form of colored light.

Chromotherapy, or color light therapy, is a holistic and non-invasive treatment that can bring health and balance to your body and mind. Specialists and healers know that the vibrations of colors in these therapy sessions improve the overall health, since colors adjust body vibrations to frequencies that result in balance and harmony.

Each color possesses frequencies of a specific vibration, and each vibration is related to different physical symptoms. So, how does it work and which are the colors of the color spectrum that treat specific body areas?

How Chromotherapy can heal your body and mind

With the physical and mental body, it happens the same way. Chromotherapy can help harness the energy of the sunlight to boost natural healing ability of the body, not only to cure diseases but also to prevent them. Within the mental plane, they stimulate emotions and feelings such as:

  • Vitality and passion (Red);
  • Optimism and expansion (Orange);
  • Healing and growth (Green);
  • Joy and Creativity (Yellow).

We should remind you that colors are made up of reflected lights that hit our retinas as wavelengths vibrate. Our brain then interprets these wavelengths, which makes our perception of color a physical and sensory experience.

The therapy itself is based on the idea that colors create electrical impulses in our brains that stimulate hormonal and biochemical processes in our body and these processes either calm or stimulate us.

In a Chromotherapy session, the therapist will give you a color analysis and explain you the effects of the colors. Then, you will be asked about the aspects of your life on which these colors can improve.

Keep in mind that your color therapy session and the shades of colors used will vary depending on the type of ailment that you are trying to correct.

Color therapy for the body

Color therapy works on various energy points to help balance your body via the full spectrum of visible light, each color addressing a distinct need.

When used for healing the body, Chromotherapy utilizes colors based on their electrical and heating properties. Some colors actually cool and soothe the nerves while some can excite or heat the blood. So, in this sense reddish colors, in color therapy, are used to stimulate and increase the action of arterial blood.

Yellow sunlight, for example, can be enhanced through yellow glass to help treat patients suffering from chronic bronchial irritation and colds. Drinking water stored in yellow wine bottles is known to help treat severe constipation.

Blue and violet colors have cooling and electrical properties. Blue light color therapy helps with sciatica and even complex case of lung haemorrhage. Blue and white used together in chromotherapy helps to treat rheumatism or nervousness.

Chromotherapy for the skin

In recent years light therapy has become popular in spas around the world as people look for non-invasive ways to reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles. As it turns out, the same positive impact that light therapy has on cellular regeneration in other parts of the body also applies to the skin.

From healing serious burn wounds, psoriasis, and providing mesmerizing effects on skin vitality, chromotherapy coupled with exposure to the infrared spectrum of light is producing groundbreaking results as a skin treatment. In addition to the results that light therapy has on the skin, it has also been found to enhance and stabilize mood for individuals suffering from depression and seasonal affective disorder.

Chromotherapy capitalizes on the benefits derived from exposure to the color spectrum of light to ignite biochemical changes in the body and brain. Skin is rejuvenated, sleep is improved, and mood is stabilized. When this therapeutic practice is done, you see the benefits instantly as magic begins to occur at the physiological level.

An overview of colors used in Chromotherapy

We all know that light is composed of colors. This is, light can actually be broken down into a seven color spectrum: red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo and violet.

As one of the most ancient healing therapies that have been used in several parts of the world – since color therapy possibly has roots in Indian medicine, ancient Egyptian culture and traditional Chinese healing – alternative medicine practitioners that work with Chromotherapy often relate the seven colors of the color spectrum to specific body areas, namely:

Red

Red is believed to increase the pulse, raise blood pressure and increase the rate of breathing. Red would be applied to support circulatory and nervous functions.

Strong pink

This color acts as a cleanser, strengthening veins and arteries.

Pink

Pink activates and eliminates impurities in the blood stream.

Orange

As a mixture of red and yellow, orange activates and eliminates localized fat. Assists with asthma and bronchitis.

Strong yellow

Strong yellow strengthens the body and activates internal tissues.

Yellow

Yellow has been used to purify the skin, to help with indigestion, to strengthen the nervous system, to treat glandular diseases, hepatitis and lymphatic disorders and to assist metabolism.

Green

As a mixture of blue and yellow, green, a color associated with harmony, provides a neutral, positive calming effect.

Strong green

Strong green provides anti-infectious, anti-septic and regenerative stimulation.

Strong blue

Strong blue lubricates joints, helps address stress, nervous tension and infections.

Blue

Blue promotes relaxation and calm. Blue exhibits tranquilizing qualities often used to relieve headaches and migraines, colds, stress, nervous tension, rheumatism, stomach pains, muscle cramps and liver disorders. Blue is thought to have a positive effect on all kinds of pain.

Indigo

Indigo is used to address conditions involving the eyes, ears and nose. It has a calming, sedative effect.

Violet

This color is used to calm the nervous system, soothe organs and relax muscles. Violet has very calm & meditative characteristics which is often used to treat conditions of the lymphatic system and spleen, as well as urinary disorders and psychosis.

The colors according to the rainbow, the chakras, the aura are all the same and are used in that manner, corresponding to the disease and the connecting chakra as seen below.

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COLORS AND SPIRITUALITY

The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts.

Color holds power. It can affect and alter our decisions, moods, behaviors and even our emotions. When you focus on a specific color, or it’s overwhelming light in your field of vision, this can influence your energy vibrations.

Of course, you see a lot of color all the time, so it doesn’t mean that every single color you see will have an effect on you. Instead, it’s really about your focus.

Why are we attracted to specific colors and what do they spiritually mean?

Each human body, even though it is an aggregate of many vibrations and radiations of the energies of the cosmic, has its own specific frequency and vibration. Just as the tuning fork has its natural vibratory state, that is, a rare vibration to which it resonates and responds particularly and white constitutes its pitch, so does your body. This particular vibratory rate, which we all have, correspond to some hue of color in the vast spectrum of colors.

Each of us as a vibrating unit of matter in this universal cell of existence has a natural color value which is our individual color.

When you select a color that you like, or one that harmonizes with our inner self in this manner, you are really fitting into the great cosmic spectrum in the same manner that the bands in the spectrum of light are all in proper order and relationship, making for a harmonious whole which manifests as personal satisfaction and imperturbability.

Color is a micro-consciousness like our senses of taste and smell, color helps us to understand the world around us. While it gives us elementary survival skills, allowing us to appreciate everything from the beauty of the rainbow , to the aesthetic pleasure of painting, color also enriches our lives.

THE RAINBOW 🌈 SPECTRUM OF LIGHT

Rainbows are part of the myths of many cultures all over the world . Rainbows are often portrayed as omens, sometimes as bridges between people and supernatural beings. The shape of a rainbow also resembles the bow of an archer.

A rainbow shows up as a spectrum of light, a band or familiar colors that includes red, orange, yellow, green, blue and violet. White light is how our eyes perceive all the colors of the Twinkie mixed together. Sunlight seems white but when the sunlight hits a rain droplet, some of the light is reflected.

However, anytime you see a rainbow, it is usually a positive symbol.

The hertz vibration of the planet is now rising as well as everything on, in and around it. We are now able to perceive new colors that we have not seen before. Notice the light as it reflects off the bark and leaves of trees and of the soil, notice the color of the sky. Colors are becoming richer and deeper, and many new colors are making themselves available to our perception.

The new colors are not so new. They are the in between colors and the paper colors or the rainbow palette.

Below is a deep dive of some colors, their alchemy, real meanings, their spiritual power and uses:


BLACK

Black absorbs and hides and creates confusion and chaos, new beginnings, knowledge of hidden things, is the container of light, one of the most powerful color. Use black for the self-control, time and patience. Black is also a good color to use to bring discord and confusion within the enemy. It can also be used for protection, wrap negative energy, breaking barriers and blocks, reverse and destroy negative thought forms. It ‘s better if applied to others. Black controls the base chakra, the planet Saturn, the earth element and the original religions, it means new beginning. Satanic alchemy, black represents the step into the void of meditation and transformation.

BLUE

Truth, wisdom, protection, peace of mind, loyalty, occult power and expansion. Jupiter is the color royal blue. Fortunately, expansion, abundance, long journeys, higher education, legal issues, taxes (use together with the green), investments, foundations, prosperity, and opportunity. Spiritually, summon demons, healing, inspiration, devotion, serenity, sincerity and truth, faith, inner peace, knowledge and wisdom, harmony in the home, occult power and expansion. Blue can also be used in spells, when the color is applied to the other and directed to incite depression, sadness, helplessness, lack of sympathy, coldness and be gloomy. The blue chakra controls the throat. The blue and the water element.

GOLD

Great luck, intuition, understanding, divination, fast luck, financial benefits (I think that gold will attract more money – to use the green with golden reflections for meditation on money). Gold is used for healing, happiness, authority, reputation, honor, and personal power. Use the gold to the trust, fame, success in the game, please, make sure popularity / charisma, improve health and vitality, healing, protection, success, and magical power. Gold is one of the most powerful color. Satan has a golden aura. Gold is the color of the Sun and the element fire. Satanic alchemy, gold represents perfection of the soul. Both the colors gold and white gold are seen everywhere in the hieroglyphs of ancient Egypt, temples and pyramids. Gold is the color of wealth and power.

GREEN

Money, fertility, wealth, material gain, health, healing, communication with the spirits of nature, anti-inflammatory. Venus is green – love. Making love (fond, red is for lust and sex), fidelity, reconciliation, beauty, youth, friendship, attraction, harmony, financial gain, increase the gain, social functions, possessions, wealth, indulgence, pleasure. Great for the beginning and growth. Venus is the master at Green – abundance, fertility, success, happiness in general, harmony, immortality, generosity, material gain, renewal, marriage, balancing and healing. Green can also be used to incite jealousy, greed, suspicion, resentment, illness, disorder, disharmony when applied to others and direct. Green is the color of the heart chakra.

INDIGO COLOR

Meditation, psychic abilities, telepathy, mind reading, communication with spirits, absorbing knowledge telepathically. The Moon is the host to the color indigo. Indigo is the quintessential element / ether / spirit. Indigo governs the third eye, along with the colors silver and white, and the sixth chakra.

ORANGE

Creativity, enthusiasm, energy, stamina, and mighty is the color of the major changes. Orange helps with adaptability, attraction, sudden changes, stimulation, enthusiasm, creativity, energy, take control, change your luck, lobbying for justice. The Sun rules the orange. The orange chakra governs the sexual / creative (2 °), and is the element of fire.

COLOR PURPLE

Psychic ability, wisdom, divination, remove curses, healing, psychic work, business success, to influence people in power. Powerful color with the energies that can be difficult to manage. It can be used to apply incited others to tyranny, abuse of power, idealism and influence people who have power over you. Great for inviting sadness and resentment in others. Jupiter rules the purple. The purple crown chakra governs.

RED

Energy, passion, anger, inflammation, lust, strength, protects against psychic attacks. Mars rules the red. Revenge, anger, pure sex drive, physical gratification, courage, determination, confrontation with the enemy. Red is used to incite incidents, fires, and injuries. Red can also be used for self-esteem, athletics, strength, magical energy to create black magic (good for the strengthening of themselves before performing black magic) and inducing intensity. Incites lust, energy, strength, sexual energy, dynamism, passionate love, physical desire, courage, willpower, athletics (especially racing) and vitality. Used in the black, red, unlike the black door immediate attacks, accidents, blood, violence and hatred. The red can be used to incite war, anarchy and cruelty. Mars rules the red. Red is the element of fire. Both red and white rule the base chakra.

COLOR SILVER

Develops psychic abilities to neutralize the situation, repels destructive forces, working with the powers of goddesses. The Moon rules silver. House and the immediate vicinity, imagination, memory, mental awareness / dreams, spirituality, meditation. For psychological purposes, meditative / hypnotic. The Moon rules silver. Silver rules the third eye.

WHITE

For each order, balance the aura, because all colors originate from white. Energy, security, stimulation, inspiration, destroys destructive energies, cleanses the aura. Provides protection when applied to others and direct. The Moon rules white. The White governs the third eye, along with indigo and silver.

YELLOW

Yellow is the color of intellect, computers, communication, audio, video, TV, electronics, books, and literature. Yellow rules the solar chakra of will. Ruled by the planet Mercury, yellow can be used to pass exams, improve the mind, deep concentration, mental power, ability to learn, speeches, writings, publications, communication problems, gossip, slander, interviews, brothers, sisters, neighbors, noise, theft, all areas of study and communication, including astral projection, overcome addictions, break habits. Great for friendship, imagination, creativity (the orange is more potent for creativity), inspiration and charisma. The yellow may be used to incite disloyalty, cowardice, decadence, sickness, death, madness, and inconsistency in others. Yellow is the air element. Yellow rules the solar plexus chakra (ie the third chakra).

Day by day, what you choose, what you think and what you do is who you become. Choose intentionally and develop the habit of using colors to your advantage because whether you do it or not it’s being used to program and reprogram you consciously and subconsciously.

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GIVE IT YOUR ALL OR NOTHING

I’ve discovered that the difference between success and failure is giving and receiving. Everything is transactional. Just like the stock market, forex exchange etc. You decide how much you want to invest and know exactly how much you’re receiving. If you want to achieve anything, you have to be specific of how much you’re willing to sacrifice and there are two things involved here :

1. Acceptance- What ever it takes requires accepting the facts, the possibility. You have to be willing to let go of control and accept what is on the table. Accepting is a two way street. It is letting go and also being in control at the same time.

2. Believe — As the word says “be- live. What does it mean to be-lieve? Believing simply means knowing and accepting. It is unwise to do something you know nothing of isn’t it ? You have to first believe it is possible! This requires GUTS. You have to be courageous and as you know it is a risk. You cannot achieve something you don’t believe is possible. It’s common sense.

When you get to realize that success is a trade and you have to give to get. Then the next question is how bad do you want it ?

Are you willing to go all the way ? To give your all or nothing ? Or do you have fears and doubts that it might not work due to previous experiences, self sabotage, or even fear of actually accomplishing it? These are all forms of control and success doesn’t like control. It likes flow.. surrender.

Take a look at the most successful people you know, or observe, they usually are people that just do whatever they want, dress however they choose, wear whatever they want, and everyone adores their principles. They are mostly school dropouts ( remember you can only drop out of school if you are courageous ). Fearful people will be scared to even dare to miss tests and exams because they are followers not leaders who can do whatever they want. But guess what? Society teaches the opposite. You have to follow the rules to be successful. Whose rules by the way ? “The successful people’s rules”. Isn’t that ridiculous?

You are all that there is. There are billions of cells everyday in your body that are working non stop to keep your digestive, respiratory, reproductive, nervous and all other systems in you alive and healthy. What does that make you ? A boss ! You are the boss of your life. Choose yourself ! Give your all or nothing so that the cells working tirelessly without pay inside you will be more than excited to work even better because you will be making them happy.

Time waits for no one. We don’t have much time left so don’t waste it.Be picky how you spend your time. Be mindful who you invest your time in. Remember, wasted time is worse than wasted money. You can recover money, but once time is wasted. It’s gone ! That time becomes lost forever.

Give it all that you’ve got. Place a bet on yourself. Go all or nothing. Because it’s either you’re alive or dead. There is no in between. Invest your all into your happiness. It’s the best decision you will ever make in this lifetime.

Imagine a life where all the decisions are intentionally made by you. So you’re fully aware of the consequences of your actions and not because it’s a rule made by your fellow human being of equal organs in their body just as you. That is the life you deserve. Think deeply about all the times you could have done something different but didn’t because of rules”, laws etc. Not encouraging you to go breaking laws. But inviting you to begin making decisions that are self thought, self conscious, self dependent and transform your entire existence.

Wake up from the spell you’ve been under and claim your power back. It’s time to grow some balls! Give it your all or if you rather, give it your nothing. The choice is yours.

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Surrender

All man’s troubles come from not knowing how to sit still in one room.

It took for me to loose my past identity and everything i thought i had wanted, to awaken to the FACT that what will be, will be. The most recurring commentary i kept thinking was some version of “this isn’t how it was supposed to happen.” I had achieved so much so early in life, lost too much and worked so hard. I should have been wealthy, successful, happy. Instead, I was a mess.

When I stopped fighting with my situation, my scope and options for positive action became crystal clear, and at that point I had a revelation and this was, there is only one thing I’m in full control of – The little space in life that I actually could control—me. I realized i am all i ‘CAN‘ control.

Letting go is a practice, requiring discipline, focus, and embracing open vulnerability as a path to strength rather than shame. It takes time to get good at it, and there is no room for perfectionism.

A key element of letting go is recognizing the presence of what might be called a pathological need. Many times pathological needs stem from traumatic experiences, efforts to negate or undo childhood maltreatment or deprivation.

In many cases, pathological needs stem from unhealthy narcissistic adaptations to unresolved developmental experiences with caregivers who did not meet basic needs required to develop a secure sense of self.

Sometimes it takes real effort to do nothing and simply be in the experience. Especially because most of us want control, and we feel the need to be in charge of every aspect of our lives, especially at junctures when we perceive that our present circumstances are under the threat of change.

When there is nothing to do, do nothing.

The Daoists have a name for this: wu-wei. Wu-wei is non-doing. Action through inaction. The Dao De Ching suggests, “Through nonaction nothing is left undone.”

When we do this, we’re truly living in the present. And we open up the scope for lasting and transformational change, secure in the knowledge that our journey is as individual as we are and that whatever comes next is meant to be.

We start to appreciate the moment in front of us, fully. There is something immensely awesome about the moment in front of us, if we stop trying to change it, trying to control it, trying to have it conform to our idea of how things should be. Just as it is, it’s worthy of our appreciation, gratitude, love.

There is power in letting go. It’s a form of release and self trust. It creates a bond that’s basically unexplainable.

Surrendering is giving up control and this is something I am now becoming good at doing. Have you ever had to try so hard to make something work and it just wouldn’t ? It feels like something is tying up your mind and you can’t break loose. It is absolutely devastating. It’s a control problem.

When you surrender and let things be, you feel more relaxed and you become the observer. You are only able to do this when you realize you are not always in control and this is a form of enlightenment itself.

“Surrender to what is. Say ‘yes’ to life and see how life suddenly starts working for you rather than against you.” ~Eckhart Tolle

The ability to surrender is a gift not everyone has access to, especially Narcissists. For instance, a Narcissist wouldn’t be able to not be in power, they become sick and irritating. It becomes hell for them. Their power is in the ability to be obsessed and possessive over their preys which most of the time are empaths. This is a dynamic that exists not only individually, but societally, in relationships, religion itself is narcissistic not to talk of globally.

That aura of negativity or hopelessness that comes with a failure to surrender is, to be blunt, a real turn off for most people. If you want to be the change you want to see in this world and inspire others to a cause, the angry warrior type is probably not going to work.

Maya Angelou once said, “What you’re supposed to do when you don’t like a thing is change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it. Don’t complain.” If you’re still complaining or not accepting the reality, how can you change that reality? You’re probably still stuck in the complaining phase.

We are now in the season of Aquarius ♒️ which is all about freedom. It is a season of surrendering. Power has exchanged hands, there is change in the air. Esoterically, the rivers are beginning to unclog and flow. Everything and everyone will begin seeing things for what they are. This will be a period of huge revelations when things become revealed, the shadow disappears and everything comes to light. It’s best to Surrender and let go. What is meant to be, will. You have no control over it.

The real secret key to surrendering or letting go is an art of allowing. A non-attached relationship is healthy, strong and filled with effortless love, compassion and kindness. Once we let go and enter a compassionate personal space, everything else is re-contextualized. When you surrender, you interrupt the emotional feedback loop, it’s just like turning down the volume or clicking mute stops feedback on a video call. This changes everything!

Surrender sounds lame to many people, or perhaps scary. It’s the opposite of what we are constantly trying to do — we are always seeking control, because we don’t like uncertainty.

Personally, nowadays, I can’t say that I immediately accept all that comes my way, but my willingness to surrender to life is a priority, it certainly makes the journey more joyful. And, when you have joy, you are more likely to achieve the end you seek, or better yet, find peace in the journey regardless of the destination.

True inner peace and power actually starts when you let go and surrender. Remember, tomorrow never comes. the time is now .


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Everyday is a test

If you thought that life’s tests were over when you finished school, guess again. There are so many tests in life, and they can be much more difficult than biology or physics. And there isn’t that much homework we can do to prepare for these kinds of tests, either. When we pass life’s tests, we discover that we do have that inner strength after all.


In school you are taught a lesson and given a test, in life you are given a test and taught a lesson.

Have you ever wondered what the purpose of your life is? Common answers are “happiness,” financial success”, true ❤ or “satisfaction.” While these are all worthwhile goals, I say the purpose of your life is to face head on, every challenge, every test, as a chance for you to become the person you are meant to be. Life is a test for you to be and become your best and highest self.

When you face the tests of life, learn from them and grow with them, you become that person. The tests of life require you to call on the inner resources residing deep inside you.

In life you are given a test that teaches you a lesson and it turns out to be that everyday is a TEST. Every moment there is a new challenge, ( which is always an opportunity).

In my local language we say “ problem no dey finish”, which means there is always something else after this. We have to find our way in the world, and all along we face tests of physical illness, mental troubles, financial reversals, unfulfilled expectations, and loss.

Life is indeed a test of many things, our faith & faithlessness, our convictions & priorities, our endurance & patience, and in the very end, our ultimate desires.

The way of a true spiritual life actually begins where we are now in the mess of our lives.

We’ve lost touch with our souls. We’ve been nourishing our minds, our relational skills, our theological knowledge, our psychological well-being, our physiological health… but we’ve abandoned our souls. ‘Mike Yaconelli.’

The most powerful weapon on earth is a human soul that’s on fire! Ignite that spark by recognizing the lessons of all you had to go through to be where you are right now.

On the video below, i talked about how to recognize the tests so you don’t have to repeat the lessons in order to graduate to the best and highest version of YOU!


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Intention and Attention

You have the power to create a reality that excites you on every level. Through your intentions you can land your dream relationship, travel to places you thought you’d never go, and live a life that at one point may have felt out of reach. The possibilities are endless. But it’s not the intention alone that brews this seemingly magical power.

Intention is internal ( yin ) while attention is external (yang). Just another choice of words for Yin and yang. Intentions and goals are different. Intention is like a theme and goals are the ways to achieve that intention. For example, the intention can be to stay fit and healthy, the goal can be to run a 5 kilometre distance within half an hour daily.

An intention is the budding flower given life by all of the underlying thoughts, words, and actions in the rich soil below the surface. The attention is the energy and focus extended externally.

So, how do you start your regular day? Do you wake up with or without a goal or set specific intentions? For me, everyday is a new page, a new script. I set new intentions every single day. Sometimes the same intention for some days and I “pay attention” to the same thing by taking action.

If you have not been successful in manifesting what you want, then try and re-examine your intention. Sometimes double checking to ensure your intentions are correctly created can bring the results you desire.

Everything that happens in the universe begins with intention. When I decide to buy a birthday present, shake my legs , or call a friend, it all starts with intention.

WHAT IS INTENTION?


Intention is probably one of the most essential parts of healing, abundance, manifestation, personal and spiritual development. Your intention is a large determinator of any success or failure you experience. Intention is the blueprint of your experiences and the reality you create. The right intention and, more importantly, being aware of the intentions you are setting, is very essential.

WHAT IS ATTENTION?

Attention is defined as the act of concentrating and keeping one’s mind focused on something. However, alertness is the initial step in the attention process. If we are going to do something, or listen to someone, the first thing that we need is to feel alert. In other words, we need to feel like our battery is charged, like our brains have energy. Just the way our bodies need physical energy if we are going to run, our brains need mental energy if we are going to think.

Your intention and attention is the yin and yang. The internal and external. The very essence of life. While, Attention is awareness of the here and now in a focal and perceptive way. Paying attention is the first step in the learning and growth process.

In order to manifest anything at all,you must set an intention and focus your energy (pay attention) to that in order to bring it to life.

On the video below, I dived a bit deep into what intention and attention is and how we use it to manifest.

Please watch, learn and share to as many people as you would love to.

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Get your Butt out of the way

Ever wondered why they say the “Truth is bitter”? Well, it is bitter because it is straightforward, direct, and doesn’t always feel or taste good. Just as certain kinds of food or drinks, maybe teas taste quite awful but are very good for your health. In fact, most medicines are usually bitter. See where I’m going with this ?

We have grown and outgrown so many things internally and externally as we evolve on this planet as a specie over the centuries but one thing that has been the same since the beginning of time is the bitter taste of the truth and why people dislike or find it difficult to identify it.

Tell yourself the truth. If you need to yell at yourself to get the message do it, if you need to scream or shout or cry. Do it. Just freaking do it. Get your butt( your buts) out of the way. Stop making excuses. Sitting on your butt, feeling sorry for yourself will not save or change your life and situation. You have to get up, face your shit and get out of your own way with your words and daily attitude.

You know why it’s important to get out of your way?

No one will save you. Unfortunately. It’s not anyone’s duty but yours, you have to master yourself and learn to not look outside of yourself otherwise you’ll keep being disappointed or worse distracted. Remember, tomorrow never comes plus everyone and everything is a distraction. You come first. Your priority is YOU. Yes YOU!. Your physical, mental and emotional health comes first. So in order to be a better person, irregardless of what you might have going on for you, You have to separate the beans from the shaft. Although, it may seem shaky at first, you have to keep moving. You are never alone. Keep trying. Your story may be the motivation someone out there needs. Don’t stop. You are more than capable and this is what you signed up for.

You must get out of your head and get your butt out of the way. This is how you become the highest and best version you can be.

Let’s get it fam!

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Self Judgment

We live in a world of control. A world that requires push and pull, as in, it requires gravity to exist. It’s no wonder why we are always at war with ourselves. However, we must learn to be in control of ourselves, what concerns us, what matters to us in our everyday lifestyle, not just personally, but environmentally, universally.

We must learn to find balance in the chaos, no matter how overwhelmed you might be. The fact is, you have every reason to be here right now and if you are reading this right now , and it happens to be that you find yourself confused, doubting, or listening to that criticizing voice in your head, critiquing your life, telling you what you can and cannot say or do, you have the power to transform the energy to love. No matter what you may be experiencing, do not judge yourself. It’s happening for a reason plus that is not your duty, it’s not your responsibility. Your responsibility is, to “Do as you may in alignment with your conscience” and let the rest play out.

Stop criticizing yourself. Choose self love. If you love yourself, others will love you, if you judge and criticize yourself, others will judge and criticize you. It is what it is. You should know that whenever you judge yourself, you insert fear into your aura and that lowers your vibration, your battery life, your electro magnetic voltage. Look at it like a phone fully charged, and the more you interact with the phone the battery life reduces, for instance, fear would be like an app, Instagram or maybe a game you’re used to playing on the phone, your battery weakens way faster because of the amount of energy the app has and the time you spend on it. Your daily energy and lifespan increases or reduces based on what you do every day. So, be nice to yourself, be kind, practice self love instead of self judgement.

As it turns out, there are so many different things happening in our society today, distracting, upsetting and emotionally controlling people. As a result, anxiety, depression, fear, self doubt, criticism, self judgment and different types mental issues gradually begin to flood in.. It is your duty to be responsible for what you think, eat and do because you are a part of the universe, a part of the whole and if you do your duty, others will do theirs and on and on.. Then, in little or no time the world will become light again, even better than we have imagined. It will be the change we’ve been collectively working on.

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The gift of the present moment

Are you present with yourself ?

Are you here right now? Is it possible you’re still having other thoughts cross your mind even as you’re reading this ?

Well, just checking in..

Most of us experience continuous chatter in our minds. We have so many countless thoughts about the future, the past, or judgments about what is, which just seems to flow through our minds as if in a neverending stream.

Remember, time is now and your mind is a very powerful machine that can be used to build and also to destroy. Your mind works both clockwise and anticlockwise. You’re able to dwell in the past just the same way you fantasize about the future and this creates continuous chatter in your mind.

This chatter, has it’s consequences and disadvantages. The main one is that we are continuously distracted from what’s actually going on in the present moment. In other words, we tend to experience life through our thoughts rather than through direct experience.

When you are present with yourself, you begin a new story. You create a new reality. You are creating in the now. The highest reality is THE GIFT OF THE PRESENT MOMENT.

Everyday is a gift, a present. Open it up and live it.

When you refuse to open up yourself and live in the now, overthinking, worry, anxiety, depression and many other low vibrations find a new home through a hole in your aura to gladly enter.

We live in a mental world. So it requires a bit of discipline to live in the now and a lot of love and gratitude. If I were you, I’ld choose right now because it is all you are certain of.

Every thing you might have or had or want is either in the past or in the future. They are imaginary (the mentality ie, it’s all in the head). It is not present, not now. The now is the present moment. The present reality.

Where are you mentally now?

Do you know where you are emotionally now?

What about as an evolving being right now?

These are the questions you should ask yourself as you evolve on this endless journey. Below is a video talking about the advantages and benefits of living in the present moment.



If you want to experience the benefits of living in the present, you want to start using ways that allow you to focus on the present moment little by little. 

It’s a matter of moving your attention away from your thoughts and towards what’s actually happening here now.

The present is a gift, open it up.

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Yoga and it’s health benefits

As an empowerment coach, I’ve come to realize that early morning stretch or exercise requires discipline and yoga is a very powerful way to discipline your mind through your body. It has so many benefits including mental health wellness, emotional health balance and so on ..

Yoga is a spiritual, mental and physical practice that has been around since ages. With time, people have discovered quite a number of health benefits associated with yoga. Yoga does more than burning calories, make you flexible and strengthening muscles, it is a workout which involves both body and mind. For me it is one of the most potent way to connect with the divine.

Practicing yoga in the morning has so many great health benefits for your physical,mental and spiritual health.

You are allowed to communicate and unite with your body in your own way.

Yoga gives you all that a gym can, but in a peaceful, safe and more holistic way. It combines aspects of cardio, functional and strength training all in one. What more could you ask for? The best part about this workout is that it can be done at your own pace, in your own home.

Below are a few health benefits of yoga practice


• Boosts metabolism
Yoga helps in retaining the vitality in your body along with keeping it fit. It motivates you towards healthy eating and improves the metabolic system of the body.


• Helps in lowering blood sugar

Yoga not only helps in lowering blood sugar but also lowers bad cholesterol and boosts good cholesterol. It encourages weight loss and improves the body’s sensitivity to insulin.

  • Yoga improves strength, mental muscles,balance and flexibility.
  • Yoga gives your lungs room to breathe properly
  • Yoga gives you inner strength
  • Yoga gives you peace of mind
  • Yoga helps in increasing self esteem.
  • Yoga helps to perfect your posture
  • Yoga helps to protect your bone health and your spine.
  • Yoga regulates your adrenal glands.
  • Yoga makes you happier
  • Yoga uses sounds to soothe your sinuses (sound healing).
  • Yoga helps you focus
  • Yoga helps with back pain, muscle pain relief.
  • Yoga benefits kidney, liver and heart health
  • Yoga relaxes you, to help you sleep better
  • Yoga can boost your energy and brighten up your moods.
  • Yoga helps you manage stress
  • Yoga helps unite your body and mind.
  • Yoga encourages self empowerment and self care
  • Yoga is best for mental and emotional wellness

If you’re a passionate yoga practitioner, you’ve probably noticed some of the above yoga benefits—maybe you’re sleeping better or getting fewer colds or just feeling more relaxed and at ease. But if you’ve ever tried telling a newbie about the benefits of yoga, you might find that explanations like “It increases the flow of prana” or “It brings energy up your spine” fall on deaf or skeptical ears.


However, I hope you learn to enjoy the practice and lifestyle of true spirituality by incorporating daily dose of stretch, freestyle yoga flow for the spirit soul and body.🧘🏽‍♂️

Watch some of my freestyle yoga flows below. Like, share and subscribe if you enjoyed it.

Happy new and prosperous year Royalties !




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The time is now!

Whether you’re aware or asleep, the time is now. Our planet has been split. A reset has occurred in the sky. Do you remember “As above so below”, well, it’s time to get ready for the “below” aka the reset, changes that will begin to happen on earth from all around the world.

A reset, is simply a do- over, more so start afresh. It is a Death and a rebirth at the same time. Think about it like rebooting your computer after a virus.

Everything that happens energetically/spiritually must happen physically as they are one and the same. The great reset, the rebirth, the beginning of a new dawn is here. Can you feel it in the air ? Jupiter and Saturn conjuncting at 0 degrees signifies a major restart button has been hit. People will begin to wake up, feeling different, stronger, fearless, joyful, carefree, collaborative,creative ,imaginative etc . On the dark side, a lot of people will be entering a new phase of a very long shadow work, self development and healing journey, government would do the extreme to hold their ground ( aka the old world ) which could lead to extremities, companies and industries coming together or crashing out of the blue, vaccines being made mandatory etc due to the vastness of the reset.

Everything is filtered through multi-layers. Like levels of coding for a game , the layers go deep. As you begin to become aware, you might get either really pissed or very very sad depending on your empathic battery life. No matter what level you are on spiritually, there are times where you feel like you’re the only one experiencing all that wisdom and downloads and knowledge, I assure you, you’re not the only one. There are many others out there who do not feel comfortable enough to share their truth, one way or the other we all go phases of awakening during our journey in this passage called life.

Would you rather wait till the next great conjunction or your next life to align with the truth of who and what you are ?

The world has begun its new regime. New air, new species, renewed vibration which I’m feeling to be distinctly different from what we’ve experienced the last decade. A woman is only pregnant for a period of time, eventually she delivers herself an offspring. Likewise, Mother Earth has been pregnant for quite some time now, going through hard labor, pains, and even malnutrition just as women have been ridiculed, Stepped on, trashed, maltreated and so on. They’ve been non- existent for a very long time in our 3D reality. Forgetting they are the reason we all exist. They are one in the same . Harmony is the answer.

We tend to forget the space we are currently holding is a feminine space. We are in the womb, the belly of the beast and the beast is ready to be out of the womb. As a divine feminine, I can feel it in the air already. The smell, the energy, the moods, the vibe..This is a very beautiful being we’re all consciously co-creating right now on the planet. It might take a minute to be very clear to the masses , however, the land must be cleansed for the baby to pop out. I.e We might be seeing many deaths, experiencing the extreme lows, maybe natural disasters, National drama and collective disagreements but that’s only to usher in the fruit of the womb, the new world, new type of leaders, creative and very innovative people teaming up,etc .. (Think of it as in “No pain no gain”.)

As I had written on my last post, The sky is falling, there are very serious wars going on in the sky, ships are clashing, fighting, collapsing, all on your behalf, the ancestors are doing what they do best, just as down below, authorities are being exposed, revealing the truths, on the bright side, this is enlightening the people, You are beginning to pay attention to your surroundings, your upbringings and your mindsets. Thing is, You have to decide where you belong. There or here ?, Nothing is predestined.Everything changes. This is the time to prepare and trust in nothing but yourself. The illusion is becoming very clear and the spell magicians are being exposed. When else will there be a better time for you to be your own magic?

The time is now. Embrace your demons as you embrace your angels. You’ll be needing them as one. Align with yourself as the stars and planets align for the greatest conjunction we’ve had in a very very longtime. Ignorance is the most expensive gift of mankind.

WAKE UP. THE TIME IS NOW

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The sky is falling

When was the last time you got yourself very well relaxed and just stared up at the sky. Ever heard the saying the sky is the limit ? Well, I choose to say the sky is the starting point. When you look up during the day what do you see ? The sun, maybe the moon sometimes ( early in the day ), clouds, planes etc. At night, you could see stars, planets, constellations, the moon etc.

In our 3D reality( the matrix), the sky is full of Stars ie, the celebrities, politicians, billionaires, industry rulers, government, pastors, prophets, etc. You look up to these people, as your role models, your, idols, Gods and goddesses. You listen to their directions, wish to be like them, hopelessly copy their style or swag, their words, their lifestyles, traditions, their attitudes, their teachings, their mindsets etc.

In actual reality, all of these people are falling, in terms of their careers, style of leadership, contracts with labels, secrets coming out about evil deeds, etc. This could be called Karma” but it’s actually the literal sky that embodies the stars, planets asteroids etc falling. Literally. So it reacts down in the matrix as actual people. As above so below. Remember ?

The laws of nature is not a hoax. It is simply the law that guides the web that we all are dwelling in. The minds of people are evolving really fast . Why do you see so many changes all happening at once?, good or bad are perceived by you depending on the state of mind which you’re living on. The plane of existence we live is on Earth. Yes it’s A PLANE. We are on a very gigantic plane.

Recently, I was having a conversation with an associate as to why we all want to travel the world, see places, meet new people but ever thought about the fact that we are all seeing the same sun stars and moons everywhere in the world?. Literally the same roof, no matter how long the flight or ship you traveled by.

There are so many visions that I see happening in a couple of months which are definitely mind blowing. The sky is literally falling down to earth which means earth will be the new sky and for that to be the new world, you have to be worthy to live in this new world, the world where you must be down to earth, kind, compassionate, giving , loving and fearless. These are traits that most of the stars and high ranking personals that the general population look up to rarely have. So what’s expected to happen? Well the individuals who have those characteristics will be the leaders of the new world. It is going to be a totally different world than we are used to right now. The vibration, the energy, the frequency, this is why it is called the new age. Hence the global reset, that the government is implementing to avert this from happening.

Question is, are you ready? Is this what you would like to be a part of, do you see yourself in this new world or would you rather be in the old world? Because the sky is falling with everything in it. Imagine if the rooftop of your house suddenly falls down. Every of your neighbors will see everything in the building isn’t it? Wake up and get your shit together. We are in a new age, with a totally new species ready to love and live unconditionally.

In coming months, so many “stars” will be falling, both literally and In the simulation. There are individuals scattered all over the world that are well aware of this and are preparing helplessly to stop this from happening because they would rather keep up the facade of this fake reality we are all dwelling in. The time has come for you to ascend spiritually, mentally and physically. Because 2020 was just the tip of the iceberg. We are moving into the tunnel and some people came with torch lights others came to torch the light bearers.

The purpose of the whole 2020 Age of Aquarius timeline stargate is to stabilize the Age of Aquarius positive timeline for the planet. During 2020, the dark forces have tried their hardest to prevent the positive Ascension timeline from manifesting. Now it is our collective chance for the positive Ascension timeline to be anchored, secured and stabilized forever, and to ensure that the rest of the planetary liberation process occurs smoothly and rapidly.

There will be many powerful astrological configurations in this month of December, leading to our main activation on December 21st. Each of those configurations will be a stepping stone to our main activation. First, there will be Pluto Eris square on December 10th, (today ). Pluto Eris square is the energy of the warrior goddess fighting against establishment. Then, there will be a total Solar eclipse on December 14th which will bring rapid disillusionment in many areas for the surface population.After that, Saturn will enter Aquarius on December 17th and Jupiter will enter Aquarius a few days later on December 19th.

What’s your position in the sky? Or on earth? Are you in the position to help people with your light? Or you would rather torch the universe with yours?, Whats your role? The torchbearer or the light-bearer. Join us as we elevate the consciousness of the people. Be your brothers keeper.

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Your lifestyle is in your nature

Today the pursuit of money is almost directly linked to the pursuit of happiness, many will argue that money = happiness, just like I wrote about in my post The journey to happiness.

A lot of people sit on the sidelines of life, hoping that their dreams will come true one day, but nothing happens in life unless you take action. Your dream lifestyle isn’t going to magically show up at your doorstep. It requires that you design the life of your choosing, and then start moving in that direction. This is your life.

Time is our most valuable asset and it is something, that while on this earth, we should spend most wisely. You shouldn’t feel like you’re mindlessly wasting your life away. This generation is particularly in trouble because jobs are scarce and many people will be stuck doing jobs they hate just because they need money. Although this may be the right move for their careers now, this shouldn’t be something that one should do for the rest of our lives. it is best we search for something we are passionate about which you should then make into a lifestyle.

Lifestyle is all about the choices we make for ourselves and how we decide what really is important. What is your lifestyle?

Your lifestyle is what you make of it, your daily routine typically is your lifestyle. Spirituality is my lifestyle and I get to practice being present with myself, connecting with source energy everyday. EVERYDAY IS A NEW OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE YOUR DREAMS YOUR REALITY. Your choice what you do with it.

Occasionally, life can be undeniably, impossibly difficult. We are faced with challenges and events that can seem overwhelming, life-destroying to the point where it may be hard to decide whether to keep going. But you always have a choice. The power is always in your decision. You are light – shine bright

When you begin to upgrade your state of mind, your perception becomes your reality. Lifestyle design is the process of designing your life aligned with your nature, strengths, values, dreams, passion, and purpose. It’s the freedom to design your life the way YOU want. It’s a way to end the rat race and to help you attain true freedom. When you begin to become MINDFULL of what you SEE, listen to , watch or even read. Your attention automatically shifts into something that is present in your current reality. Hence self – development, self- awareness, lifestyle upgrade etc.

The same thinking responsible for creating amazing technology, products, and spaces can be used to create and build your career and your life, a life of fulfillment and joy, constantly creative and productive, one that always holds the possibility of surprise.

I’m a huge proponent of taking matters into your own hands, observing, communicating and listening to how your body feels, then customizing your lifestyle to honor your unique needs and desires. This approach has served me beautifully in my own healing and wellness journey. Hence why I write and teach about wellness and our self healing abilities.

In a nutshell, your lifestyle simply embodies the attempt on your part to design a life of your choosing,whatever that looks like, it’s your life, your creation. You have choices and with the growth of the web of your design, your choices have compounded exponentially. You control your life and what happens in it, once you understand that fully you give yourself room to grow, experiment and begin designing the life of your own, the life of your dreams.

Create your life according to your nature. Your life is YOUR ART. Design it to your taste.

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Self Expression

Are you free? Are you truly free to live or say whatever you want, whenever you want, however you decide? Can you express yourself without fear in totality? Are you REAL? Are you living according to your creators wish?

Most people are out here agreeing and accepting every thing that’s thrown at their faces like they don’t have a choice. This has got to stop. We need to express ourselves exactly how we want to. I hear, there is freedom of speech ( but I don’t hear about the consequences of speaking up). People fear to express themselves exactly how they should or exactly how they want to. Why, you may ask ? Well, BECAUSE THEY HAVE BEEN PSYCHOLOGICALLY BRAINWASHED into accepting that someone else should think for them plus there is the “hush hush” part about the consequences of self expression.

You know there’s more to life. You know you’re being called to do something greater.We’re a community of like-minded and evolved beings just like you on a mission to help you realize your maximum potential and free people from physical,mental and spiritual prisons. This is why Barisity.com is called a Sity of Royalties for true FREEDOM.

In recent times, people are waking up from this deep slumber and spells that’s being constantly cast on individuals right in front of their faces, through music, media, twisted history, traditions and cultures. Most of these things are being tweaked and passed along generations over and over again. Why do we accept this, some smart ones may be thinking ? Well, my brother and sister, THE POWER OF SELF EXPRESSION COMES WITH A PRICE!!

Consider that with every action and every choice you make, you are expressing some part of yourself. When you donate to a beggar, you’re expressing kindness. When you raise your voice at another, you’re expressing anger. It’s always about the intention behind the action, the energy behind the deed. Those who cook may have realized this. When we cook with love and care, our dish has a special feel to it. When we do not put effort into our cooking, the dish turns out mediocre and bland. Self-expression is the act of bringing something deep within us into observable form – the art of creation. The question is not whether we express ourselves, but what are we expressing? The more connected we are to ourselves, the more authentic our expression. The more authentic our expression, the more confident and attractive we become. Who are you, and what is your message to the world? As you uncover more and more of yourself, the core of who you are comes to the fore. Who you are begins to shine through in what you do.

So what exactly is self expression?

Let me start by telling you a dream of mine, about a decade ago, I had this recurring dream of someone holding my throat but an invisible someone, I open my mouth to scream with all the energy charged up in me yet not a single sound comes out when I think I’m making a very loud noise, then I get madder and try harder,same thing. It was very annoying at first because as a hueman being we all have “vocal cords” which are in charge of our sounds. So when I speak you should hear me because I’m communicating with you through a chord you and I both have. This dream kept going on and on for weeks until one day I got so pissed and I was just like you know what “IM DONE WITH THIS SHIT”!! Then I decided that when the time came I won’t scream with my outer voice but my inner voice. So I had the dream again, it was on a Saturday morning, I remember vividly how I tried using my right hand to find what’s holding back my voice and I made the loudest sound ever without using my voice. It was my inner voice. I screamed so loud inside my heart that not only did the feeling of my throat being held disappear but the feeling of fear, fear of trying something new completely vanished! All it did was make me uncomfortable for a sec. ( THE PRICE OF SELF EXPRESSION ).

Now, the moral of that story is this —— I had a voice I couldn’t use, out of fear of the unknown, I felt hooked, choked and scared to do what I ought to do but until I DECIDED NOTHING COULD STOP ME, I was helpless. I decided ! Then, I found another way and I didn’t care what happened, I just did it. (Let me tell you a secret, I had not the slightest clue what was going to happen, whether it was going to make an external sound or not). I just “KNEW” I had to do something instantly. The moral of this ??—— FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS. You might be wrong or right it doesn’t matter. Just do it!!

This dream made me a stronger and fearless leader because I realized so many things 10 years after. If you don’t use what the creator has given to you , it will be taken away from you. If you choose to be scared, it will be taken away from you, If you allow yourself to be bullied, it will be taken away from you . IF YOU HAVE SKILLS, TALENTS AND PASSIONS YOU DO NOT PURSUE, guess what ? It will be taken away from you. And it goes on and on ….. We all have the ability and the power to express ourselves exactly how we want to. Don’t allow the program that has been installed in your life continue being the driver of your decisions. TAKE CHARGE or be preyed upon. Your choice.

Self expression by definition is the Expression of one’s own personality, feelings, or ideas, as through speech or art. It is a vital piece of the puzzle that is fulfillment in life; Self expression allows us to be our best selves, reach our full potential, and make valuable contributions to the world we live in. It simply is when people show that they are different from everyone else. They may choose to express themselves by how they look, what they say, or by using different types of artistic ways to show you who they are.

This place is a community of people just like you, all seeking to achieve their dreams and support one another in that mission.

Here are some ways you can start expressing yourself. Courage is key! Dare to put yourself into what you do. You can choose one or do them all.

  1. Say what you really want to say
  2. Take a risk and do something you’ve been fantasizing about
  3. Take a picture
  4. Doodle something
  5. Freestyle journal
  6. Sing, rap, write, dance.

Allow yourself to suck at first. Give yourself permission to learn and grow. Take the pressure off and let yourself stretch your wings along the runway to mastery. Once you begin, you never know where your expressions will take you. I’ve always enjoyed mentoring, teaching, making music and writing, but never took my love for writing seriously until last year. Since then, the universe has been urging me to continue. Each time I think of giving up my writing, I would get a message from a reader telling me how my writing impacted them and how much they appreciated my writing. That’s the magic of self-expression: just by being who you are, you can inspire and heal others.

You owe it to yourself to achieve your dreams. Express yourself. NO ONE CAN DO IT EXACTLY HOW YOU CAN DO IT! Don’t let it get taken away from you. You have only one life to live.

You can choose to hire me to coach you on your own journey as well or help you HEAL YOURSELF from your traumas. I’m always available. Feel free to comment down below or send me an email. I’ve got you.

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The power and benefits of grounding

Grounding is a spiritual term, referring to centering your soul in your body, and in turn, connecting it with Mother Earth. When these connections are strong, it can help you feel safer and more in touch with the earth and Mother Nature. If you experience a lot of fear and anxiety in your day-to-day, it is possible that you have become ungrounded. Practice centering yourself via grounding or earthing as it is widely called.

Usually, the term grounding is often applied to stabilizing electricity. The world is made up of electrical and magnetic fields or currents (electromagnetic), including our bodies. We are endlessly emitting vibrational signals out from our organs, while also receiving them from the objects around us. Simply put, when our skin comes into contact with the ground, the molecules in our bodies receive an extra boost of vital energy.

Grounding is like when a baby connects with the mother’s womb by drinking her milk. Grounding yourself is simply connecting yourself to the ground, the soil, the place you came from and the place you’ll be buried in when you die.

What is the ground ? “The Ground” is simply the surface of planet earth. According to science, the ground is the reference point in an electrical circuit from which voltages are “measured”. According to psychology, Grounding is simply a term used in conjunction with the energy fields around us. This is why sometimes the words centering and grounding are used interchangeably. Being grounded means that we’re content with who we are. It means that we are sure of ourselves and have confidence in the decisions we are making.

When we ground ourselves, we’re intentionally calming or slowing down our emotions and getting more in touch with our internal and external worlds. This is a very powerful way to balance your yin and yang. It is a great way to center yourself.

Earthing or grounding is the practice of physically connecting oneself as closely as possible to the earth by going barefoot, lying on the ground, sitting or standing. The energy of the earth (the bare floor) has energy that can heal both physical and emotional illnesses. You might be wondering how is that ? Well, the earth is negatively charged, so, when a human body makes direct contact with the earth, the earth’s electrons neutralize the free radicals in the person’s body.

How do you ground? That’s quite simple, easy and perhaps the most intriguing, and most criticized, aspect of grounding is its simplicity. It proposes the idea that all you need, in order to be your most healthy, revitalized self, is to spend time connecting with nature.

Here’s what to do —- Find a comfortable seat on the earth, or you can choose to stand, Close your eyes and breath deeply. Feel the supporting soil underneath. Imagine roots stemming out from the base of your spine and into the core of the earth. Reach as far down as you can imagine, fractal roots surrounded by and connected to Mother Earth. Spend a few breaths embodying this strong, feminine, empowering and supportive energy. This connection is always available to you. Return to your heart center and send your blessings of gratitude to mother earth out into the world.

Mantras and words can be very powerful tools to use whilst grounding, they hold their own vibration, so the thoughts and words you speak impact the energetic fields around you.

There are no consequences to grounding, only the opportunity to benefit your overall health and well-being. Remember you are wearing a bathing suit and planet called “Earth”.

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The journey to happiness

Everybody wants to be happy. It’s the most common goal hue man beings have and it’s simply because we live in a society where happiness comes last. People have been psychologically brainwashed into thinking that you have to work hard to be happy, be married or have a lot of money etc.

The journey to happiness is simply the journey to self, which is simply a self conscious lifestyle. Happiness is a lifestyle. You have to decide it and choose it over anything every single day. That’s where discipline comes in. Self discipline is self mastery.

How do you know if you’re mastering yourself? You know by the things you spend most of the time doing daily. By being accountable, observing your habits, thought processes and being in tune with your true nature. It’s as delicate as taking care of a baby’s very unstable needs. It requires vulnerability and childlike imagination.

An author once said, “Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder”.

If you’ve been looking for happiness, the good news is that your choices, thoughts and actions can influence your level of happiness. It’s not as easy as flipping a switch, but you can turn up your happiness level.

Below are a few steps to follow on the journey to happiness.

The first step is to make a conscious choice to boost your happiness. Then, cultivate the habit of gratitude.Make a commitment to practice gratitude. Each day identify at least one thing that enriches your life. When you find yourself thinking an ungrateful thought, try substituting a grateful one. For example, replace “My wife forgot my birthday” with “My wife has always been there for me during tough times.”

Practice exercise or yoga ——Try to include it in your daily routine . Practice yoga or exercise daily for 30 minutes at least in the morning . It will make you healthy and increase the oxygen level in the body. Health is wealth as they always say. The healthier you are the happier you become. You will feel more in tune with your body and more confident if you practice yoga or exercise daily. It helps to keep your mental and physical health up to the mark.

Meditate——— This is a very qualified way of keeping yourself happy and energetically high always. Once you know the proper technique and start doing it daily for 10-15 minutes, you will be at a different level than you are right now.

Cultivate the habit of forgiveness—— Holding a grudge and nursing grievances can affect physical as well as mental health. Learn to forgive, (practice makes better). Learn the art of letting go.

Practice unconditional love ——- Pretend you have an emotional bank account. Fill it with kind words and actions. Be careful and gracious with critique. Also, let people know that you appreciate what they do for you or even just that you’re glad they’re part of your life.

Practice being optimistic—- If you’re not an optimistic person by nature, it may take time for you to change your pessimistic thinking. Start by recognizing negative thoughts as you have them. Take note of them, then ask your self why you you feel or think that way ? Ask yourself does that serve your highest good.? Ask yourself if that makes you happy right now, does it benefit your creator ? . Then proceed to the opposite of those thoughts and repeat every time you catch yourself being negative.

Live in the present moment —- Don’t postpone joy waiting for a day when your life is less busy or less stressful. That day may never come. Instead, look for opportunities to savor the small pleasures of everyday life. Focus on the positives in the present moment, instead of dwelling on the past or worrying about the future.

Also, spending time with supportive friends, associates or family, cultivating a grateful attitude and an optimistic outlook, focusing on your purpose, and living in the present can help you take steps toward being happier.

The journey to happiness is the journey to your most authentic self. Rule no 1. Fuck what they think. Live your life and be happy. You absolutely deserve it!

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Save your energy and focus on yourself

Feed your focus and starve your distractions is a quote I’m sure you must have come across one way or another. But as hue-man beings, we tend to rush everything including breathing, reading etc. Try to read this is as slow and deliberate as possible.

SAVE YOUR ENERGY, FOCUS ON YOURSELF AND GET FAR AWAY FROM DISTRACTIONS.

The world at large is going through a spiritual cleanse, more like karmic reset. But majority of us see things as the media wants us to perceive it. When do we get to the point when we realize that most of what we see is not what is really happening ? When do we get to that point? Are we going to wait until 2025 to realize that we are all pawns in the matrix until you WAKE UP and THINK FOR YOURSELF?

You are a piece to the puzzle. The universe is a puzzle and every living being has a ROLE to play. Your duty is to figure out what your role is and be exceptionally great at it.

For instance, If we are deprived of food for too long, our bodies won’t have enough energy left to perform physical tasks. If we don’t sleep for two days straight, we won’t have enough energy to partake in a meaningful conversation. Not eating, or not sleeping will drain us of our energy reserves. We all understand this because it’s common sense.

But there are also many other negative habits, which we simply aren’t aware of – slowly robbing us of any extra energy we might have. These habits include: overeating, long hours in front of the TV, compulsive complaining, etc.

If you want to get something great done in your life, you must first be able to adopt habits that preserve your energy, and free yourself of habits that waste it.

2020 is a perfect example of why you should focus on yourself , anything can happen which I believe means one has to be prepared for absolutely anything at this point. As a matter of fact, this is going to be the new norm.( wearing of masks which hide your identity ie prisoners, social distancing, lockdowns, food scarcity etc.) We are OUR ONLY SAVIORS and we have to do better. The very least you can do is SPEAK UP, FIGHT FOR YOUR FREEDOM, or better still fight for the unborn children because this is new world they’ll be born into. We can only change our reality by changing our point of focus.

Focus requires concentration, patience and attention. In other to achieve anything exceptionally you need to pay attention right? So, question is, what are you paying attention to ? Your mental and spiritual development? Your physical health ? Your thinking patterns ? Your trauma responses? What are you putting your energy on ? The media, the mass violence happening all over the world? Politics ? Your career? You decide YOUR FUTURE by your PRESENT. Choose wisely.

Save your energy, face your demons instead. Focus on your priorities. Make yourself your one number priority. Turn the lens around to yourself and see yourself for what you truly are. DO YOU LIKE YOU? Do you like yourself and your current habits ? Are you around the people that elevate your mind state or are you around people who make you feel less of yourself?, Are you getting better at improving your self as a whole? What are you waiting for ? A prophet ? A UFO? Wake up and do what you have to do now. So you don’t get dropped like a fly when the awakened souls transcend. Be your own motivator and guide. Look within you for acceptance not outside you.

Save your energy. It is already a lot of work to focus on yourself. How about you make that a priority and see how much less time you have for anything else.

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Face your demons now

Your fears can be your very own trap or prison, holding your happiness and dreams out of your reach. By inviting your demons to tea, you establish ownership of your shadow. You bravely go where many fear to tread. You have the guts to face your anger, fear, jealousy, lack of self-acceptance.

In order to be truly happy and content, it is important that you are honest about the kind of life that you are leading. Unless you face your demons, it will be impossible for you to achieve your full potential. You will always be held back by underlying issues that are yet to be resolved. If you are going to prevent this from happening, you will need to make a change.

It’s a battle that goes on inside all of us, whether it be our fears, sadness, anxiety, frustrations and disappointments tormenting us and preventing us from experiencing happiness, peace, love and hope. Just like with every battle there are two options: you can choose to hide from these demons and negative energies or you can choose to fight. Fear is has a huge role to play in facing your demons. You know the saying -Flight or fight? Do you know that without fear there will be no courage?

Ever experienced that period in your life that you would simply describe as dark? When all hope and light seems to fade and you find yourself surrounded by negativity with no help in sight? Times where you may feel abandoned, lonely, sad, a sense of dread, even fear. At the time you couldn’t even imagine what the world once looked like to you and all you see now is the inevitable doom that humanity faces. At the time it can be an overwhelming experience that can often shake us to the very core…but handled correctly, it can actually be a very beneficial and life altering experience. It usually is a divine message to you, if you pay attention.

You may be wondering how that could possibly be the case. How could somebody showing dark night of the soul symptoms possibly come out the other side in a positive manner? Surely the entire experience is soul destroying? Well, while it is true that the experience is challenging and many people do come out the other side feeling defeated, it can be used as a form of spiritual healing or therapy.

You must have heard about the power of communication. “Communication is key”, Whether you believe it or not self communication is the golden key. When you go through an experience, it usually is because you need to grow, wake-up, learn or teach lessons from that experience. You achieve this by communicating genuinely with your self. By facing your demons, by looking at yourself exactly as you are, Ask yourself how you feel and why you feel how you feel ? Allow the emotions to flow, they are answers. It is very healing and therapeutic. Every being has to go through this to evolve and come out on the other side. However,there are beings who will not evolve and that’s okay. There are beings who prefer the cycle they are experiencing because it’s familiar to them. Spiritual growth is an unfamiliar territory which is uncomfortable. It’s not for everyone.

Demons are described as crazy, scary monsters, just like the scary crazy habits, thoughts, feelings that you have. If you were to describe those dark feelings and thoughts you had, as an item or a person what would it be?Everyone has the yin and yang. To face your demons is to look in the mirror. it’s time to see your truest nature and be it. It requires vulnerability. Just as I wrote on my last post, The dark night of the soul . If the universe could speak right now, with all that you see happening on the “surface” ( YANG), in our society today? The universe is saying loud and clear , now is the time when you literally face your demons (the habits, patterns, contracts, energies) that has been destroying and delaying your authenticity. The ones you refuse to accept about yourself. These demons have a role to play in your evolution so you should not run away from facing them. There comes a time where you will be forced to face them, accept them, forgive yourself and evolve. When would you rather do that?

Fear is a tool. Use it to your advantage. “Without fear, there will be no courage”.

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The dark night of the soul

Have you ever felt alone and lonely in your universe ? Felt like everything was totally meaningless?, like you had no sense of direction, unable to bear going through the motions and feelings you’re experiencing like you have lost all hope? Like your alive but barely. You could be going through a ‘Dark Night of the Soul’

This is a deeply miserable and hurtful process of growth that a lot people go through unaware and come out the other side a more conscious and ripe individual. It is more like shedding your skin but on the inside of your mind. It is the war within yourself and that’s scary but it really is your ego dissolving itself.

The dark night of the soul goes really deep and it is a also a major turning event in the person’s life. This is a stage in personal and spiritual development when a person undergoes a difficult but very significant transition (more like a spiritual surgery) to a deeper perception of life and their role in it. (You know that moment when you start asking why certain things happen to you? Who are you ? Why you’re here?, Well this is when you get the answers.) This enhanced awareness is accompanied by a painful shedding of previous conceptual frameworks such as identity, relationship, career, sometimes weight, habit or belief system that previously allowed them to construct meaning in their life.

The Dark Night of the Soul might sound unfamiliar but it certainly has various relative conceptions in religion, psychology and mythology. Sometimes, it could be associated with conditions like ‘existential crisis’ and forms of depression. It literally is a form of spiritual depression.

Within the dark night of the soul, you’re facing your flaws. You’re facing everything that you view as being unhealthy about yourself, all your negative self talk, selfishness, your greed, contempt, pride, hate, jealousy. You’re tackling all of these issues and it’s hard to face that we have them. Yet, by accepting that we have this part of ourselves (and we all do) you’re acknowledging areas of your own being that require work. This is you at your darkest so if you can face these problems, identify them and come out to the Light on the other side, then you already know exactly what areas need to be worked on.

What’s happening during this period is, the old meaning and identity that your ego gave your life and it’s structure is melting away and when something melts/dissolves the temperature changes. So it hurts you, but in reality your soul is releasing itself and expanding to it’s truest nature.

Facing the dark night of the soul symptoms isn’t an experience that will do you any physical harm. It happens for you and of you. It is something that’s happening go-creatively with the universe. It’s entirely a spiritual battle…and it’s a battle with yourself. The only person you are facing is you but it’s not the cheery, open, happy version of you. It’s the opposite, the dark version. The version of you that lives in the shadows and is kept at bay by energy from the Light. .This is where you’re facing your subconscious. I know it might all sound a bit intense but this is where the therapeutic aspect of this very painful transformative experience becomes clear.The famous saying: “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” comes to mind in this situation.

Are you currently experiencing it? Do you feel empty like you’re having an ego death and life’s pleasure doesn’t do it for you any longer? You might feel like you’re on the wrong path and you may have to start all over and that makes you feel completely different and confused. You’re not alone. There are millions of people who feel the same or have in the past. Remember it’s happening to you, by you for you. Let it unfold don’t try to control it. It’s simply your soul setting itself free. Feel free to share your experience in the comments below. So we could help you with tips on how to navigate onward.

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You are light – shine bright

It’s a full moon, a new month also. What better time to shine? Don’t let the darkness from your past block the light and joy in your present. You are light and what’s the duty of light ? To shine!

We all have an inner light, which when translating I’ll say, we tend to call it “a dream”, within us. This is something important for each of us to know, nurture, and empower.

Dreams are what move us forward when all else seems to be against us. It’s the spark that lights our way in the darkest moments of our lives. It’s what keeps us hopeful when everyone else says to give up. It’s what warms us from the inside, when the world is cold and hostile. In recent times during the pandemic, if you were observant you could see how many creatives explored and showed different abilities, talents and skills. The isolation definitely helped with that.

Having a dream is how one justifies our existence. Acting on the dream justifies having a life. Having a dream and not letting it go dim, is having a gift and not shining bright, having a vision of how you want your world to be and not taking action. Shining bright requires us to act on it, otherwise it become dim, or worse yet, go out.

How bright are your dreams? What lights your way when all seems dark? Do they shine so brightly that others can see the light radiating from you, or do you look like the light has left your eyes? Have you lost sight of your dreams? Have you failed to act on them for a long time?

Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. – Martin Luther King Jr.

I don’t know about you, but I’ve been there quite a number of times. From the breakup of my first relationship to my career as an artist, from hating myself to losing my job, I’ve ended up in some very dark places with my light completely out.

However, in each and every time, there has been someone or something to help me find my way, and to relight my light, but I didn’t notice them as I was lost, blind and so unready to receive them and their gift and when I became ready my gift found me and I did it myself.

What I hope you can see is how precious this gift is to others. Perhaps you have even been the recipient of this gift in your lifetime. Remember what it felt like to you, and imagine what it would have been like without others to help you. You can be that helper to others, the question is will you do it?

Sometimes, on rare occasions, you can actually do this for yourself. Like I did for myself. However, most of the time it takes outside intervention. While it is usually a friend, associate or family member, sometimes the person who relights your light is a complete stranger and I’ve seen this happen to people a lot.

No matter how you eventually do it, even if all you do is get their attention, and get them thinking about trying to find their light again, you have done a great thing for them. Sometimes, with proper motivation, they can fight their way back. Other times, it leaves them receptive to the next person who tries to help them.

How does one help someone who has lost their light? That would depend on the person, your existing relationship, and your interpersonal skills. If you notice a friend seems particularly withdrawn, you can talk to them. Starting with general topics and then try to get to what is troubling them.

With a stranger, establishing communication may be much more difficult, but at least stop for a moment and say “Hi!” to them. How you proceed from there is up to you, but I would hope you could manage to help them, if only just a tiny little bit. That may totally be what your role on earth was for the day.

We tend to overlook the small things, and we forget the Devil is in the details. The small gestures, kindness and even conversations we have could be the light you need to shine brightly to illuminate and even better heal a brother or a sister just like yourself.

Shine your light in all the ways you think you can. This is unlimited. There is no specific way, all ways lead home.

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Speak your truth

Even though your voice shakes, speak your truth.

Even though your feet hurts, stand your ground

Even though your heart breaks love yourself

Allow the universe to work for you by letting go..

This is one of the hardest truths in life. Letting go is a very powerful magnet . Just as you have to let go of the food you eat through your stool and you can’t resist that, because the body literally forces you to sometimes. Same way the universe works. Remember the YOU-niverse is YOU !! We are mirrors. You only get what you give. It’s tough but weirdly simple.. Follow the rules of nature.

There comes a time in everyone’s life where we have no choice but to accept life as IT IS. This is one major lesson that has made so many of our ancestors reincarnate in different ways including using major events to reawaken us to our original state. So much alterations have been done in the past. But we are now in a new world and some of us got here so we can hold the door for others to come in.

Change is here and it comes with power. You are the power. You are the key. You are the door. Share your life lessons as you see it. Mostly, allow life to be in your favor by being yourself at all times. Everything that has an advantage definitely has its disadvantages we all know. So, there may be backlashes, opinions, advices etc that might be the reason you’re still stuck. This is a call to wake you up and remind you that the key has been in your power to make a decision all along.

Speak your truth and live your life. Everything changes and you don’t want to be living the past life in the present moment.

Awaken to your divinity as a wholesome being of light. You are a star. Yes you! Embrace it. Embrace yourself. You are perfection in disguise. Own your shit.

Do you know how to get to the place in your life where you know for sure that everything is happening FOR YOU ? Have you decided that it’s time to let go of the old and welcome the GIFT OF THE PRESENT ?

If yes I’m super proud of you, I also implore you to help awaken the sleeping giants and lost souls and if no, send me an email or share in the comments below.

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WATER

The element of water is feminine. It is the element of emotion and subconscious, of purification, intuition, mysteries of the self, compassion and family. The Element of Water is a heavy, passive element and is contrary to Fire. It is associated with the qualities of darkness, thickness and motion. The wisdom of water is infinite, and you will find it if you invest the time to meditate and contemplate it’s vastness your rewards will be quite enlightening (if not enlightenment itself).

Our bodies are composed of about 70% water, a similar percentage to that of the ocean surface compared to land. Blood and sap are really variations of water. As much as we drink it, wash, fish and swim in it, and cook with it, we nearly always overlook the special relationship water has with our lives. There are a hundred times as many water molecules in our bodies than the sum of all the other molecules put together. Although water is the most familiar of liquids, it is also the most mysterious and least understood.

For many reasons, water meaning deals with intuition, psychic perception and dreams. What happens under the surface of water is a mystery to the unaided eye. It’s much the same with human emotions. Water reminds us to dive beneath the surface of our feelings and use intuition for better understanding.

Free-flowing rivers, meandering their way through nature’s peaks and valleys are often seen as some of Earth’s most serene wonders. The gentle waves tumbling over rocks and the glistening reflection of the world around makes water a true natural beauty.

However, like most things beautiful, below the surface many complexities often arise and the same is true when talking about the water zodiac signs, which in the world of astrology comprises of three different signs: x, Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces.

  • Cancer: June 22–July 22.
  • Scorpio: October 23–November 21.
  • Pisces: February 19–March 20.

The water signs are known for being sensitive and emotional. They tend to hold on to people and items long past their expiration dates, and their emotions are always flowing like the waves of the oceans. These signs have intense dreams, visions, and intuition so strong that it’s basically a psychic power. Security is important to them after all, water needs a container, or it dries up and disappears.

Spiritually water represents change. Water is always moving, just like the circumstances and events of our lives. The sea can appear extremely rough one day, but the next morning it’ll be calm again and it will look like nothing ever happened. The same goes for our everyday life. The storm will eventually die down and make room for clarity and calmness. 

When we swim it is water that supports us, when we are thirsty, it is water the quenches our thirst, another manifestation of this element is the rainstorms that drench us, or the dew formed on plants after the sun has set. As well as being vital for life, within the energy of this element is contained the essence of love. Love is the underlying reason for all magic. Water is love.

Water also symbolizes purity. It is literally the most important element we use to clean and wash ourselves. However, what most people don’t realize, is that water possesses a healing property towards the spirit as well. Even just looking at water can help calm you down and make you feel more connected with your true life purpose.

 The powerful element of water is finally becoming widely acknowledged as the incredible vehicle for consciousness that it actually is.  Like many things in life, it was right in front of us the whole time, but it was not until we became aware of it’s existence that we were finally able to finally see it.

One of the most beautiful lessons water can teach us his how to be flexible and embrace change. Consider: Water always takes on the form in which it is held. It can also carve out mountains to make its way forward. Water reminds us to go with the flow no matter what the situation.

Water is a relatively simple element with which to work. When you are stressed out, just wash those energies off your hands. By turning water warm, you add the Fire element. Once, released, cool the water for regenerative and invigorating vibes. Speaking if vibes, the element of water matches with Master number 22. In numerology, 22 is the builder. It takes our dreams and aspirations and helps us manifest them just as the water element does.

It is the restlessness of water that gives living systems the ability to become ever more complex and to strive towards the perfection they can never reach. As a driver of evolution, water is a model for our own striving, allowing us to evolve through our own mistakes. This is the self-empowerment on it’s own.

If we could personally experience and truly understand the miraculous properties of water for life, our lives would become more meaningful and, (if it is not too late) we could become responsible custodians of Nature.

In Tarot, the traditional Suit of Cups is the suit of water. It is receptive, a vessel, and a symbol of the deep, primordial unconscious mind and womb. Water shows us the images, or imprint, of things. Emotions, feelings, and psychic knowledge are all represented by water in the Tarot tradition.

Water flows and changes, and it carries away what it cleanses. Water is the great purifier. We wash away our sins, we cleanse our wounds, and our tears bring release.

Do you work with water element intentionally?

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Fire

The element of fire relates to will and power. The passion, the electromagnetic field of presence.The power of the tongue! Fire is,expansive, intense and constantly seeking to overcome anything that limits its self-expression.

Fire provided a source of warmth, protection from predators, a way to create more advanced hunting tools and a method for cooking food. These cultural advances allowed cultural innovations and changes to human diet and behavior.

Because fire warms and gives off light like the sun, it often represents the sun or a sun god in mythology. It is linked with the idea of the hearth, the center of a household. Fire can also be a symbol of new life, as in the case of the phoenix, the mythical bird that is periodically destroyed by flames to rise reborn from its own ashes.

It can also represent bravery, beginnings and drive. Fire is active energy. It houses beings called Salamanders that dance inside with joy until the source burns no more. In Feng Shui the Element of Fire embodies our enthusiasm, warm feelings, movement and spiritual radiance. The Fire is alive and gives birth to new life and new ideas.

Fire Signs:

Aries – March 21 – April 20

Leo – July 23 – August 23

Sagittarius – November 23 – December 21

A Fire sign individual (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius) is an indicator of someone filled with creativity. This element manifests itself in creative and unique ways, and those in its glow are wonderfully courageous and lively spirits. Those influenced by a Fire sign are self-sufficient, spontaneous and possess a tremendous zest for life. Natives of this component are passionate and could even be compared to volcanoes, especially when their enthusiasm turns into a form of aggressiveness.

Fire represents many things to many people and cultures. It is recognized as a purifier, a destroyer and as the generative power of life, energy and change. It represents illumination and enlightenment, destruction and renewal, spirituality and damnation”.

What is spiritual fire, where does it come from and why does it drive us to seek greater purpose? Why do we search for meaning in our lives? Why does it seem like we have a spiritual fire burning a hole in our souls? Really, why should we do this? It holds no immediate gratification to find meaning in life and yet many are seeking.


Fire is one of God’s greatest gifts to humanity. With fire we cook food, heat our homes, and destroy garbage that would otherwise overwhelm us. Likewise, the gift of speech is of great benefit. With our tongues we communicate information, express affection,praise and curse. A tongue under control can speak life and truth into our world, bless and discipline our children, and transfer the wisdom. But, like fire out of bounds, our tongues can also do great damage.

How do you use this element in your life?

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AIR

The element of Air is light, it is an active element and is contrary to Earth atmosphere. It is associated with the qualities of darkness, motion and thinness. Scientifically, Nitrogen and oxygen make up about 99 percent of Earth’s air that we breathe.

The element of Air is vital to human survival, without it we would all perish, its quality is active. Air is the manifestation of movement, freshness, communication and of the intelligence. Sound is another manifestation of this element. As an element, it is invisible, but its reality can be felt in the air that we breathe in and out every day. We cannot capture or tame the Air, but we certainly know it’s with us. It can be tempestuous or still, or as gentle as a puff on a birthday candle.

To connect with the power of this element, find a place with clean air and breathe deeply, touch a feather or inhale the fragrance of a heavily scented flower. Let yourself experience the energy of this element, and reflect that we also possess Air energy within ourselves.

The air element works in conjunction with all other elements to sustain life on this planet. Think about how air works with the others: air fuels fire, moves earth, makes clouds with water. We inhale and exhale air, it cools us off, but it can also be destructive and blow down houses. Without air, we definitely would not survive. Air is whirling, twirling, twisting, freeing. Whipping, swirling, caressing, calling, kissing, clouding, flying. Speak it into existence, whisper it into the wind..

The air signs are:
Gemini: May 21–June 21.
Libra: September 23–October 23.
Aquarius: January 20–February 18.

In magical terms, Air is the power of the mind, the force of intellect, inspiration, imagination. It is ideas, knowledge, dreams and wishes. Air is the element of new life and new possibilities. Air aids us in visualization, a vital technique in magic. This is why “Air signs” are the thinkers, communicators, and doers of the zodiac( due to the nature “air”). They breeze through life, never stopping to catch their breath and their intelligence helps them make decisions easily.

Air is a masculine element and governs the magick of the four winds. It is the vital spirit passing through all things, giving life to all things, moving and filling all things.

The Air Element corresponds to the Eastern part of creation. It symbolizes a vast network of vital breath, from the winds that brought the Universe into being to the first cry of a newborn baby or first breath of life (Om). Where Earth is “fixed” air is most definitely a mover. It’s also connected to the mind, wisdom, spirits and the soul.

The Element of Air is an excellent representation of spiritual faith. Air reminds us that there is much more to this world than what we can see , and also teaches that we must grow and change as the world does likewise

While nearly any pale colour can represent the Air Element the most common two are Yellow and White.

The Color yellow, symbolizes the season of Spring, which also correlates to the Air Element. For light healers, yellow brings peace into the auric field. Other associations for yellow that carry over to the Air Element includes creativity, intellect, happiness, clarity and perception.

When speaking of the Air Element the vibration of 8 creates change, usually in the areas of finances, career or personal power. It emphasizes balance in various areas of your life and listening carefully to the urgings of Spirit in your life. Wind is not static; it bends and weaves, and when you work with this Element or find it presenting itself in your life, you may find your need for adaptability challenged.

There are many dimensions. It’s time to see what you have not seen, or perhaps what you’re not willing to recognize. You will need an odd combination of control with whimsy and spontaneity. I dare you to run with the wind – see where it takes you.

Love

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Earth

In my last post, i wrote about the elements and what they generally are..Everything on our planet (EARTH) is comprised of the first four, or the classical elements- Fire, Water, Earth, and Air.[-the 5th being Space a.k.a. spirit}. Various states and combinations of them make up the first four. We get Darkness and Light through Fire. Water gives us Ice, and Earth gives us Nature. These elements are vital for human survival, they make life possible, and death inevitable. However, today we are focusing on Earth, (the planet we live in a.k.a, our BODY) and the personality types that best resonate with this element.

Planet Earth is one of the unique planets in the Solar System because of the presence of abundant water resources to sustain life ( p:s , The oxygen we breathe contains 47% water.) The structure of the Earth is like an onion; it has multiple layers. Scientifically the earth is made up of mostly these four elements : Oxygen, silicon,iron and aluminum. The earth´s atmosphere however is composed of 78% nitrogen, 21% oxygen, 0.9% argon, 0.3% carbon dioxide and traces of other elements and particles. Which basically means we are all just a bunch of elements!! and it’s important to which are the elements make you, YOU!

THE EARTH ELEMENT: Practical

TAURUS (April 20-May 20),
VIRGO (August 23-September 22),
CAPRICORN (December 22-January 19)

While each element often carries distinctive connotations depending on cultural settings, there are some commonalities.

Earth energies facilitate all manner of manifestation by putting down strong roots from which our dreams grow into reality.

That is not to say that the Earth Element has nothing but positive characteristics. It can be fierce. Just watch a volcano erupt or the damage from a quake. This kind of power is why it is so important to respect our mother (you know the old saying: it’s not nice to fool Mother Nature).

The Earth is stable and reliable, yet constantly working and moving. Those with the Earth element share these traits. You are practical and logical and stand firm in your convictions. You learn through experience, which is never difficult for a curious person like yourself. You aren’t interested in unrealistic dreams, but rather you believe in setting achievable goals that are attained through hard work. Your home is welcoming and warm and always open to friends and family, which is fitting considering you’re a bit of a homebody.You are stubborn and bull-headed and will often stick to your position for no other reason than it is your position.

Earth Magical Properties: growth, femininity, prosperity, birth, fertility, stability, grounding, finances, death, motherhood.

Magical Tools: salt, pentacle, stones/crystals

The earth element works in conjunction with all other elements to sustain life on this planet. Think about how earth works with the others: earth feeds fire, requires water for growth, produces air (trees/plants) in conjunction with water. But can also suffocate fire and air and impede water. We live on the earth, our feet and homes planted in the soil, and grow our food in the earth. Without earth, we would not survive. Earth is nurturing, grounding, loving, growing, replenishing, moving, sowing, and reaping and no matter what zodiac sign you represent you are EARTH ! as in your skin is ..

With love

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The fundamental elements of our nature

You must have heard about five elements of nature and I am sure you have some basic understanding about it as well. Every visible thing was made up of some combination of earth, water, air, and fire. These four out of five elements were even used to describe the four temperaments a person could have. However, when it comes to body cleansing process or any other natural healing process, there are 5 elements of nature that plays a very important part of the whole ( aka HOLE we dwell in..) In this post, you will learn about those basic but very important concept of our body.

In reality, we do yoga to strengthen our body and we practice meditation for peace of mind, but do we know about the most important elements from which our body is made?

Every human body is essentially made from five elements which are Earth, Water, Fire, Air and Space and upon death all these 5 elements of the human body is dissolved to it’s respective element of nature, so that it can balance the cycle of nature.

Each of these five elements has its own functions and characteristic as described below:

The first element is “Earth”. This element is perceived by five senses. which are Sight, Smell, Taste, Hear and Touch. The physical body with muscles and bones refers to Earth. ( If you think earth is just the planet or ground or world we live in, you couldn’t be more wrong. Earth is the skin that covers your bones,blood , tissues and organs etc.) Earth is the external manifestation of OUR HOME.

The second most important element is “Water”. This element has no odor (smell) but can be heard, felt, seen and tasted. In the human body, blood and other fluid are refer to Water. As we all have been told or even studied, our body contains up to 60% of water. The surface of the earth also covers almost 60% of water or more, what does that tell you ? ( Our bodies, aka Planet Earth cannot survive without over average % of water which contains half air) same as the external surface of the earth we dwell on. hmmm..

The next higher element in human body is “Fire”. In human body our temperature is referred to as the fire. It can be heard, felt and seen. (Internally, our digestive system is a very good example of Fire element that helps our body digest the food we take everyday). The heat, passion and zeal that is required to do anything externally refers to the fire element. We simply cannot do without it! The combination of these elements are the cause of weather change, planetary shifts etc..

The fourth element is “Air”. Air can be felt and heard only, one cannot see air. In the human body, the oxygen and carbon dioxide in the body refers to Air. It is considered as one of the most important factor in life. As we know that the human body can not live without Oxygen which is known as Prana in Sankstrit and this is why one must do regular breathing, mental and physical exercises to keep their body’s Oxygen rich and to prevent diseases.

The fifth and last element is “Space” which is translated in Sanskrit at ‘aakash‘. Space is the medium of sound but is inaccessible to all other senses, and in the human body the Soul refers to Space.

The combination of these 5 elements of nature make up our body and will (a.k.a the wheel of life) ie “our willpower”. These elements in our body will dissolve into their respective elements upon death.

Our fascination with these elements has also led to countless theories that have been created revolving around one or more of these elements for centuries. One of such area of elemental study incorporates philosophical connections to human life, with the individual elements being associated with various personality types. The most notorious of which is Fire, is synonymous with having a fiery personality and being overly-emotional or easily triggered. The Earth type is grounded and they possess strong maternal, and protective instincts. Water types are fluid and easy-going, oftentimes they are the more balanced ones. The Air type is a rational, free-thinker who can see the big picture with more clarity than the other element types.

The elements inside and outside of our bodies are all the same. Awaken to your divinity as a whole!! We are all individually part of a bigger picture..

In my next post, i’ll be diving deep into the world behind all the above mentioned elements.

With love..

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Spicy food is healing food

Being a healer and a teacher has really opened me into a whole new world I must say. I awaken more into my true divine self every moment because I see how ignorance has destroyed many many lives, both living and dead.. I enjoy being a healer because I get to speak the truth and mostly help those who are confused and going through so many deeply rooted emotional, mental and physical ailments without certainty of what is being treated and how it works via drugs or going to the hospital etc..

One of the most effective ways to heal anyone is through food, because as human beings we live via food and water ( we get physically sick through food and water so it definitely makes sense that we heal via food and water). A lot of people do not believe in what they do not see, hence this post. Healing via food is just as powerful as healing via thoughts, energetic healing, reiki healing etc.. These are all the same kinds of healing but using different routes to achieve the same aim. It all starts with the intention to heal! Most people know they are sick but they are NOT READY TO HEAL. To heal you have to BE READY TO LET GO OF WHAT MADE YOU SICK !! Doctors do not tell you that, they treat you, give you drugs, bags of drips and injections and that’s it .. You have to treat from the root of the problem, which stems from a decision to stop ✋ the root cause by knowing the root cause!

Just as spicy thoughts are healing thoughts, spicy foods are healing food. Any food or plant that is spicy, hot, like tumeric, ginger , onions, garlic , cardamom, cloves, pepper, bell peppers ( all colors), cayenne pepper, anise, Angelica, fennel, nutmeg , cinnamon, celery seeds, mustard seeds, cumin ,etc.. these are all very powerful and super healing !! They specifically heal different things in the body . ( in subsequent posts I’ll dive in details as to what each of these plants heal).

Ever had a thought come to you and it is like damn, that’s scary, terrifying, daring, surprising, unusual, ? Most of the time, it is a thought that leads to healing.. ( thought itself is a teacher!) which begs me to believe that women are naturally spicy by tongue, by nature .. and most of these spicy foods are “feminine” because they are healing.

It is more powerful to eat these foods as they are without cooking them because everything in nature is already made to its perfection. So when we cook them, no matter how little, we have decreased it’s components it’s nutrients as well as it’s healing powers and its vitality just like our thoughts, words and actions when we sugarcoat them.

Life is not a school to learn, life is a master to know and master its being ( the being itself is already a master).. We are gods in our OWN right. Every plant is a god in its own right, same as animals. Everything here is made to its perfection to serve you! Open your mind

With love ..

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Service

One of the best quotes I ever heard by Oprah, is be of service and to be excellent at it, then success is by default.

My father loved the word “excellent” he never was satisfied with “very good”, even worse “good”, not to even speak of anything less. He was a man full of confidence in his daughter. He never saw me as anything less than a Queen, a Goddess and he treated me as such ( no he wasn’t close to perfect, he had a negative side to that too same as everyone ).. However, I wouldn’t trade any lesson he taught me directly or indirectly for any other thing in this world.. Excellence seemed like a perfect score” he called me excellence” he would check on the remarks the teacher gave before he checked on the position or percentage level.. I always wondered why..

Recently, I’ve been re-evaluating myself in all my growth areas and I have realized that I didn’t accept that I was excellent not until now ! ( Damn!! that hurt me deeply) and this was a remarkable discovery I woke up to one beautiful morning.. I realized I was born excellent, I grew up in excellence by excellent parents . As a matter of fact I am magnificent! I am excellence!! wow .. what a relief .. Next came the question, how does my excellence be of service ?

In my last post I wrote about “The temple”, https://barisity.com/2020/06/23/the-temple/ ( the true meaning behind the temple), you know, sometimes we as a people need a gentle reminder that we are uniquely different. What do you do in a temple? You serve isn’t it? You were taught to be of service.. How?? By cleaning, directing, organizing, singing etc.. Now that you know what a temple really really is, how do you serve ? It’s quite simple !! You serve, by being your best self and doing it all over and over and over again every single day . That’s how you become excellent!! Excellence is a skill birth from commitment..

When you master yourself, you become aware of your strengths and weaknesses. Being of service simply means putting them to good use at every given moment. If there is one skill you should learn in life, how to master yourself” is just that. You have to learn to serve yourself ! Learn to listen to yourself, learn to observe yourself, learn to acknowledge yourself , learn to tolerate yourself , learn to communicate with yourself .. before you can ever truly be of service to anyone or any group of people you have to be of service to your own damn self!!

The call you are waiting on, the romance you are expecting, the career you hope for, the dream vacation you’re planning on are all experiences that you believe would make you happier. Now imagine, if you can organize, clean and prioritize your emotions and thoughts to focus on these things ( which are all in your temple of course ), what do you think you’re doing? You are simply serving yourself to fulfill your wishes and make you happier !! So it is in businesses, to really be excellent in a business, one has to KNOW THE TEMPLE and the people who patronize that temple ..

Dedication is major key here, anything worth doing is worth doing well they say.. How about, you do yourself well enough and see how everything around you becomes an extended version of you ?!

Be of true service .. by mastering yourself and become excellent at YOURSELF through hard work ( which is real hard work, because you learn on the job).Most people think mastery is a destination, a junction. No it isn’t.. You learn everyday, in every experience and you have to be open minded to be one who learns everyday ( that’s the hard part I believe ).

To serve God is to know yourself and when you do, you become THE TRUTH and of course “the truth shall set you free”.

To lead is to serve and to serve, is to be of service.

Know your temple and be of service!

With love…

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The temple

The mind is a hall like a temple there are ways in and ways out ( doors & windows) which we call portals ..

The ways in are the things we perceive and experience same as the ways out. If you can find the beginning you have found the end. The day you decide you are taking full responsibility for your action is the day everything changes. You’re whole life changes !!

The world is a holographic memory of what we want to see (we only see what we want to see.. ). Everything and everyone has a choice and everyone is FREE by default but as programs set in from an early stage, the molding begins..

If you don’t let yourself go (as in, remove your self from outside of these memories, people and environment you will keep yourself locked in a hall that is filled with so many unnecessary people. ( like people living in your headspace ) it’s all holographic .. Like a memory replaying in it’s loop until you find the record engine and take action when READY!.. The key here is, If you don’t like something, stop it before it spreads like a virus .. This is how life works.. not for one to be a perfectionist but when you do not clean a dirt the moment you see it, it begins to invite more and more dirts, ie your habits, your negative thinking,imaginations, relationships etc.. This happens repeatedly in different scenarios, at different locations, with different faces, different environments and until you see the pattern, you cannot solve it..

This is when people start to question themselves. “Why is this happening to me ???Why me ? etc.. The answer is .. You’re looking for a way out of a problem ( the hall), without realizing that for a problem to come in, a door or maybe a window in the hall was opened. Yes !! There are doors and windows which we call portals .. for instance, my website http://www.barisity.com is a portal for healing, coaching and channeling.. same as your mind. THE TEMPLE” .. When one opens a door it means something is leaving and another is entering. Something has to go for something to come in.. it’s a door !! One door but leads you out or welcomes you in!! ( an exchange of energy, i.e energy never dies just transforms from one form to another.. ever heard of that ??) Check yourselves.. The conversations you share, the people around you , the shows you watch, the music you listen to, the habits you’re used to, the words that come out or your mouth, what are you subscribed to? ,what are you letting into your temple ? What are you open to ? Consciously and subconsciously ?!

For example, I opened a door for a way in ( it means I opened a portal ) It also means, I am ready for a way out ( ie let go of something) .. Same as your body being a temple, when you let someone get into your body, you’re exchanging energy and giving the person some part of you whether you believe it or not ( this could be + -) depending on your vibration.. Every person is karma and an experience replaying itself !!!

Learn to cleanse, guard and nurture your temple .. we all have temples in 3 layers ( spirit, soul and body ). We have been lied to for generations as to what the church really is .. ie temple , the disciples etc.. I would be writing about them in subsequent posts.. but remember, YOUR MIND is your number one asset and your mind is your first temple which has doors and windows and you experience them through your daily activities, people, places, books, websites, apps and so many other ways.. Connect with your true self and you would know which portals are opened that shouldn’t be and of course those that are closed that shouldn’t be. Simply put.. Be in charge of your temple!! do not let a human being like YOU tell you how to live your life! It is yours!!!

With love …

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Life is worth dying for

Hi Royalties, I hope you all are doing amazingly well. I truly hope that all of my readers are physically, mentally and emotionally stable.

I have not written in a couple of weeks now, as I took time out to reconnect with source and most importantly prepare for the shifts that will be occurring the next couple of months. I have been blessed with the ability to see and it is a true curse and a blessing. However, I’ve come to a conclusion and a huge awakening recently, that life is simply worth dying for..

Yes! life is worth dying for and death is absolutely worth living for..

We decide and choose our days and nights whether you believe it or not. We are the creators of our destinies. We are beings with different, talents, emotions and capabilities yet we barely acknowledge that yet alone use them, forgetting that these are simply tools to help us navigate our experiences during this lifetime. To be truly evolved, you have to outgrow who you used to be and then embody change which comes usually with pain. Growth comes with change and nothing changes if NO THING changes. So you see.. it all begins with YOU !!

We are living in a new world now and it may take a while for a lot of people to see it but as you know by now that most of what I write eventually comes to pass .. We should begin buckling up and readjust our lenses because this new world is all about taking risks. Yes !! You have to believe that anything can happen which means you can literally pass away at any given moment. I know it sounds quite daring but in reality that mindset is what is needed to face this new world and this will literally change your whole existence.

There is a split happening between the 3D and the 5D (matrix and reality) right now and the old world is being separated from the new world .. between now and September many global changes will occur that will last about a decade or more and it is advisable that we all begin learning certain life skills to enable us adapt as well as teach the new borns because it might be quite challenging. When a split occurs, everything changes it’s position. The lows become the highs and the highs become the lows… So, embrace change now or you will be forced to eventually.

What really is the essence of life? Ever thought about that ? What really is the essence of not living to your fullest potential especially knowing that one day, you will expire? Take risks! Do things you never thought you could. Love your neighbor, help a stranger, love your haters, invest in yourselves and people who have invested their time in you.. Karma is life and death is life ..

Everything is worth nothing if you’re not happy and fulfilled (because you’re simply existing without living). So, yea!! Life is definitely worth dying for..

Be the change you want to see in your sibling, your mother, your spouse, your mentor, your neighbor, your fav celebrity. Be the change you want to see in the world. It all begins with what you change about yourself. If you think about dying, then you really would see billions of reasons why you should live your best life. Embrace your life now no matter what you might be experiencing so when change comes your previous experience would be a new lesson.

Life is worth dying for and death is worth living for!

Dare yourself to be better than your ancestors, your predecessors, your older beliefs systems my dear royalties, because what is coming is far greater than what is gone and to be prepared is to be aware and forewarned that life is absolutely worth dying for and death is reason enough to LIVE without fear because it is inevitable.

With love ….

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Shut up

Always talking ..

How do we listen when we are always talking?, If there is nothing to talk about people still find something to speak about, even worse gossip. If only everyone could see energy.. In life everything is + – (give and receive, positive and negative ). Speaking is + (giving ) , listening is – ( receiving).

Keeping quiet is as important as speaking is. Finding the balance is key here.

Speaking takes energy, listening recharges that.Just as sleeping recharges our body listening recharges the mind. Music recharges the soul.

Do you know why they say you cannot serve two masters at once? It literally is because we as human beings cannot. Being focused, requires the body, soul and spirit paying attention to one thing just like the lens of a camera. That’s why it’s called a focal point. It takes a very grounded person to speak and listen at the same time.. that’s why we have two ears and one mouth.

Shut up for a whole day I assure you, you would realize a whole damn lot!!

Everything gets extremely louder when it’s quiet. The answers you need are in silence. Spend time in a quiet place at least for a period of time daily. This is very important for your health, your mind and your memory. Just like money.. the reason why money was changed from coins to notes is to help reduce noise and to reduce the weight of carrying money as coins, yet it feels really loud when you do have a lot of money.. Even if you’re not loud as a person, it attracts people who would want that for you ? Ever wondered why that is ?? Well, maybe for once you’re actually listening…

Shut up !! Yes, you !! Shut it up for a moment 🤐 …

Our words are spells. Why do you think learning about words is called spelling aka – SPELL-ING?, ( ie bringing words to life by speaking ) ?, just like the word “grammar” was derived from GRIMOIRE” – ( a.k.a the book of spells). Listening now ?? Uhuh…

Royalties, we are really more than we think we are and I feel like we all need a reminder of how amazing and powerful we are individually and as a collective. It’s like we are trapped in a closet ( closet being the body ) and sometimes, I’m sure you might be wishing you could scream out your lungs due to whatever reason. That’s also because you feel like you are more than you already are.. but in actuality you really are way more than the body shows you.. So for once again, shut up ! Listen ..

Shut up !! and listen ..

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Be brave

Learn to be brave. Learn to say what you want to say. Be brave !! Learn to do what you ought to do. Allow your words to flow effortlessly without trying to sugarcoat them. You learn a lot more when you’re free with your thoughts and words without judgement or fear .

Life is all about tests and classes. Where you go to school is not relevant, where you work is also irrelevant, what kind of background you have also doesn’t really matter,but how you learn from every experience, how you treat people when no one’s there, how kind, how humble and how patient can you be ? Now,that’s the school of life itself. Growth comes from pain and struggles if only you’re open to learn. So no matter what you might be going through, you have to learn to grow through it.

I get told a lot how I’m too old for my age but if I told you that my soul is over a million years old wouldn’t confuse you even more ? People are so focused on what they see, they forget everything comes in twos the seen and the unseen.. Life itself is an illusion. This universe is simply a simulation. Ever wondered why everything around you keeps changing and you stay the same ?? There is a glitch in the matrix and it will all soon begin to make sense if it doesn’t already.

Be brave! Take a chance on your dreams today! On that new career, that new romance, that new decision. Be brave!!.. Walk away from anything that doesn’t add value to your life, to your mental and emotional health!Walk away from gossip, from worries, from anger, walk away from complaining, competing, comparing and watch how your life will change in a blink of an eye. Yes, it may seem hard especially if you’re used to negativity all your life. But remember, nothing great comes easy..

Bravery comes with mastery. Mastering one’s self. You can be anything you want. You can do anything you want . Question is how bad do you want it? How hungry are you ??.. If anything has been learnt this year alone with all that life has revealed to us we should know that nothing lasts forever and we should get acquainted with the unknown, the unexpected!

Remain strong, stay healthy and wait for no one. Use your intuition and do only what your gut tells no matter how hard it may seem, it’s always okay in the end. If it’s not okay yet, then it’s definitely not the end.

Being brave could also mean doing nothing, allowing the universe to flow the way she is supposed to. Remember we are in the waters of life and everything is vibrating. Be brave!! Allow nature take it’s course…

Stay productive! Stay awesome ❤️

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Crystals

Have you ever heard about Gemstones and crystals? If you have, do you believe in them ? If you haven’t, then this is for you.

Healing crystals have been used since ancient times, so there is a wealth of knowledge and experience that has been handed down from generation to generation. Once you know the crystal basics, use your intuition to choose the right healing stones for your spiritual journey. Harnessing the energy of the Sun, the Moon, and the oceans, semi-precious stones or gemstones easily connect us to Earth as soon as we come into contact with them. Many people wonder if crystals actually have healing powers, and while there are many anecdotes describing the curative effects of healing stones, it really does depends on your own experience. It takes a conscious effort to open your heart and mind to the power of crystal healing. As for me, I’m still learning to work with them but I can attest to the fact that they do work if you pay close attention to your intentions and manifestations.

My father had many crystals and I always wondered why he decorated them like trophies around the house when I was a little girl. He made me play with them when I was young. (Well,not directly, I was exceptionally curious lol ) but I fell in love with them. I didn’t know anything about them up until I became an adult. Now that I think of it, it’s funny how I’ve always been in alignment with who I am even subconsciously.

Remember, that every thing you can see, touch, smell or feel has energy and operates at a certain frequency and vibration. Yes! Every single thing that exists including these “ precious stones”.

Thoughts create vibrations throughout the universe, which makes setting intentions a powerful tool for achieving happiness and well-being. Having a clear purpose provides us with insight into our aspirations, dreams, and values. It also helps us live in the present moment instead of being caught in negative thought patterns. Intentions are like magnets. They attract what will make them come true.

Crystals are very powerful stones with different vibrations for different healing purposes. Every sickness in life has a natural cure or healer that is already in nature (ie herbs, stones etc ). Crystals are also here as one of the tools given by nature to help raise our vibrations,balance and heal traumas and help transform your awareness.

There are so many crystals that even I am not aware of, yet there are few I’ll say that I’ve come to fall in love with due to my awareness and spiritual growth.

Crystal experts often say that the crystal chooses you instead of the other way around. Walk around the room and see what crystals stand out to you. Whether it’s the dazzling colors or otherworldly shapes and patterns that draw you in, each crystal has a unique vibrational energy that works to clear blockages and ward off negative energy.

Finding the right stone is like any practice of wellness. It requires patience while you quiet the mind and realign the mind/body balance. Hold the stone in your hand and quietly think of your intention. Notice if you feel sensations such as hot or cold, pulsations, or calmness and tranquility. These are all signs that this particular rock is perfect for your healing needs.

It also helps to identify a particular problem or challenge you’re currently facing. If you’re having trouble concentrating, Fluorite help clear mental and emotional confusion, which can prevent concentration. To bring abundance into your life, citrine helps you manifest your dreams by channeling the positive vibrations of the sun. Carnelian is a powerful crystal to get the creative juices flowing.

Setting an intention is a powerful tool for achieving happiness. Crafting an intention starts by setting goals that align with your values, aspirations, and purpose and of course crystals can help you with that. If you would like for me to write about my own crystals and my experiences with them. Leave a comment down below.

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Money is borrowed time

Do you know that we are all reliving our days from every new moon till every full moon? Same ol shit everyday, different scenarios. Nothing is new. No thing,shape or form.Yet we hope for tomorrow. Breaking news it never comes! Today was yesterday’s tomorrow. There is no end, and that’s because we all live in circles..You can only work with your circumference and that’s why it’s called a circumstance( a circle you stand in..ie – an experience you stand in ). If you think you are in a SIT—uation( a.k.a-sitting on action) and you think you cannot get out of it, then you’re indeed still sleeping. You have to stand up from a SIT-uation, which simply is getting out of your butt and taking action.

We are all living on borrowed time. Money and wealth are totally not the same. Do not confuse having money with being wealthy.. I, once had an experience with someone whom I owed some money threaten my life and I remember saying… “Because of money?”.. Surprisingly, that aggravated the person so much I was stunned…then I realized, how triggering that must have been to the individual..( In this lifetime, I’ve seen, that the power of money is life to a lot of people , human beings literally worship money! Money is everything to them, a.k.a power!!. People with more money sometimes feel so powerful enough to bully the ones with less money..

Nothing is really yours i’ve learned and nothing also really matters I’ve realized.. Everything eventually evaporates.. Yes !!. Why is that ? you might be wondering .. It’s like watching a movie or a record player.. go on and on .. eventually it’ll stop either according to the timeframe of the said record, or when you get tired, get up and change it !!

For instance, you’re an employee, working to get paid, irregardless of the work you do, you “spend” your time and get paid in return -via money! For the borrowed time you serve with i.e work with.. Simply put, you sell your time for money over a period of time ( borrowed time)..yes!,that’s just the way it is. There is nothing wrong with that as far as you’re aware.. I know quite a lot of people who might disagree but that’s just the way it is. Nothing is free, everything is owed..

If you happen to find yourself in a situation and you cannot wrap your head around it, do this, simply get your ass up and do something entirely different, opposite if I may! because whether or not you think about it.. time keeps rolling, just like the record player. Life may be tough at times, confusing even dissatisfactory, but if you understand that time is only perceived as time because we were told that’s what it is .. and you know the truth is nothing lasts for ever, everything changes eventually, then you know what I mean when I say we are all living on borrowed time and what we do each day is our installmental payment for living here..

Some people pay their installments sooner than others. That doesn’t change the fact that we are all in debt. And that’s where karma sets in .. it’s called Karma because it’s a debt .. we all have personal scores to settle.. the beauty is “TIME” because we all do not know what time it will be. Except the chosen ones( awakened Souls)”. We know it’s every single moment we are paying back or being paid our due. Either way .. we are all living on borrowed time. Therefore whatever you do will be paid back to you of course in due time.. In this life or another. But which is better or worse ?? This life or another ??

Think about it …

Would you rather get paid back now or another life,another time, different scenario ? Think twice .. There really is nothing that is new. Everything changes. Be kind,be compassionate, be generous.. it’s the best gift for your soul … Pay your dues everyday to anyone you are privileged enough to have an experience with. ( Yes, I said privilege, because we have angels walking amongst us and they may look just like regular people, same as we have demons).

Life is finite.. Time is wealth, but “GOOD times” 👉 the real wealth !!

“My people will say time na money”.

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The healing power of music

Music 🎶 is the most common and used tool for communicating, healing, channeling, teaching, even programming and most importantly transformation ie to create change!.

Sound and light make up the whole universe we are in.The difference between teaching and healing is simply the transformation in between( the channel). If you read the introduction to this site , you’ll see I said this is a channel, a portal. I am a portal for ancient wisdom and healing and I’ve always channeled through music even before my artist career days. Since I was 2 years old as I was told. But as far as I could remember which would be around age 3,4,5, I remember being called “The interpreter, aka radio without battery” ( it was an abuse at the time from my aunts who were my caretakers) but my mom and dad said no darling “you’re special”. It took me different kinds and layers of abuse to understand the pain was the gift.

Music healed me in more ways than I can write, still heals me, speaks to me and clearly directs me.. The spirit of sound and light has been used to lie and misinform generations of the children and adult alike especially because it’s right in our faces.

As human beings, everything we do comes from light and sound. These two make up the being ie galaxy we dwell within. So it is only right that we create with it. Music existed before we even knew it was called music. Different instruments have been created and are still being made to channel beautiful healing frequencies and vibrations which all have their own abilities, information (light), and vibrations depending on how it’s being used.

Choose sounds that aid you ! Choose music, tones, instruments, words, voices, that aid you. Know what aids or depletes you. Every sound either aids you or depletes you. I know this might sound cliche but it’s the pure undiluted truth and it’s unfortunate this is really underrated.

Music is a portal , a channel , this is why you learn faster with or through music. This is why most celebrities are used as role models or puppets, because the power they carry is beyond the physical. This is also why the illuminati” as claimed targets mostly artists and musicians.. Does this still sound cliche?? Wake the hell up !!

Since the beginning of time, music has been a gift to mankind and it’s been told over and over again in different forms… every culture, tradition, race, belief system all agree on certain languages as I’ll categorize them.. ie music and sports.. why do you think that is ?? (Sound and light).. Dig a little deeper my dear royalties.. This decade is all about waking up to reality. Raising the veil, so you can see beyond the clouds ⛅️

Choose what and who makes you smile, laugh , dance 💃 as these are the less spoken about but most powerful healing transformative powers we all already have but always overlook as it is not seen as anything worthwhile. Most great teachers have refused to teach about this and those who know rather monetize it rather than allow truth seekers know.. Well,welcome to my platform!! Where I aim to enlighten and aid you on you spiritual awakening and self development journey..

That being said, I personally would love to see powerful and amazing creators, artists, celebrities etc create music now that’ll be timeless. Music that would remind us of what the world is going through right now. Music that when we look back at the beginning of this year 2020 we would have something that kept us going. Music is a major tool that we can all use to conquer our fears, balance our emotions and of course heal the mind, body and soul!! Let us use the music accordingly.. We deserve great songs from great minds right now not only words and food backed up with fear and death threats of a dis-ease.

Ease up! Heal up !

Let the waters flow within you through sound. Breathe into the flow, through music you could heal generations of torture, pain and inflictions..you will be amazed at how life changing this could be for you if you get this correctly.

I hope you’re having an amazing day and of course if you have any questions please do not hesitate to reach me via my email. Let us help those in need while we are still living. Life is finite! Tomorrow never comes.

Till the next read🥰

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Yin and yang

We live in a cyclical world and if you’re an avid reader on my site by now, you know I mean literally we live in a cyclical world (i.e a womb, this is why what goes around comes back around to complete the cycle). Listen , within that is a spiral( I.e the tree of life, — a.k.a-the snake on a tree) and this is why everything in life is interwoven, because they all end and begin eventually which makes every single existing thing connected. Your experiences, your imaginations, your environment, plants, insects etc…Every existing thing!!

To understand the YIN and YANG is to over stand the within and without— black and white. Dark and light.Conscious and subconscious. (aka seen vs unseen)..These are all one in the same thing. ( Do not get confused by the words. They are all the same thing) !!

What emits light?— The sun — with light you can see ie you see things, people, places to go, what you’re surrounded by .. basically what you’re consciously aware of is the “YANG”— the output, the external, outside..

What withholds light? —The moon —Yin (darkness )you can’t see , people sleep — it’s the illusion realm ( you can dream, day dream etc )— when you close your eyes you can see but not through the external ( a.k.a the yang ).. because you are seeing from within – The yin .. Basically, what you’re subconsciously aware of is the Yin realm – the input.

In the yin realm there is no direction. In the yang realm there is direction.You can not compare the two because they both make the whole being we live in .. Everything that exists is also non existent.

When they come together it turns out to be a whole circle the wheel”— like in the tarot cards it is “the wheel of fortune”.The whole”.

The yin realm— is feminine i.e your emotions, your vibrations, how you feel (aka the moon, mother).

For instance in our daily lives this is how it could play out — when you’re sad people ask you, “why are you down”? That’s because the yang has directions( i.e up and down etc..(when you’re up, you are excited and when you’re down you’re not ). This because it is the external part of you that they can see..the output, your yang) but the yin (i.e within,internal, input )doesn’t have any directions and if you’re asked the same question— it implies they are talking about your spirit” — which implies “ why is your spirit down”?? Get it ?

The essence of this breakdown is so that you know that we need both the yin and yang to be whole — same as the sun and moon (masculine and feminine )as I wrote previously .. These are all the SAME NAMES DIFFERENT WORDS.

We are living in a whole new world and so many generations of lies and confusion has been passed down since the beginning of time. Some books were written out of greed, some out of fear, some just for power,hence the pass down of this huge mis-information, Most teachers teach what they were taught or what they read from another confused teacher with little or no explanation so they barely understand what they teach and that leaves people confused with even more questions. We have been given so many words from different languages, books and teachers to describe the same damn thing and this leaves room for confusion. Remember there is nothing outside of us that is not inside of us. We need the whole of ourselves inside to feel whole outside ( externally). I really hope my break down helps you assemble this properly so we all can grow and ascend accordingly.

You need your imaginations and actions to manifest..if you have just the yin part of you —at 100% and the yang part of you lacking you’ll be frustrated in one area of your life and vice versa.

Here is what I mean ,your soul lives in the yin realm— where there is no direction .. so without the physical body you’re living in the yin realm? Do you get it ?

Your body is the yang- conscious, external, the physical and without the body there is no space for the soul to live in (the yin , emotions, internal, feminine).. that’s why we have a spirit which is the beginning of it all.

Yin +yang — makes a being!! Your being !!

Same as ..

Sun and moon

Thoughts and actions

Within and without

Heaven and hell

Yin and yang

Masculine and feminine

And, my dear royalties….This is life !!

See previous posts on 👇

THE SUN — https://barisity.com/2020/02/26/the-sun/

THE MOON — https://barisity.com/2020/03/04/the-moon/

The relationship between the two –👇

https://barisity.com/2020/03/14/the-relationship-between-the-sun-and-the-moon/

Till the next read ..

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How to overcome anxiety

Hi Royalties, I send love and warmth your way especially during this weird times. I know a lot of people are feeling the heat right now including myself but I also know that everything that has a beginning has an end. These times have called for taking a step back and re -evaluating but most importantly I believe we are being called to deeply relax and allow nature take its refreshing course irregardless of what’s going on.

There is so much tension in the air .. but on earth there is so much transformation going on. Anxiety and depression usually comes with times like this. Fear comes in different forms and anxiety is one of them.However, to overcome anxiety is to first be aware of the root cause and then take adequate measures to get out of that energy.

Anxiety is simply putting in so much percentage level-on what you should do or shouldn’t do. One of the main reasons one might be experiencing anxiety is observing and caring too much about the reactions of others,loss of reputation, being restricted in any way shape or form etc”. Anxiety usually stems from being in a “box” for too long . That energy could be sticky which makes you unable to move freely. Then panic, doubt, fear, anxiety sets … and of course,makes you very nervous. For instance,you’re locked up with in a boundary/ restriction/limit. (This could be just about your location or people you’re around). Here’s the thing anxiety comes from you not thinking you’re doing the right thing within that environment or thinking too much about not being right because of the people around and vice versa.

Understand that there is no right or wrong! It is only your perspective! So if you think you’re doing something not right, it’s obviously because you think someone else feels it isn’t or something around you is making you feel that way … this could be on a micro or macro scale.

Basically, anxiety is you thinking too much about what you’re observing and thinking what you’re doing is not right” ( remember there is no right or wrong ).. so this could be about the way people act compared to how you act. The first mistake here is that what’s wrong for you maybe right for someone else ..and what’s right for someone could be wrong for you— “Perspective”. So stop comparing!

To overcome anxiety, you have to understand your perspective, which usually is the root cause and then express why you feel that way. When one becomes anxious, it means you’re not being (living) in the present moment. You are worrying about the future” what hasn’t happened. While depression is simply being “deeply pressed over a situation”- which is related to living in the past.

Below are my few steps to help you overcome anxiety.

1-Practice breathing exercises using a countdown to keep you stable.

2-Take a cold shower.

3-Re-direct your energy and do something totally unusual to you as this helps you break free from that mental prison.

4- Stop censoring what you say or do ( do not put restrictions on your self ).

5- Practice spending time with people who treat you well.

6- Treat yourself like like someone you’re in love with.

7- Believe you can heal.

Stay calm, breathe and stay optimistic. Everything changes. You can get through it. Yes you can!

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The Three forms of eating

This is a continuation of my previous post. About the 3 parts of our being. Each and every single one of us has 3 parts to us. The spirit, the soul and the body. It also means we feed in 3 forms and we heal in 3 forms, we die in 3 forms also. Today, I would focus more on the forms of eating. You and I eat in 3 forms every moment.

Yes you do.

Spirit is of darkness (invisible )and the body is made of light (visible)

The light comes out of darkness ( your body is birthed out of the spirit )!! Get it ?

Every single thing in life has ..

Frequency — life

Vibration — experience

Energy —death, transformation

Spirit —— eats information ie..consciousness (ideas, sound, light ). This is why the moment you stop eating spiritually ,stop thinking, analyzing etc .. technically you’re spiritually dead .. a lot of religious people, atheists etc are spiritually dead because they are not feeding the spirit. They are either eating only the same thought process or not eating at all because they are locked into a particular thought, idea,etc..

Your Soul eats — vibrations and emotions.

This is your ability to have your own perception about the travel that you’re going through .. this is your vibrations, your time, experience.

Let’s say you’re numb , you stop feeling , you get emotionally dry .. you have no feelings .. people call you soul-less why ??—- this is because you’ve starved your soul …

If it were the body that you didn’t feed — what happens??you become skinny and you’re going to die physically.

So it is with all our 3 bodies.

Body eats food and water

The physical body —this is the part of us we see.

So the question is ..”what are you eating”? , Are you feeding yourself? Or are you being fed?..

You need to understand that you could be feeding and eating the wrong things .. spiritually,soulfully and physically ..

Same way you eat physically , you could be eating the wrong thoughts, food, feelings, etc and this is what brings about bad life experiences..

If you eat good you get good

If you eat bad, what do you get ??

You can die spiritually, you can lose your soul and you can die physically

Now you see why I don’t call death “death” but transformation. Whatever dies only transforms from one form to another.

The way you stuff your mouth with food (physically)

You stuff yourself with experiences —(soul)

And spiritually—(thoughts)

This is why meditation is our human medication and I believe we all should practice it.

I will be teaching more about this and more during my online live classes pretty soon.

Till the next read..

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The great awakening

2020- The revolutionary year as I had called it earlier this year, is beginning to show itself globally and that my dear royalties is a massive revolution. We have to know death to understand life and vice versa. Everything happening now is a necessary catalyst for the Planet’s transformation. It all depends on how you perceive it.

We as humans, haven’t been very kind to this earth. Pollution, deforestation, millions of animals (wild and domesticated) slaughtered at any given moment, we’re kind of parasitic, and this is kind of the earths way of clearing out a lot of the problems, nature always finds a way.

For a long time, we have heard about the awakening and it’s shenanigans. But during recent times, it’s becoming louder even with the silence..

So many things are happening simultaneously but do not get distracted. {Be still for I am God}. How else would you listen and observe what part of your life needs to be changed/ transformed if your life were to just go on forever without this very necessary break?Where people see the fear ( a virus) , I see a rebirth of the new Earth, The evolved words, i see a new world ( which also means, a new world order a.k.a light and dark ).

Here is what I mean literally, we had to be locked down in every layer of our beings for this to take place which simply put — spiritually, mentally and physically. ( ie..Death)

We are being pulled back and forth mentally, physically and of course spiritually during these trying times. Oh,and guess what had to happen for humans to remember our “CORE VALUES”? A “VIRUS”— ( which I call a “divide-us”).

It all started with the usual instilling of fear” — (attacking you spiritually), then mentally-( attacking how you think — news, media etc) .. lastly a physical lockdown ( isolating you from your friends, co-workers and general public as a whole ) .. Are you getting this ??

Now, this is why I’ll call it a gift and a curse,which is all about balance.Universal balance!

You see, the gift is, now you have time to sort out your issues, look yourself in the mirror and face your self, face your fears, get really comfortable with your life decisions, or even uncomfortable.

Then the curse, is — not being able to go back to the life you once thought you “ had”. (Keyword- YOU THOUGHT”)..

Times have indeed changed and now I guess the great awakening is speaking for itself. The old leaves are falling off for the freshly planted seeds to grow beautifully. I’m sorry to disappoint you but life will never be the same again after this whole phenomenon and if you still expect to go back to the way things are “YOU THOUGHT” wrong. Old systems are all broken. Just by the click of one button on the news or social media, the whole world was put on isolation yet people do not seem to understand the power behind the “internet”.

You have to know separation to know oneness. (ie..You had to be isolated to be more in tune with yourself ). Now is the time to unite with your star player! Your creator! Your highest self. Because, THIS IS A WHOLE NEW WORLD.

This is not only a wake up call to conscious communities, but a UNIVERSAL WAKE UP CALL from those in command because of the rate at which the whole world is awakening. There is a huge mass awakening happening and its never happened at this rate. Of course, people will try to stop or slow it down.. Hence, the economic crisis..You’re isolated for a reason. Use it wisely because when you’re released, nothing will ever be the same again. Nothing ! Companies will begin to cut down staffs, banks will cease to be banks, schools will be shutdown totally, robots taking over most jobs,human beings micro-chipped,etc.. Remember, it is the Age of Aquarius ♒️ and It is a time for innovation, creativity and inventions. So yes! Nothing will ever be the same again. Are you ready?!

Arise o Compatriots and take back your power! Learn about your history so you can create your future. Life is finite for a reason. Nothing lasts forever. Do all you can now to be a better person to yourself and loved ones because when there are mass awakenings it also means there will be mass deaths ( Balance) ..Find your purpose and be of service because that’s what’s most important. Learn to grow and help others grow because in the end that’s all that matters.

Remember in the end no one is getting out of life, Alive.

This is the great awakening! Stay safe, remain healthy, stay positive, be kind and of course be conscious 👁

Welcome to the new world!

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What is the Spirit, soul and body?

Before i dive deep into this. I would like you to know that the human body has three parts to it. A lot of individuals do not even know this. Some people think we have just this physical body and that everything is physical.

“Your physical body is only your earthsuit”— like a physical bag that embodies the three part of you.

What I’m about to share with you would help you with the understanding of yourself as a whole-(spirit, soul, and body). Understanding the relationship between these three elements will help you towards understanding yourself.

You know how i say science, art and magic are all in one? Well, it’s absolutely true. So much mis-communicated information out there, but I’m here to share the fundamental truth to help you better your lives.

Solid liquid and gas are nothing but a higher dimension of time space and matter ..

Time is a higher dimension of liquid

Space is a higher dimension of gas

Matter is a higher dimension of solid

* Everything is everything * ( as I always say )

You must have heard about the fact that God is a tripartite — Father, Son and Holy Spirit — likewise man is three parts as well—( The body soul and spirit) The soul and spirit are the primary immaterial aspects of humanity, while the body is the physical container that holds them on here right now on earth. As human beings, we live eternally as a spirit, we have a soul, and we dwell in a body.

Your soul is is your mind, your will, and your emotions. Your Spiritual growth is determined by how much your soul has been changed by the Word of God.(simply put ie…your own words)..

Man was created as a “living soul.” The soul consists of the mind (which includes the conscience), the will and the emotions. Even in the Bible, it was written-“Be ye transformed, (In the book of romans), by the renewing of your mind(a.k.a your mindset” ).

Now listen…what that means is when you renew your mind,you are transformed. And if you do not renew your mind, that means you will remain the same!

Are you getting this ??

Body,soul and spirit are all one and the same just in 3 dimensions this is why we call our realm of reality the 3D—

Your soul can be in damnation just as well as your body But your spirit will always be here because it is gas —-

The way you handle your soul determines where your body goes -which simply put the way your mind works,is the way your body works.

Your spirit is like a guide,it guides you throughout your existence and that’s why you have spirit guides’— This is your compass because it is the very beginning of you!

You are a whole being and to be a whole being means knowing you have 3 parts of you and to be fully and completely connected with your truest self means knowing that you are always connected with each and every part of you. The spirit part of you (spiritual), the soulful part of you (mind, mental) and the physical part of you (body, environment,)

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SEX CONSCIOUSNESS

I believe it’s only right we talk about sex since I wrote about relationships in my last post.

Sex sex sex !!!

So what is sex consciousness?

Sex is an exchange of energy . To have sex is to exchange energies.

Consciousness is “AWARE-NESS”

There are few questions you ought to know the answers to, before reading this for crystal clear assimilation. Like, what exactly is an exchange? What is energy ?

An exchange is simply a trade — give and receive

Energy is matter – “anything” that has weight and occupies space.

Therefore, sex is basically trading energy. Simply put, what are you giving vs what are you receiving ? Pay close attention to your self right now. Are you aware of what you’re sexually trading?

Spirituality is the path of discovering who we really are. Our true, pure or higher version of ourselves as against our self-centered, everyday egotistical self. Sexuality is obviously a very important part of that because you know who you are by your energy, negative or positive.

The link between sex and spirituality is pure and very strong. Think of sex as in nature — procreation, the diversity of plant and animal life. Here is a clue that the great life force, the relentless drive to creation, has a universal, spiritual quality. The sexual drive to reproduction in humans is called “libido,” a word which also translates as “life force.” Therefore we exchange our life force when having sex ..hmmm

It’s important to remember that every interaction between people involves an exchange of energy and sex of course involves the fullest exchange possible. In fact, its safe to consider S.E.X. an acronym for “soul energy x-change.”

We are always having sex. Yes!..Everything we do involves energy exchange. For example,when we interview for a job, go to the mall to buy anything or even meet someone new in a social setting, we will tend to be somewhat guarded. In our various social interactions, we only let so much of our true selves “out,” and we only let so much of that other person’s energy in but when we have sex with someone, however, we “open our energy portals up” to them. You might say we get naked with them on every level. This means that the auric walls that normally help us maintain our separate sense of self comes down, which definitely leads to an exchange of energies and because of this, the people we have sex with can have a much greater impact on us than other people.

All sorts of things could happen when we invite anyone to mingle his or her energy with ours. However, at the positive end of the spectrum, we can actually heal others (or be healed by them) via sexual interaction/intercourse. In your case, if you had sex with someone who had a lower vibration than yours, with the right approach you may raise that person to YOUR vibrational level.

Sex can be a very spiritual endeavor. It can stretch our capacity to be giving, compassionate and sensitive with our partner; It can challenge us to rise above ego and self-consciousness and to be fully present in the moment. Sex can take us to the edge of our boundaries, trust issues and hang-ups, where we become nothing more than who we were when we came into this world – one being reaching for bliss with another.

For many people, the ecstasy of orgasm is the closest they get to divine bliss, and as such, it can open them up to a whole new dimension of experience. I believe orgasm is the clearest experience we have of the ultimately energetic nature of life. Sex can initiate the release of “Kundalini” and encourage spiritual development. Sexual energy is one of the most potent and powerful manifestation energy and our deep desire for love leads us to many of our most important life lessons.

With the high level of connection that can be felt in the body based on how much it changes and releases, it is obvious that each person is ‘depositing’ their energies into the other through the connection of the genitals. This is where ‘the two really become one…” Sickness and diseases are just the visible transfers that everyone accepts. However, attitudes (spirits; emotions…) as mentioned in previous posts, are all vibrational energies that are being transferred into the other person.

These negative transfers will then show up in the form of pains and mental conditions, especially because they are foreign to the receiver. There really is such a thing as ‘sexual ties’, soul contracts, Karmic ties etc..and as much as we want to believe it, after sexual intercourse, you are not completely free of that person.

They have indeed left a mark on you through the act that can impact you in a very negative manner. So the next time you decide to “do a quick release…” as much as your body may ‘drug’ you to the point where you are so ‘dope’ (horny) and you can’t think straight, take a minute to rethink that act.

Is the person you are about to ‘connect and become ONE with’ worth it? Will you be okay when their spirits transfer to you?

I hope this helps you activate your sex consciousness physically, mentally and emotionally!

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The relationship between the sun and the moon

Relationship is the “KEY” to everything in life.

Please read that again..

Now let me break this down. You see, life is all about in and out (i.e inside and outside, internal and external, yin and yang)

It’s 9:19pm right now as I’m writing this, laughing at how I’m hoping you reading this “overstands”this.

The sun is the daytime and usually what we experience is people doing activities during the day and sleep (reboot i.e die) at night( is when the moon and the stars are out). See where I’m going with this?

The outside world , this world where you are reading this from is a projector screen basically! You are seeing what you are thinking plus feeling!

This is why I said in my last post if you are able to give your external activities 12 hours out of 24 hours in a day to doing whatever you do.. the other 12 hours in a day which of course is the other half, why not use it to reboot( ie sleep, create, listen , feel etc). This is the new age ! The new wave. The age of Aquarius and i believe it’s my duty to teach this in the most simplest of ways possible so we all can grasp how far fetched we think life is versus what it really really is !

The relationship that you have between your thoughts and your action is what I mean when I say the relationship between the sun and the moon. Because that’s what it actually is ..

Please read that again..! I don’t think you caught that ..

The moon is only a reflection of the sun. That’s what it is .. so it means your external actions come from within( internal : ie moon ).. Get it ??

When we understand the concept of relationship we would begin to enter into a new world. Relationship is the merging of two or more energies .. it’s that simple. This could be in form of anything. Think it so it is..!

The way you think( which is of course done in the head, is the only think that makes you act how you act ( ie the sun). Because even physically the moon only reflects the light that the sun emits. (This is why we have phases of the moon * because the reflection of light from the sun changes as it orbits around the earth)..This is why women see their periods once a month (ie once per one moon rotation aka per month).

If you notice something, about all these bodies they all rotate right? The sun rotates around the earth likewise the moon . Think deeply about this for a moment .. Why do you think that people say life is turn by turn ? ( aka rotation? Aka ‘what goes around comes around”? All of those statements are true because it is CONSCIOUSNESS! If these planetary bodies that are here to give us light have to rotate and each have their own time to shine just as the sun has day the moon has night right? Why won’t individuals understand that you also have to wait your turn ? But while wait, learn to love yourself ( which simply means accept your habits and your flaws and your awesomeness no matter how terrible you have been labeled to be. Because there is no space to be anyone else but you..! Everyone is already taken !

Create a bond between your thoughts and your feelings then you begin to take charge of your life. When you realize you are having a negative thought and you can catch yourself in the moment. Hmmmm.., then you are beginning get deep into your own ascension.

We are all royals in our own right and you got to get it so you don’t get “EAT”* (en).

Remember, you are the creator of your universe. Tune in to the right mindset and change your life.

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The Moon

So let’s talk about this very unique satellite, “THE MOON”. The brightest and largest object in our night’s sky. Earth’s only natural PERMANENT satellite. The broadcaster! The 5th largest planetary satellite in the solar system..so enough with hype right?,What is so special about the moon?

Obviously, the moon is very much underated unlike the sun. We talk a lot about the sun and how much benefits we get from it,both health and spiritual benefits. It’s just like saying we care more about daytime more than we do for nighttime and I hope you get what I mean..

This is because we sleep at night” (I wonder who made this law though) but remember according to number of hours we have in a day, half of it belongs to day and half belongs to night right? Which means we have 12 hours each for both day and night.

Esoterically what I mean is we tend to pay more attention to the outside (the sun ie the light,ideas,masculinity) more than the inside(the moon ..ie your feelings and emotions,femininity).

The moon is all about how you feel,your deepest desires, your inside, your emotions. It’s who you are versus who you show the world you are ( battle of day and night). So basically what I’m saying is —- the moon holds equal amount of power and importance as the sun does. As much as the sun is in charge of daytime (ie, light, sun) and the moon is in charge of night (dark) but sometimes the moon is up during the day.. why do you think that is ?

Everything in life is interwoven just like little particles of molecules and atoms.. every single thing. You and me, animals and plants. Every single thing (matter)..This is why all lives matter.. We have come into a time where the real truth has to be shared and that’s what Barisity is all about. Bringing the real truth back to reality..

Basically it is very important that you treat your intuition as right as you treat your logic. When your head and heart are in unison… Then you are in alignment with your solar system. No one has power over another..

So, absorb the energy of the moon just as much as you do of the sun.. The key here is balance.. if I were to relate this to a physical experience in our realm of reality, I’ll say gender equality the sun versus the moon ( masculinity versus femininity).

Life is all about balance..

Everything is everything …

“ Be the reflection of your own sunlight ” a.k.a Be you completely inside and outside -Queen Tomca

If you missed my last YouTube episode on “THE SUN”. Watch below👇👇

Till the next read..

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THE SUN

What is that bright light up there all day?

What does it have to do with our existence?

Why does it come out only during the day?

Is this even important?

Well, that depends on what is important to YOU.

Meanwhile, what you’re about to read should even bring about more questions.. (this is where you begin to use your mind ). As usual, read with a totally open mind.

okay..

The sun, the most important star in the universe. It actually is an enormous sphere of extremist hot gas that is continuously shining and spinning around. It also is the closest star to planet Earth yet it is extremely far from mother Earth.

We call it the “Solar” system because it is in the center of our system and all the planets in it revolves around the sun.

Here is what I would like you to ”over-stand”,

YOU ARE THE SOLAR SYSTEM.

YOU ARE YOUR OWN SOLAR SYSTEM

Read that again so it registers in your mind🙏🏽.

The world revolves around you. All the planets evolve around you including earth which means you are in the center which also means the core. You ! Your universe. I really hope you overstand and understand this.

The gravity that connects what you know and what you see is basically what’s going on behind the scenes” ( in your mind) in the spirit realm and that’s where all the magic happens!! (which is all in our minds). This is why i always emphasize on the power of our minds..Catch the drift??

This is where almost everyone and even most spiritual teachers got it fucked up. Heaven is within, which is the conjugation of everything inside you and the reflection is hell which is what is outside (without) because we are mirroring each other. This is why when people say we are living in hell they are absolutely right because we all are living in hell .(hilarious isn’t it?, hmmm..)

So the question is what does your solar system do in hell ? Does it sleep or does it awaken to shine? The choice is yours . It is the new age and my duty is to remind you of how individually powerful YOU ARE!

The new wave 🌊. Welcome to the age of Aquarius ♒️.

You have to be really open- minded to get this deep so you can understand that there really is more to who we are as human beings living here and it’s true no one has it all figured out but as a whole, individually and collectively we create our consciousness in every single moment..

Yes you read that right, the sun is symbolic for your actions. So who is in control of your actions? you? your spouse?, your family?, your friends?, your environment,your culture?

Who makes the decisions in your life ? Who takes action in your life? Whose life is it ? ..

The sun is in charge of the day, just as the moon is in charge of the nighttime. So what do you do during the day?

I know.. a lot of questions right ?…All I’m saying is the sun is the light you shine to the world which simply means….Your actions!

Your actions define you..So how bright are you shining today? What have you done today to bring out the light from within?

Are you living or dying ?

We have been blessed with the gift of choice so you have to open your “eye” in order for you to choose right so you can BE YOUR OWN SUNLIGHT.

I’ll be shedding more light on this via my YouTube channel… The link will be down below if you’d like to see more👇👇

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYh0itxbqR2dJTtk3TazKog

Create and recreate your own SUNSHINE!

Have a great day..

Till the next read…

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