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Face your demons now

Your fears can be your very own trap or prison, holding your happiness and dreams out of your reach. By inviting your demons to tea, you establish ownership of your shadow. You bravely go where many fear to tread. You have the guts to face your anger, fear, jealousy, lack of self-acceptance.

In order to be truly happy and content, it is important that you are honest about the kind of life that you are leading. Unless you face your demons, it will be impossible for you to achieve your full potential. You will always be held back by underlying issues that are yet to be resolved. If you are going to prevent this from happening, you will need to make a change.

It’s a battle that goes on inside all of us, whether it be our fears, sadness, anxiety, frustrations and disappointments tormenting us and preventing us from experiencing happiness, peace, love and hope. Just like with every battle there are two options: you can choose to hide from these demons and negative energies or you can choose to fight. Fear is has a huge role to play in facing your demons. You know the saying -Flight or fight? Do you know that without fear there will be no courage?

Ever experienced that period in your life that you would simply describe as dark? When all hope and light seems to fade and you find yourself surrounded by negativity with no help in sight? Times where you may feel abandoned, lonely, sad, a sense of dread, even fear. At the time you couldn’t even imagine what the world once looked like to you and all you see now is the inevitable doom that humanity faces. At the time it can be an overwhelming experience that can often shake us to the very core…but handled correctly, it can actually be a very beneficial and life altering experience. It usually is a divine message to you, if you pay attention.

You may be wondering how that could possibly be the case. How could somebody showing dark night of the soul symptoms possibly come out the other side in a positive manner? Surely the entire experience is soul destroying? Well, while it is true that the experience is challenging and many people do come out the other side feeling defeated, it can be used as a form of spiritual healing or therapy.

You must have heard about the power of communication. “Communication is key”, Whether you believe it or not self communication is the golden key. When you go through an experience, it usually is because you need to grow, wake-up, learn or teach lessons from that experience. You achieve this by communicating genuinely with your self. By facing your demons, by looking at yourself exactly as you are, Ask yourself how you feel and why you feel how you feel ? Allow the emotions to flow, they are answers. It is very healing and therapeutic. Every being has to go through this to evolve and come out on the other side. However,there are beings who will not evolve and that’s okay. There are beings who prefer the cycle they are experiencing because it’s familiar to them. Spiritual growth is an unfamiliar territory which is uncomfortable. It’s not for everyone.

Demons are described as crazy, scary monsters, just like the scary crazy habits, thoughts, feelings that you have. If you were to describe those dark feelings and thoughts you had, as an item or a person what would it be?Everyone has the yin and yang. To face your demons is to look in the mirror. it’s time to see your truest nature and be it. It requires vulnerability. Just as I wrote on my last post, https://barisity.com/2020/10/15/the-dark-night-of-the-soul/ If the universe could speak right now, with all that you see happening on the “surface” ( YANG), in our society today? The universe is saying loud and clear , now is the time when you literally face your demons (the habits, patterns, contracts, energies) that has been destroying and delaying your authenticity. The ones you refuse to accept about yourself. These demons have a role to play in your evolution so you should not run away from facing them. There comes a time where you will be forced to face them, accept them, forgive yourself and evolve. When would you rather do that?

Fear is a tool. Use it to your advantage. “Without fear, there will be no courage”.

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The dark night of the soul

Have you ever felt alone and lonely in your universe ? Felt like everything was totally meaningless?, like you had no sense of direction, unable to bear going through the motions and feelings you’re experiencing like you have lost all hope? Like your alive but barely. You could be going through a ‘Dark Night of the Soul’

This is a deeply miserable and hurtful process of growth that a lot people go through unaware and come out the other side a more conscious and ripe individual. It is more like shedding your skin but on the inside of your mind. It is the war within yourself and that’s scary but it really is your ego dissolving itself.

The dark night of the soul goes really deep and it is a also a major turning event in the person’s life. This is a stage in personal and spiritual development when a person undergoes a difficult but very significant transition (more like a spiritual surgery) to a deeper perception of life and their role in it. (You know that moment when you start asking why certain things happen to you? Who are you ? Why you’re here?, Well this is when you get the answers.) This enhanced awareness is accompanied by a painful shedding of previous conceptual frameworks such as identity, relationship, career, sometimes weight, habit or belief system that previously allowed them to construct meaning in their life.

The Dark Night of the Soul might sound unfamiliar but it certainly has various relative conceptions in religion, psychology and mythology. Sometimes, it could be associated with conditions like ‘existential crisis’ and forms of depression. It literally is a form of spiritual depression.

Within the dark night of the soul, you’re facing your flaws. You’re facing everything that you view as being unhealthy about yourself, all your negative self talk, selfishness, your greed, contempt, pride, hate, jealousy. You’re tackling all of these issues and it’s hard to face that we have them. Yet, by accepting that we have this part of ourselves (and we all do) you’re acknowledging areas of your own being that require work. This is you at your darkest so if you can face these problems, identify them and come out to the Light on the other side, then you already know exactly what areas need to be worked on.

What’s happening during this period is, the old meaning and identity that your ego gave your life and it’s structure is melting away and when something melts/dissolves the temperature changes. So it hurts you, but in reality your soul is releasing itself and expanding to it’s truest nature.

Facing the dark night of the soul symptoms isn’t an experience that will do you any physical harm. It happens for you and of you. It is something that’s happening go-creatively with the universe. It’s entirely a spiritual battle…and it’s a battle with yourself. The only person you are facing is you but it’s not the cheery, open, happy version of you. It’s the opposite, the dark version. The version of you that lives in the shadows and is kept at bay by energy from the Light. .This is where you’re facing your subconscious. I know it might all sound a bit intense but this is where the therapeutic aspect of this very painful transformative experience becomes clear.The famous saying: “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” comes to mind in this situation.

Are you currently experiencing it? Do you feel empty like you’re having an ego death and life’s pleasure doesn’t do it for you any longer? You might feel like you’re on the wrong path and you may have to start all over and that makes you feel completely different and confused. You’re not alone. There are millions of people who feel the same or have in the past. Remember it’s happening to you, by you for you. Let it unfold don’t try to control it. It’s simply your soul setting itself free. Feel free to share your experience in the comments below. So we could help you with tips on how to navigate onward.

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You are light – shine bright

It’s a full moon, a new month also. What better time to shine? Don’t let the darkness from your past block the light and joy in your present. You are light and what’s the duty of light ? To shine!

We all have an inner light, which when translating I’ll say, we tend to call it “a dream”, within us. This is something important for each of us to know, nurture, and empower.

Dreams are what move us forward when all else seems to be against us. It’s the spark that lights our way in the darkest moments of our lives. It’s what keeps us hopeful when everyone else says to give up. It’s what warms us from the inside, when the world is cold and hostile. In recent times during the pandemic, if you were observant you could see how many creatives explored and showed different abilities, talents and skills. The isolation definitely helped with that.

Having a dream is how one justifies our existence. Acting on the dream justifies having a life. Having a dream and not letting it go dim, is having a gift and not shining bright, having a vision of how you want your world to be and not taking action. Shining bright requires us to act on it, otherwise it become dim, or worse yet, go out.

How bright are your dreams? What lights your way when all seems dark? Do they shine so brightly that others can see the light radiating from you, or do you look like the light has left your eyes? Have you lost sight of your dreams? Have you failed to act on them for a long time?

Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. – Martin Luther King Jr.

I don’t know about you, but I’ve been there quite a number of times. From the breakup of my first relationship to my career as an artist, from hating myself to losing my job, I’ve ended up in some very dark places with my light completely out.

However, in each and every time, there has been someone or something to help me find my way, and to relight my light, but I didn’t notice them as I was lost, blind and so unready to receive them and their gift and when I became ready my gift found me and I did it myself.

What I hope you can see is how precious this gift is to others. Perhaps you have even been the recipient of this gift in your lifetime. Remember what it felt like to you, and imagine what it would have been like without others to help you. You can be that helper to others, the question is will you do it?

Sometimes, on rare occasions, you can actually do this for yourself. Like I did for myself. However, most of the time it takes outside intervention. While it is usually a friend, associate or family member, sometimes the person who relights your light is a complete stranger and I’ve seen this happen to people a lot.

No matter how you eventually do it, even if all you do is get their attention, and get them thinking about trying to find their light again, you have done a great thing for them. Sometimes, with proper motivation, they can fight their way back. Other times, it leaves them receptive to the next person who tries to help them.

How does one help someone who has lost their light? That would depend on the person, your existing relationship, and your interpersonal skills. If you notice a friend seems particularly withdrawn, you can talk to them. Starting with general topics and then try to get to what is troubling them.

With a stranger, establishing communication may be much more difficult, but at least stop for a moment and say “Hi!” to them. How you proceed from there is up to you, but I would hope you could manage to help them, if only just a tiny little bit. That may totally be what your role on earth was for the day.

We tend to overlook the small things, and we forget the Devil is in the details. The small gestures, kindness and even conversations we have could be the light you need to shine brightly to illuminate and even better heal a brother or a sister just like yourself.

Shine your light in all the ways you think you can. This is unlimited. There is no specific way, all ways lead home.

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Speak your truth

Even though your voice shakes, speak your truth.

Even though your feet hurts, stand your ground

Even though your heart breaks love yourself

Allow the universe to work for you by letting go..

This is one of the hardest truths in life. Letting go is a very powerful magnet . Just as you have to let go of the food you eat through your stool and you can’t resist that, because the body literally forces you to sometimes. Same way the universe works. Remember the YOU-niverse is YOU !! We are mirrors. You only get what you give. It’s tough but weirdly simple.. Follow the rules of nature.

There comes a time in everyone’s life where we have no choice but to accept life as IT IS. This is one major lesson that has made so many of our ancestors reincarnate in different ways including using major events to reawaken us to our original state. So much alterations have been done in the past. But we are now in a new world and some of us got here so we can hold the door for others to come in.

Change is here and it comes with power. You are the power. You are the key. You are the door. Share your life lessons as you see it. Mostly, allow life to be in your favor by being yourself at all times. Everything that has an advantage definitely has its disadvantages we all know. So, there may be backlashes, opinions, advices etc that might be the reason you’re still stuck. This is a call to wake you up and remind you that the key has been in your power to make a decision all along.

Speak your truth and live your life. Everything changes and you don’t want to be living the past life in the present moment.

Awaken to your divinity as a wholesome being of light. You are a star. Yes you! Embrace it. Embrace yourself. You are perfection in disguise. Own your shit.

Do you know how to get to the place in your life where you know for sure that everything is happening FOR YOU ? Have you decided that it’s time to let go of the old and welcome the GIFT OF THE PRESENT ?

If yes I’m super proud of you, I also implore you to help awaken the sleeping giants and lost souls and if no, send me an email or share in the comments below.

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WATER

The element of water is feminine. It is the element of emotion and subconscious, of purification, intuition, mysteries of the self, compassion and family. The Element of Water is a heavy, passive element and is contrary to Fire. It is associated with the qualities of darkness, thickness and motion. The wisdom of water is infinite, and you will find it if you invest the time to meditate and contemplate it’s vastness your rewards will be quite enlightening (if not enlightenment itself).

Our bodies are composed of about 70% water, a similar percentage to that of the ocean surface compared to land. Blood and sap are really variations of water. As much as we drink it, wash, fish and swim in it, and cook with it, we nearly always overlook the special relationship water has with our lives. There are a hundred times as many water molecules in our bodies than the sum of all the other molecules put together. Although water is the most familiar of liquids, it is also the most mysterious and least understood.

For many reasons, water meaning deals with intuition, psychic perception and dreams. What happens under the surface of water is a mystery to the unaided eye. It’s much the same with human emotions. Water reminds us to dive beneath the surface of our feelings and use intuition for better understanding.

Free-flowing rivers, meandering their way through nature’s peaks and valleys are often seen as some of Earth’s most serene wonders. The gentle waves tumbling over rocks and the glistening reflection of the world around makes water a true natural beauty.

However, like most things beautiful, below the surface many complexities often arise and the same is true when talking about the water zodiac signs, which in the world of astrology comprises of three different signs: x, Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces.

  • Cancer: June 22–July 22.
  • Scorpio: October 23–November 21.
  • Pisces: February 19–March 20.

The water signs are known for being sensitive and emotional. They tend to hold on to people and items long past their expiration dates, and their emotions are always flowing like the waves of the oceans. These signs have intense dreams, visions, and intuition so strong that it’s basically a psychic power. Security is important to them after all, water needs a container, or it dries up and disappears.

Spiritually water represents change. Water is always moving, just like the circumstances and events of our lives. The sea can appear extremely rough one day, but the next morning it’ll be calm again and it will look like nothing ever happened. The same goes for our everyday life. The storm will eventually die down and make room for clarity and calmness. 

When we swim it is water that supports us, when we are thirsty, it is water the quenches our thirst, another manifestation of this element is the rainstorms that drench us, or the dew formed on plants after the sun has set. As well as being vital for life, within the energy of this element is contained the essence of love. Love is the underlying reason for all magic. Water is love.

Water also symbolizes purity. It is literally the most important element we use to clean and wash ourselves. However, what most people don’t realize, is that water possesses a healing property towards the spirit as well. Even just looking at water can help calm you down and make you feel more connected with your true life purpose.

 The powerful element of water is finally becoming widely acknowledged as the incredible vehicle for consciousness that it actually is.  Like many things in life, it was right in front of us the whole time, but it was not until we became aware of it’s existence that we were finally able to finally see it.

One of the most beautiful lessons water can teach us his how to be flexible and embrace change. Consider: Water always takes on the form in which it is held. It can also carve out mountains to make its way forward. Water reminds us to go with the flow no matter what the situation.

Water is a relatively simple element with which to work. When you are stressed out, just wash those energies off your hands. By turning water warm, you add the Fire element. Once, released, cool the water for regenerative and invigorating vibes. Speaking if vibes, the element of water matches with Master number 22. In numerology, 22 is the builder. It takes our dreams and aspirations and helps us manifest them just as the water element does.

It is the restlessness of water that gives living systems the ability to become ever more complex and to strive towards the perfection they can never reach. As a driver of evolution, water is a model for our own striving, allowing us to evolve through our own mistakes. This is the self-empowerment on it’s own.

If we could personally experience and truly understand the miraculous properties of water for life, our lives would become more meaningful and, (if it is not too late) we could become responsible custodians of Nature.

In Tarot, the traditional Suit of Cups is the suit of water. It is receptive, a vessel, and a symbol of the deep, primordial unconscious mind and womb. Water shows us the images, or imprint, of things. Emotions, feelings, and psychic knowledge are all represented by water in the Tarot tradition.

Water flows and changes, and it carries away what it cleanses. Water is the great purifier. We wash away our sins, we cleanse our wounds, and our tears bring release.

Do you work with water element intentionally?

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Fire

The element of fire relates to will and power. The passion, the electromagnetic field of presence.The power of the tongue! Fire is,expansive, intense and constantly seeking to overcome anything that limits its self-expression.

Fire provided a source of warmth, protection from predators, a way to create more advanced hunting tools and a method for cooking food. These cultural advances allowed cultural innovations and changes to human diet and behavior.

Because fire warms and gives off light like the sun, it often represents the sun or a sun god in mythology. It is linked with the idea of the hearth, the center of a household. Fire can also be a symbol of new life, as in the case of the phoenix, the mythical bird that is periodically destroyed by flames to rise reborn from its own ashes.

It can also represent bravery, beginnings and drive. Fire is active energy. It houses beings called Salamanders that dance inside with joy until the source burns no more. In Feng Shui the Element of Fire embodies our enthusiasm, warm feelings, movement and spiritual radiance. The Fire is alive and gives birth to new life and new ideas.

Fire Signs:

Aries – March 21 – April 20

Leo – July 23 – August 23

Sagittarius – November 23 – December 21

A Fire sign individual (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius) is an indicator of someone filled with creativity. This element manifests itself in creative and unique ways, and those in its glow are wonderfully courageous and lively spirits. Those influenced by a Fire sign are self-sufficient, spontaneous and possess a tremendous zest for life. Natives of this component are passionate and could even be compared to volcanoes, especially when their enthusiasm turns into a form of aggressiveness.

Fire represents many things to many people and cultures. It is recognized as a purifier, a destroyer and as the generative power of life, energy and change. It represents illumination and enlightenment, destruction and renewal, spirituality and damnation”.

What is spiritual fire, where does it come from and why does it drive us to seek greater purpose? Why do we search for meaning in our lives? Why does it seem like we have a spiritual fire burning a hole in our souls? Really, why should we do this? It holds no immediate gratification to find meaning in life and yet many are seeking.


Fire is one of God’s greatest gifts to humanity. With fire we cook food, heat our homes, and destroy garbage that would otherwise overwhelm us. Likewise, the gift of speech is of great benefit. With our tongues we communicate information, express affection,praise and curse. A tongue under control can speak life and truth into our world, bless and discipline our children, and transfer the wisdom. But, like fire out of bounds, our tongues can also do great damage.

How do you use this element in your life?

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AIR

The element of Air is light, it is an active element and is contrary to Earth atmosphere. It is associated with the qualities of darkness, motion and thinness. Scientifically, Nitrogen and oxygen make up about 99 percent of Earth’s air that we breathe.

The element of Air is vital to human survival, without it we would all perish, its quality is active. Air is the manifestation of movement, freshness, communication and of the intelligence. Sound is another manifestation of this element. As an element, it is invisible, but its reality can be felt in the air that we breathe in and out every day. We cannot capture or tame the Air, but we certainly know it’s with us. It can be tempestuous or still, or as gentle as a puff on a birthday candle.

To connect with the power of this element, find a place with clean air and breathe deeply, touch a feather or inhale the fragrance of a heavily scented flower. Let yourself experience the energy of this element, and reflect that we also possess Air energy within ourselves.

The air element works in conjunction with all other elements to sustain life on this planet. Think about how air works with the others: air fuels fire, moves earth, makes clouds with water. We inhale and exhale air, it cools us off, but it can also be destructive and blow down houses. Without air, we definitely would not survive. Air is whirling, twirling, twisting, freeing. Whipping, swirling, caressing, calling, kissing, clouding, flying. Speak it into existence, whisper it into the wind..

The air signs are:
Gemini: May 21–June 21.
Libra: September 23–October 23.
Aquarius: January 20–February 18.

In magical terms, Air is the power of the mind, the force of intellect, inspiration, imagination. It is ideas, knowledge, dreams and wishes. Air is the element of new life and new possibilities. Air aids us in visualization, a vital technique in magic. This is why “Air signs” are the thinkers, communicators, and doers of the zodiac( due to the nature “air”). They breeze through life, never stopping to catch their breath and their intelligence helps them make decisions easily.

Air is a masculine element and governs the magick of the four winds. It is the vital spirit passing through all things, giving life to all things, moving and filling all things.

The Air Element corresponds to the Eastern part of creation. It symbolizes a vast network of vital breath, from the winds that brought the Universe into being to the first cry of a newborn baby or first breath of life (Om). Where Earth is “fixed” air is most definitely a mover. It’s also connected to the mind, wisdom, spirits and the soul.

The Element of Air is an excellent representation of spiritual faith. Air reminds us that there is much more to this world than what we can see , and also teaches that we must grow and change as the world does likewise

While nearly any pale colour can represent the Air Element the most common two are Yellow and White.

The Color yellow, symbolizes the season of Spring, which also correlates to the Air Element. For light healers, yellow brings peace into the auric field. Other associations for yellow that carry over to the Air Element includes creativity, intellect, happiness, clarity and perception.

When speaking of the Air Element the vibration of 8 creates change, usually in the areas of finances, career or personal power. It emphasizes balance in various areas of your life and listening carefully to the urgings of Spirit in your life. Wind is not static; it bends and weaves, and when you work with this Element or find it presenting itself in your life, you may find your need for adaptability challenged.

There are many dimensions. It’s time to see what you have not seen, or perhaps what you’re not willing to recognize. You will need an odd combination of control with whimsy and spontaneity. I dare you to run with the wind – see where it takes you.

Love

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Earth

In my last post, i wrote about the elements and what they generally are..Everything on our planet (EARTH) is comprised of the first four, or the classical elements- Fire, Water, Earth, and Air.[-the 5th being Space a.k.a. spirit}. Various states and combinations of them make up the first four. We get Darkness and Light through Fire. Water gives us Ice, and Earth gives us Nature. These elements are vital for human survival, they make life possible, and death inevitable. However, today we are focusing on Earth, (the planet we live in a.k.a, our BODY) and the personality types that best resonate with this element.

Planet Earth is one of the unique planets in the Solar System because of the presence of abundant water resources to sustain life ( p:s , The oxygen we breathe contains 47% water.) The structure of the Earth is like an onion; it has multiple layers. Scientifically the earth is made up of mostly these four elements : Oxygen, silicon,iron and aluminum. The earth´s atmosphere however is composed of 78% nitrogen, 21% oxygen, 0.9% argon, 0.3% carbon dioxide and traces of other elements and particles. Which basically means we are all just a bunch of elements!! and it’s important to which are the elements make you, YOU!

THE EARTH ELEMENT: Practical

TAURUS (April 20-May 20),
VIRGO (August 23-September 22),
CAPRICORN (December 22-January 19)

While each element often carries distinctive connotations depending on cultural settings, there are some commonalities.

Earth energies facilitate all manner of manifestation by putting down strong roots from which our dreams grow into reality.

That is not to say that the Earth Element has nothing but positive characteristics. It can be fierce. Just watch a volcano erupt or the damage from a quake. This kind of power is why it is so important to respect our mother (you know the old saying: it’s not nice to fool Mother Nature).

The Earth is stable and reliable, yet constantly working and moving. Those with the Earth element share these traits. You are practical and logical and stand firm in your convictions. You learn through experience, which is never difficult for a curious person like yourself. You aren’t interested in unrealistic dreams, but rather you believe in setting achievable goals that are attained through hard work. Your home is welcoming and warm and always open to friends and family, which is fitting considering you’re a bit of a homebody.You are stubborn and bull-headed and will often stick to your position for no other reason than it is your position.

Earth Magical Properties: growth, femininity, prosperity, birth, fertility, stability, grounding, finances, death, motherhood.

Magical Tools: salt, pentacle, stones/crystals

The earth element works in conjunction with all other elements to sustain life on this planet. Think about how earth works with the others: earth feeds fire, requires water for growth, produces air (trees/plants) in conjunction with water. But can also suffocate fire and air and impede water. We live on the earth, our feet and homes planted in the soil, and grow our food in the earth. Without earth, we would not survive. Earth is nurturing, grounding, loving, growing, replenishing, moving, sowing, and reaping and no matter what zodiac sign you represent you are EARTH ! as in your skin is ..

With love

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The fundamental elements of our nature

You must have heard about five elements of nature and I am sure you have some basic understanding about it as well. Every visible thing was made up of some combination of earth, water, air, and fire. These four out of five elements were even used to describe the four temperaments a person could have. However, when it comes to body cleansing process or any other natural healing process, there are 5 elements of nature that plays a very important part of the whole ( aka HOLE we dwell in..) In this post, you will learn about those basic but very important concept of our body.

In reality, we do yoga to strengthen our body and we practice meditation for peace of mind, but do we know about the most important elements from which our body is made?

Every human body is essentially made from five elements which are Earth, Water, Fire, Air and Space and upon death all these 5 elements of the human body is dissolved to it’s respective element of nature, so that it can balance the cycle of nature.

Each of these five elements has its own functions and characteristic as described below:

The first element is “Earth”. This element is perceived by five senses. which are Sight, Smell, Taste, Hear and Touch. The physical body with muscles and bones refers to Earth. ( If you think earth is just the planet or ground or world we live in, you couldn’t be more wrong. Earth is the skin that covers your bones,blood , tissues and organs etc.) Earth is the external manifestation of OUR HOME.

The second most important element is “Water”. This element has no odor (smell) but can be heard, felt, seen and tasted. In the human body, blood and other fluid are refer to Water. As we all have been told or even studied, our body contains up to 60% of water. The surface of the earth also covers almost 60% of water or more, what does that tell you ? ( Our bodies, aka Planet Earth cannot survive without over average % of water which contains half air) same as the external surface of the earth we dwell on. hmmm..

The next higher element in human body is “Fire”. In human body our temperature is referred to as the fire. It can be heard, felt and seen. (Internally, our digestive system is a very good example of Fire element that helps our body digest the food we take everyday). The heat, passion and zeal that is required to do anything externally refers to the fire element. We simply cannot do without it! The combination of these elements are the cause of weather change, planetary shifts etc..

The fourth element is “Air”. Air can be felt and heard only, one cannot see air. In the human body, the oxygen and carbon dioxide in the body refers to Air. It is considered as one of the most important factor in life. As we know that the human body can not live without Oxygen which is known as Prana in Sankstrit and this is why one must do regular breathing, mental and physical exercises to keep their body’s Oxygen rich and to prevent diseases.

The fifth and last element is “Space” which is translated in Sanskrit at ‘aakash‘. Space is the medium of sound but is inaccessible to all other senses, and in the human body the Soul refers to Space.

The combination of these 5 elements of nature make up our body and will (a.k.a the wheel of life) ie “our willpower”. These elements in our body will dissolve into their respective elements upon death.

Our fascination with these elements has also led to countless theories that have been created revolving around one or more of these elements for centuries. One of such area of elemental study incorporates philosophical connections to human life, with the individual elements being associated with various personality types. The most notorious of which is Fire, is synonymous with having a fiery personality and being overly-emotional or easily triggered. The Earth type is grounded and they possess strong maternal, and protective instincts. Water types are fluid and easy-going, oftentimes they are the more balanced ones. The Air type is a rational, free-thinker who can see the big picture with more clarity than the other element types.

The elements inside and outside of our bodies are all the same. Awaken to your divinity as a whole!! We are all individually part of a bigger picture..

In my next post, i’ll be diving deep into the world behind all the above mentioned elements.

With love..

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Spicy food is healing food

Being a healer and a teacher has really opened me into a whole new world I must say. I awaken more into my true divine self every moment because I see how ignorance has destroyed many many lives, both living and dead.. I enjoy being a healer because I get to speak the truth and mostly help those who are confused and going through so many deeply rooted emotional, mental and physical ailments without certainty of what is being treated and how it works via drugs or going to the hospital etc..

One of the most effective ways to heal anyone is through food, because as human beings we live via food and water ( we get physically sick through food and water so it definitely makes sense that we heal via food and water). A lot of people do not believe in what they do not see, hence this post. Healing via food is just as powerful as healing via thoughts, energetic healing, reiki healing etc.. These are all the same kinds of healing but using different routes to achieve the same aim. It all starts with the intention to heal! Most people know they are sick but they are NOT READY TO HEAL. To heal you have to BE READY TO LET GO OF WHAT MADE YOU SICK !! Doctors do not tell you that, they treat you, give you drugs, bags of drips and injections and that’s it .. You have to treat from the root of the problem, which stems from a decision to stop ✋ the root cause by knowing the root cause!

Just as spicy thoughts are healing thoughts, spicy foods are healing food. Any food or plant that is spicy, hot, like tumeric, ginger , onions, garlic , cardamom, cloves, pepper, bell peppers ( all colors), cayenne pepper, anise, Angelica, fennel, nutmeg , cinnamon, celery seeds, mustard seeds, cumin ,etc.. these are all very powerful and super healing !! They specifically heal different things in the body . ( in subsequent posts I’ll dive in details as to what each of these plants heal).

Ever had a thought come to you and it is like damn, that’s scary, terrifying, daring, surprising, unusual, ? Most of the time, it is a thought that leads to healing.. ( thought itself is a teacher!) which begs me to believe that women are naturally spicy by tongue, by nature .. and most of these spicy foods are “feminine” because they are healing.

It is more powerful to eat these foods as they are without cooking them because everything in nature is already made to its perfection. So when we cook them, no matter how little, we have decreased it’s components it’s nutrients as well as it’s healing powers and its vitality just like our thoughts, words and actions when we sugarcoat them.

Life is not a school to learn, life is a master to know and master its being ( the being itself is already a master).. We are gods in our OWN right. Every plant is a god in its own right, same as animals. Everything here is made to its perfection to serve you! Open your mind

With love ..

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Service

One of the best quotes I ever heard by Oprah, is be of service and to be excellent at it, then success is by default.

My father loved the word “excellent” he never was satisfied with “very good”, even worse “good”, not to even speak of anything less. He was a man full of confidence in his daughter. He never saw me as anything less than a Queen, a Goddess and he treated me as such ( no he wasn’t close to perfect, he had a negative side to that too same as everyone ).. However, I wouldn’t trade any lesson he taught me directly or indirectly for any other thing in this world.. Excellence seemed like a perfect score” he called me excellence” he would check on the remarks the teacher gave before he checked on the position or percentage level.. I always wondered why..

Recently, I’ve been re-evaluating myself in all my growth areas and I have realized that I didn’t accept that I was excellent not until now ! ( Damn!! that hurt me deeply) and this was a remarkable discovery I woke up to one beautiful morning.. I realized I was born excellent, I grew up in excellence by excellent parents . As a matter of fact I am magnificent! I am excellence!! wow .. what a relief .. Next came the question, how does my excellence be of service ?

In my last post I wrote about “The temple”, https://barisity.com/2020/06/23/the-temple/ ( the true meaning behind the temple), you know, sometimes we as a people need a gentle reminder that we are uniquely different. What do you do in a temple? You serve isn’t it? You were taught to be of service.. How?? By cleaning, directing, organizing, singing etc.. Now that you know what a temple really really is, how do you serve ? It’s quite simple !! You serve, by being your best self and doing it all over and over and over again every single day . That’s how you become excellent!! Excellence is a skill birth from commitment..

When you master yourself, you become aware of your strengths and weaknesses. Being of service simply means putting them to good use at every given moment. If there is one skill you should learn in life, how to master yourself” is just that. You have to learn to serve yourself ! Learn to listen to yourself, learn to observe yourself, learn to acknowledge yourself , learn to tolerate yourself , learn to communicate with yourself .. before you can ever truly be of service to anyone or any group of people you have to be of service to your own damn self!!

The call you are waiting on, the romance you are expecting, the career you hope for, the dream vacation you’re planning on are all experiences that you believe would make you happier. Now imagine, if you can organize, clean and prioritize your emotions and thoughts to focus on these things ( which are all in your temple of course ), what do you think you’re doing? You are simply serving yourself to fulfill your wishes and make you happier !! So it is in businesses, to really be excellent in a business, one has to KNOW THE TEMPLE and the people who patronize that temple ..

Dedication is major key here, anything worth doing is worth doing well they say.. How about, you do yourself well enough and see how everything around you becomes an extended version of you ?!

Be of true service .. by mastering yourself and become excellent at YOURSELF through hard work ( which is real hard work, because you learn on the job).Most people think mastery is a destination, a junction. No it isn’t.. You learn everyday, in every experience and you have to be open minded to be one who learns everyday ( that’s the hard part I believe ).

To serve God is to know yourself and when you do, you become THE TRUTH and of course “the truth shall set you free”.

To lead is to serve and to serve, is to be of service.

Know your temple and be of service!

With love…

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The temple

The mind is a hall like a temple there are ways in and ways out ( doors & windows) which we call portals ..

The ways in are the things we perceive and experience same as the ways out. If you can find the beginning you have found the end. The day you decide you are taking full responsibility for your action is the day everything changes. You’re whole life changes !!

The world is a holographic memory of what we want to see (we only see what we want to see.. ). Everything and everyone has a choice and everyone is FREE by default but as programs set in from an early stage, the molding begins..

If you don’t let yourself go (as in, remove your self from outside of these memories, people and environment you will keep yourself locked in a hall that is filled with so many unnecessary people. ( like people living in your headspace ) it’s all holographic .. Like a memory replaying in it’s loop until you find the record engine and take action when READY!.. The key here is, If you don’t like something, stop it before it spreads like a virus .. This is how life works.. not for one to be a perfectionist but when you do not clean a dirt the moment you see it, it begins to invite more and more dirts, ie your habits, your negative thinking,imaginations, relationships etc.. This happens repeatedly in different scenarios, at different locations, with different faces, different environments and until you see the pattern, you cannot solve it..

This is when people start to question themselves. “Why is this happening to me ???Why me ? etc.. The answer is .. You’re looking for a way out of a problem ( the hall), without realizing that for a problem to come in, a door or maybe a window in the hall was opened. Yes !! There are doors and windows which we call portals .. for instance, my website http://www.barisity.com is a portal for healing, coaching and channeling.. same as your mind. THE TEMPLE” .. When one opens a door it means something is leaving and another is entering. Something has to go for something to come in.. it’s a door !! One door but leads you out or welcomes you in!! ( an exchange of energy, i.e energy never dies just transforms from one form to another.. ever heard of that ??) Check yourselves.. The conversations you share, the people around you , the shows you watch, the music you listen to, the habits you’re used to, the words that come out or your mouth, what are you subscribed to? ,what are you letting into your temple ? What are you open to ? Consciously and subconsciously ?!

For example, I opened a door for a way in ( it means I opened a portal ) It also means, I am ready for a way out ( ie let go of something) .. Same as your body being a temple, when you let someone get into your body, you’re exchanging energy and giving the person some part of you whether you believe it or not ( this could be + -) depending on your vibration.. Every person is karma and an experience replaying itself !!!

Learn to cleanse, guard and nurture your temple .. we all have temples in 3 layers ( spirit, soul and body ). We have been lied to for generations as to what the church really is .. ie temple , the disciples etc.. I would be writing about them in subsequent posts.. but remember, YOUR MIND is your number one asset and your mind is your first temple which has doors and windows and you experience them through your daily activities, people, places, books, websites, apps and so many other ways.. Connect with your true self and you would know which portals are opened that shouldn’t be and of course those that are closed that shouldn’t be. Simply put.. Be in charge of your temple!! do not let a human being like YOU tell you how to live your life! It is yours!!!

With love …

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Life is worth dying for

Hi Royalties, I hope you all are doing amazingly well. I truly hope that all of my readers are physically, mentally and emotionally stable.

I have not written in a couple of weeks now, as I took time out to reconnect with source and most importantly prepare for the shifts that will be occurring the next couple of months. I have been blessed with the ability to see and it is a true curse and a blessing. However, I’ve come to a conclusion and a huge awakening recently, that life is simply worth dying for..

Yes! life is worth dying for and death is absolutely worth living for..

We decide and choose our days and nights whether you believe it or not. We are the creators of our destinies. We are beings with different, talents, emotions and capabilities yet we barely acknowledge that yet alone use them, forgetting that these are simply tools to help us navigate our experiences during this lifetime. To be truly evolved, you have to outgrow who you used to be and then embody change which comes usually with pain. Growth comes with change and nothing changes if NO THING changes. So you see.. it all begins with YOU !!

We are living in a new world now and it may take a while for a lot of people to see it but as you know by now that most of what I write eventually comes to pass .. We should begin buckling up and readjust our lenses because this new world is all about taking risks. Yes !! You have to believe that anything can happen which means you can literally pass away at any given moment. I know it sounds quite daring but in reality that mindset is what is needed to face this new world and this will literally change your whole existence.

There is a split happening between the 3D and the 5D (matrix and reality) right now and the old world is being separated from the new world .. between now and September many global changes will occur that will last about a decade or more and it is advisable that we all begin learning certain life skills to enable us adapt as well as teach the new borns because it might be quite challenging. When a split occurs, everything changes it’s position. The lows become the highs and the highs become the lows… So, embrace change now or you will be forced to eventually.

What really is the essence of life? Ever thought about that ? What really is the essence of not living to your fullest potential especially knowing that one day, you will expire? Take risks! Do things you never thought you could. Love your neighbor, help a stranger, love your haters, invest in yourselves and people who have invested their time in you.. Karma is life and death is life ..

Everything is worth nothing if you’re not happy and fulfilled (because you’re simply existing without living). So, yea!! Life is definitely worth dying for..

Be the change you want to see in your sibling, your mother, your spouse, your mentor, your neighbor, your fav celebrity. Be the change you want to see in the world. It all begins with what you change about yourself. If you think about dying, then you really would see billions of reasons why you should live your best life. Embrace your life now no matter what you might be experiencing so when change comes your previous experience would be a new lesson.

Life is worth dying for and death is worth living for!

Dare yourself to be better than your ancestors, your predecessors, your older beliefs systems my dear royalties, because what is coming is far greater than what is gone and to be prepared is to be aware and forewarned that life is absolutely worth dying for and death is reason enough to LIVE without fear because it is inevitable.

With love ….

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Shut up

Always talking ..

How do we listen when we are always talking?, If there is nothing to talk about people still find something to speak about, even worse gossip. If only everyone could see energy.. In life everything is + – (give and receive, positive and negative ). Speaking is + (giving ) , listening is – ( receiving).

Keeping quiet is as important as speaking is. Finding the balance is key here.

Speaking takes energy, listening recharges that.Just as sleeping recharges our body listening recharges the mind. Music recharges the soul.

Do you know why they say you cannot serve two masters at once? It literally is because we as human beings cannot. Being focused, requires the body, soul and spirit paying attention to one thing just like the lens of a camera. That’s why it’s called a focal point. It takes a very grounded person to speak and listen at the same time.. that’s why we have two ears and one mouth.

Shut up for a whole day I assure you, you would realize a whole damn lot!!

Everything gets extremely louder when it’s quiet. The answers you need are in silence. Spend time in a quiet place at least for a period of time daily. This is very important for your health, your mind and your memory. Just like money.. the reason why money was changed from coins to notes is to help reduce noise and to reduce the weight of carrying money as coins, yet it feels really loud when you do have a lot of money.. Even if you’re not loud as a person, it attracts people who would want that for you ? Ever wondered why that is ?? Well, maybe for once you’re actually listening…

Shut up !! Yes, you !! Shut it up for a moment 🤐 …

Our words are spells. Why do you think learning about words is called spelling aka – SPELL-ING?, ( ie bringing words to life by speaking ) ?, just like the word “grammar” was derived from GRIMOIRE” – ( a.k.a the book of spells). Listening now ?? Uhuh…

Royalties, we are really more than we think we are and I feel like we all need a reminder of how amazing and powerful we are individually and as a collective. It’s like we are trapped in a closet ( closet being the body ) and sometimes, I’m sure you might be wishing you could scream out your lungs due to whatever reason. That’s also because you feel like you are more than you already are.. but in actuality you really are way more than the body shows you.. So for once again, shut up ! Listen ..

Shut up !! and listen ..

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Be brave

Learn to be brave. Learn to say what you want to say. Be brave !! Learn to do what you ought to do. Allow your words to flow effortlessly without trying to sugarcoat them. You learn a lot more when you’re free with your thoughts and words without judgement or fear .

Life is all about tests and classes. Where you go to school is not relevant, where you work is also irrelevant, what kind of background you have also doesn’t really matter,but how you learn from every experience, how you treat people when no one’s there, how kind, how humble and how patient can you be ? Now,that’s the school of life itself. Growth comes from pain and struggles if only you’re open to learn. So no matter what you might be going through, you have to learn to grow through it.

I get told a lot how I’m too old for my age but if I told you that my soul is over a million years old wouldn’t confuse you even more ? People are so focused on what they see, they forget everything comes in twos the seen and the unseen.. Life itself is an illusion. This universe is simply a simulation. Ever wondered why everything around you keeps changing and you stay the same ?? There is a glitch in the matrix and it will all soon begin to make sense if it doesn’t already.

Be brave! Take a chance on your dreams today! On that new career, that new romance, that new decision. Be brave!!.. Walk away from anything that doesn’t add value to your life, to your mental and emotional health!Walk away from gossip, from worries, from anger, walk away from complaining, competing, comparing and watch how your life will change in a blink of an eye. Yes, it may seem hard especially if you’re used to negativity all your life. But remember, nothing great comes easy..

Bravery comes with mastery. Mastering one’s self. You can be anything you want. You can do anything you want . Question is how bad do you want it? How hungry are you ??.. If anything has been learnt this year alone with all that life has revealed to us we should know that nothing lasts forever and we should get acquainted with the unknown, the unexpected!

Remain strong, stay healthy and wait for no one. Use your intuition and do only what your gut tells no matter how hard it may seem, it’s always okay in the end. If it’s not okay yet, then it’s definitely not the end.

Being brave could also mean doing nothing, allowing the universe to flow the way she is supposed to. Remember we are in the waters of life and everything is vibrating. Be brave!! Allow nature take it’s course…

Stay productive! Stay awesome ❤️

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Crystals

Have you ever heard about Gemstones and crystals? If you have, do you believe in them ? If you haven’t, then this is for you.

Healing crystals have been used since ancient times, so there is a wealth of knowledge and experience that has been handed down from generation to generation. Once you know the crystal basics, use your intuition to choose the right healing stones for your spiritual journey. Harnessing the energy of the Sun, the Moon, and the oceans, semi-precious stones or gemstones easily connect us to Earth as soon as we come into contact with them. Many people wonder if crystals actually have healing powers, and while there are many anecdotes describing the curative effects of healing stones, it really does depends on your own experience. It takes a conscious effort to open your heart and mind to the power of crystal healing. As for me, I’m still learning to work with them but I can attest to the fact that they do work if you pay close attention to your intentions and manifestations.

My father had many crystals and I always wondered why he decorated them like trophies around the house when I was a little girl. He made me play with them when I was young. (Well,not directly, I was exceptionally curious lol ) but I fell in love with them. I didn’t know anything about them up until I became an adult. Now that I think of it, it’s funny how I’ve always been in alignment with who I am even subconsciously.

Remember, that every thing you can see, touch, smell or feel has energy and operates at a certain frequency and vibration. Yes! Every single thing that exists including these “ precious stones”.

Thoughts create vibrations throughout the universe, which makes setting intentions a powerful tool for achieving happiness and well-being. Having a clear purpose provides us with insight into our aspirations, dreams, and values. It also helps us live in the present moment instead of being caught in negative thought patterns. Intentions are like magnets. They attract what will make them come true.

Crystals are very powerful stones with different vibrations for different healing purposes. Every sickness in life has a natural cure or healer that is already in nature (ie herbs, stones etc ). Crystals are also here as one of the tools given by nature to help raise our vibrations,balance and heal traumas and help transform your awareness.

There are so many crystals that even I am not aware of, yet there are few I’ll say that I’ve come to fall in love with due to my awareness and spiritual growth.

Crystal experts often say that the crystal chooses you instead of the other way around. Walk around the room and see what crystals stand out to you. Whether it’s the dazzling colors or otherworldly shapes and patterns that draw you in, each crystal has a unique vibrational energy that works to clear blockages and ward off negative energy.

Finding the right stone is like any practice of wellness. It requires patience while you quiet the mind and realign the mind/body balance. Hold the stone in your hand and quietly think of your intention. Notice if you feel sensations such as hot or cold, pulsations, or calmness and tranquility. These are all signs that this particular rock is perfect for your healing needs.

It also helps to identify a particular problem or challenge you’re currently facing. If you’re having trouble concentrating, Fluorite help clear mental and emotional confusion, which can prevent concentration. To bring abundance into your life, citrine helps you manifest your dreams by channeling the positive vibrations of the sun. Carnelian is a powerful crystal to get the creative juices flowing.

Setting an intention is a powerful tool for achieving happiness. Crafting an intention starts by setting goals that align with your values, aspirations, and purpose and of course crystals can help you with that. If you would like for me to write about my own crystals and my experiences with them. Leave a comment down below.

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Money is borrowed time

Do you know that we are all reliving our days from every new moon till every full moon? Same ol shit everyday, different scenarios. Nothing is new. No thing,shape or form.Yet we hope for tomorrow. Breaking news it never comes! Today was yesterday’s tomorrow. There is no end, and that’s because we all live in circles..You can only work with your circumference and that’s why it’s called a circumstance( a circle you stand in..ie – an experience you stand in ). If you think you are in a SIT—uation( a.k.a-sitting on action) and you think you cannot get out of it, then you’re indeed still sleeping. You have to stand up from a SIT-uation, which simply is getting out of your butt and taking action.

We are all living on borrowed time. Money and wealth are totally not the same. Do not confuse having money with being wealthy.. I, once had an experience with someone whom I owed some money threaten my life and I remember saying… “Because of money?”.. Surprisingly, that aggravated the person so much I was stunned…then I realized, how triggering that must have been to the individual..( In this lifetime, I’ve seen, that the power of money is life to a lot of people , human beings literally worship money! Money is everything to them, a.k.a power!!. People with more money sometimes feel so powerful enough to bully the ones with less money..

Nothing is really yours i’ve learned and nothing also really matters I’ve realized.. Everything eventually evaporates.. Yes !!. Why is that ? you might be wondering .. It’s like watching a movie or a record player.. go on and on .. eventually it’ll stop either according to the timeframe of the said record, or when you get tired, get up and change it !!

For instance, you’re an employee, working to get paid, irregardless of the work you do, you “spend” your time and get paid in return -via money! For the borrowed time you serve with i.e work with.. Simply put, you sell your time for money over a period of time ( borrowed time)..yes!,that’s just the way it is. There is nothing wrong with that as far as you’re aware.. I know quite a lot of people who might disagree but that’s just the way it is. Nothing is free, everything is owed..

If you happen to find yourself in a situation and you cannot wrap your head around it, do this, simply get your ass up and do something entirely different, opposite if I may! because whether or not you think about it.. time keeps rolling, just like the record player. Life may be tough at times, confusing even dissatisfactory, but if you understand that time is only perceived as time because we were told that’s what it is .. and you know the truth is nothing lasts for ever, everything changes eventually, then you know what I mean when I say we are all living on borrowed time and what we do each day is our installmental payment for living here..

Some people pay their installments sooner than others. That doesn’t change the fact that we are all in debt. And that’s where karma sets in .. it’s called Karma because it’s a debt .. we all have personal scores to settle.. the beauty is “TIME” because we all do not know what time it will be. Except the chosen ones( awakened Souls)”. We know it’s every single moment we are paying back or being paid our due. Either way .. we are all living on borrowed time. Therefore whatever you do will be paid back to you of course in due time.. In this life or another. But which is better or worse ?? This life or another ??

Think about it …

Would you rather get paid back now or another life,another time, different scenario ? Think twice .. There really is nothing that is new. Everything changes. Be kind,be compassionate, be generous.. it’s the best gift for your soul … Pay your dues everyday to anyone you are privileged enough to have an experience with. ( Yes, I said privilege, because we have angels walking amongst us and they may look just like regular people, same as we have demons).

Life is finite.. Time is wealth, but “GOOD times” 👉 the real wealth !!

“My people will say time na money”.

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The healing power of music

Music 🎶 is the most common and used tool for communicating, healing, channeling, teaching, even programming and most importantly transformation ie to create change!.

Sound and light make up the whole universe we are in.The difference between teaching and healing is simply the transformation in between( the channel). If you read the introduction to this site , you’ll see I said this is a channel, a portal. I am a portal for ancient wisdom and healing and I’ve always channeled through music even before my artist career days. Since I was 2 years old as I was told. But as far as I could remember which would be around age 3,4,5, I remember being called “The interpreter, aka radio without battery” ( it was an abuse at the time from my aunts who were my caretakers) but my mom and dad said no darling “you’re special”. It took me different kinds and layers of abuse to understand the pain was the gift.

Music healed me in more ways than I can write, still heals me, speaks to me and clearly directs me.. The spirit of sound and light has been used to lie and misinform generations of the children and adult alike especially because it’s right in our faces.

As human beings, everything we do comes from light and sound. These two make up the being ie galaxy we dwell within. So it is only right that we create with it. Music existed before we even knew it was called music. Different instruments have been created and are still being made to channel beautiful healing frequencies and vibrations which all have their own abilities, information (light), and vibrations depending on how it’s being used.

Choose sounds that aid you ! Choose music, tones, instruments, words, voices, that aid you. Know what aids or depletes you. Every sound either aids you or depletes you. I know this might sound cliche but it’s the pure undiluted truth and it’s unfortunate this is really underrated.

Music is a portal , a channel , this is why you learn faster with or through music. This is why most celebrities are used as role models or puppets, because the power they carry is beyond the physical. This is also why the illuminati” as claimed targets mostly artists and musicians.. Does this still sound cliche?? Wake the hell up !!

Since the beginning of time, music has been a gift to mankind and it’s been told over and over again in different forms… every culture, tradition, race, belief system all agree on certain languages as I’ll categorize them.. ie music and sports.. why do you think that is ?? (Sound and light).. Dig a little deeper my dear royalties.. This decade is all about waking up to reality. Raising the veil, so you can see beyond the clouds ⛅️

Choose what and who makes you smile, laugh , dance 💃 as these are the less spoken about but most powerful healing transformative powers we all already have but always overlook as it is not seen as anything worthwhile. Most great teachers have refused to teach about this and those who know rather monetize it rather than allow truth seekers know.. Well,welcome to my platform!! Where I aim to enlighten and aid you on you spiritual awakening and self development journey..

That being said, I personally would love to see powerful and amazing creators, artists, celebrities etc create music now that’ll be timeless. Music that would remind us of what the world is going through right now. Music that when we look back at the beginning of this year 2020 we would have something that kept us going. Music is a major tool that we can all use to conquer our fears, balance our emotions and of course heal the mind, body and soul!! Let us use the music accordingly.. We deserve great songs from great minds right now not only words and food backed up with fear and death threats of a dis-ease.

Ease up! Heal up !

Let the waters flow within you through sound. Breathe into the flow, through music you could heal generations of torture, pain and inflictions..you will be amazed at how life changing this could be for you if you get this correctly.

I hope you’re having an amazing day and of course if you have any questions please do not hesitate to reach me via my email. Let us help those in need while we are still living. Life is finite! Tomorrow never comes.

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Yin and yang

We live in a cyclical world and if you’re an avid reader on my site by now, you know I mean literally we live in a cyclical world (i.e a womb, this is why what goes around comes back around to complete the cycle). Listen , within that is a spiral( I.e the tree of life, — a.k.a-the snake on a tree) and this is why everything in life is interwoven, because they all end and begin eventually which makes every single existing thing connected. Your experiences, your imaginations, your environment, plants, insects etc…Every existing thing!!

To understand the YIN and YANG is to over stand the within and without— black and white. Dark and light.Conscious and subconscious. (aka seen vs unseen)..These are all one in the same thing. ( Do not get confused by the words. They are all the same thing) !!

What emits light?— The sun — with light you can see ie you see things, people, places to go, what you’re surrounded by .. basically what you’re consciously aware of is the “YANG”— the output, the external, outside..

What withholds light? —The moon —Yin (darkness )you can’t see , people sleep — it’s the illusion realm ( you can dream, day dream etc )— when you close your eyes you can see but not through the external ( a.k.a the yang ).. because you are seeing from within – The yin .. Basically, what you’re subconsciously aware of is the Yin realm – the input.

In the yin realm there is no direction. In the yang realm there is direction.You can not compare the two because they both make the whole being we live in .. Everything that exists is also non existent.

When they come together it turns out to be a whole circle the wheel”— like in the tarot cards it is “the wheel of fortune”.The whole”.

The yin realm— is feminine i.e your emotions, your vibrations, how you feel (aka the moon, mother).

For instance in our daily lives this is how it could play out — when you’re sad people ask you, “why are you down”? That’s because the yang has directions( i.e up and down etc..(when you’re up, you are excited and when you’re down you’re not ). This because it is the external part of you that they can see..the output, your yang) but the yin (i.e within,internal, input )doesn’t have any directions and if you’re asked the same question— it implies they are talking about your spirit” — which implies “ why is your spirit down”?? Get it ?

The essence of this breakdown is so that you know that we need both the yin and yang to be whole — same as the sun and moon (masculine and feminine )as I wrote previously .. These are all the SAME NAMES DIFFERENT WORDS.

We are living in a whole new world and so many generations of lies and confusion has been passed down since the beginning of time. Some books were written out of greed, some out of fear, some just for power,hence the pass down of this huge mis-information, Most teachers teach what they were taught or what they read from another confused teacher with little or no explanation so they barely understand what they teach and that leaves people confused with even more questions. We have been given so many words from different languages, books and teachers to describe the same damn thing and this leaves room for confusion. Remember there is nothing outside of us that is not inside of us. We need the whole of ourselves inside to feel whole outside ( externally). I really hope my break down helps you assemble this properly so we all can grow and ascend accordingly.

You need your imaginations and actions to manifest..if you have just the yin part of you —at 100% and the yang part of you lacking you’ll be frustrated in one area of your life and vice versa.

Here is what I mean ,your soul lives in the yin realm— where there is no direction .. so without the physical body you’re living in the yin realm? Do you get it ?

Your body is the yang- conscious, external, the physical and without the body there is no space for the soul to live in (the yin , emotions, internal, feminine).. that’s why we have a spirit which is the beginning of it all.

Yin +yang — makes a being!! Your being !!

Same as ..

Sun and moon

Thoughts and actions

Within and without

Heaven and hell

Yin and yang

Masculine and feminine

And, my dear royalties….This is life !!

See previous posts on 👇

THE SUN — https://barisity.com/2020/02/26/the-sun/

THE MOON — https://barisity.com/2020/03/04/the-moon/

The relationship between the two –👇

https://barisity.com/2020/03/14/the-relationship-between-the-sun-and-the-moon/

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How to overcome anxiety

Hi Royalties, I send love and warmth your way especially during this weird times. I know a lot of people are feeling the heat right now including myself but I also know that everything that has a beginning has an end. These times have called for taking a step back and re -evaluating but most importantly I believe we are being called to deeply relax and allow nature take its refreshing course irregardless of what’s going on.

There is so much tension in the air .. but on earth there is so much transformation going on. Anxiety and depression usually comes with times like this. Fear comes in different forms and anxiety is one of them.However, to overcome anxiety is to first be aware of the root cause and then take adequate measures to get out of that energy.

Anxiety is simply putting in so much percentage level-on what you should do or shouldn’t do. One of the main reasons one might be experiencing anxiety is observing and caring too much about the reactions of others,loss of reputation, being restricted in any way shape or form etc”. Anxiety usually stems from being in a “box” for too long . That energy could be sticky which makes you unable to move freely. Then panic, doubt, fear, anxiety sets … and of course,makes you very nervous. For instance,you’re locked up with in a boundary/ restriction/limit. (This could be just about your location or people you’re around). Here’s the thing anxiety comes from you not thinking you’re doing the right thing within that environment or thinking too much about not being right because of the people around and vice versa.

Understand that there is no right or wrong! It is only your perspective! So if you think you’re doing something not right, it’s obviously because you think someone else feels it isn’t or something around you is making you feel that way … this could be on a micro or macro scale.

Basically, anxiety is you thinking too much about what you’re observing and thinking what you’re doing is not right” ( remember there is no right or wrong ).. so this could be about the way people act compared to how you act. The first mistake here is that what’s wrong for you maybe right for someone else ..and what’s right for someone could be wrong for you— “Perspective”. So stop comparing!

To overcome anxiety, you have to understand your perspective, which usually is the root cause and then express why you feel that way. When one becomes anxious, it means you’re not being (living) in the present moment. You are worrying about the future” what hasn’t happened. While depression is simply being “deeply pressed over a situation”- which is related to living in the past.

Below are my few steps to help you overcome anxiety.

1-Practice breathing exercises using a countdown to keep you stable.

2-Take a cold shower.

3-Re-direct your energy and do something totally unusual to you as this helps you break free from that mental prison.

4- Stop censoring what you say or do ( do not put restrictions on your self ).

5- Practice spending time with people who treat you well.

6- Treat yourself like like someone you’re in love with.

7- Believe you can heal.

Stay calm, breathe and stay optimistic. Everything changes. You can get through it. Yes you can!

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The Three forms of eating

This is a continuation of my previous post. About the 3 parts of our being. Each and every single one of us has 3 parts to us. The spirit, the soul and the body. It also means we feed in 3 forms and we heal in 3 forms, we die in 3 forms also. Today, I would focus more on the forms of eating. You and I eat in 3 forms every moment.

Yes you do.

Spirit is of darkness (invisible )and the body is made of light (visible)

The light comes out of darkness ( your body is birthed out of the spirit )!! Get it ?

Every single thing in life has ..

Frequency — life

Vibration — experience

Energy —death, transformation

Spirit —— eats information ie..consciousness (ideas, sound, light ). This is why the moment you stop eating spiritually ,stop thinking, analyzing etc .. technically you’re spiritually dead .. a lot of religious people, atheists etc are spiritually dead because they are not feeding the spirit. They are either eating only the same thought process or not eating at all because they are locked into a particular thought, idea,etc..

Your Soul eats — vibrations and emotions.

This is your ability to have your own perception about the travel that you’re going through .. this is your vibrations, your time, experience.

Let’s say you’re numb , you stop feeling , you get emotionally dry .. you have no feelings .. people call you soul-less why ??—- this is because you’ve starved your soul …

If it were the body that you didn’t feed — what happens??you become skinny and you’re going to die physically.

So it is with all our 3 bodies.

Body eats food and water

The physical body —this is the part of us we see.

So the question is ..”what are you eating”? , Are you feeding yourself? Or are you being fed?..

You need to understand that you could be feeding and eating the wrong things .. spiritually,soulfully and physically ..

Same way you eat physically , you could be eating the wrong thoughts, food, feelings, etc and this is what brings about bad life experiences..

If you eat good you get good

If you eat bad, what do you get ??

You can die spiritually, you can lose your soul and you can die physically

Now you see why I don’t call death “death” but transformation. Whatever dies only transforms from one form to another.

The way you stuff your mouth with food (physically)

You stuff yourself with experiences —(soul)

And spiritually—(thoughts)

This is why meditation is our human medication and I believe we all should practice it.

I will be teaching more about this and more during my online live classes pretty soon.

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The great awakening

2020- The revolutionary year as I had called it earlier this year, is beginning to show itself globally and that my dear royalties is a massive revolution. We have to know death to understand life and vice versa. Everything happening now is a necessary catalyst for the Planet’s transformation. It all depends on how you perceive it.

We as humans, haven’t been very kind to this earth. Pollution, deforestation, millions of animals (wild and domesticated) slaughtered at any given moment, we’re kind of parasitic, and this is kind of the earths way of clearing out a lot of the problems, nature always finds a way.

For a long time, we have heard about the awakening and it’s shenanigans. But during recent times, it’s becoming louder even with the silence..

So many things are happening simultaneously but do not get distracted. {Be still for I am God}. How else would you listen and observe what part of your life needs to be changed/ transformed if your life were to just go on forever without this very necessary break?Where people see the fear ( a virus) , I see a rebirth of the new Earth, The evolved words, i see a new world ( which also means, a new world order a.k.a light and dark ).

Here is what I mean literally, we had to be locked down in every layer of our beings for this to take place which simply put — spiritually, mentally and physically. ( ie..Death)

We are being pulled back and forth mentally, physically and of course spiritually during these trying times. Oh,and guess what had to happen for humans to remember our “CORE VALUES”? A “VIRUS”— ( which I call a “divide-us”).

It all started with the usual instilling of fear” — (attacking you spiritually), then mentally-( attacking how you think — news, media etc) .. lastly a physical lockdown ( isolating you from your friends, co-workers and general public as a whole ) .. Are you getting this ??

Now, this is why I’ll call it a gift and a curse,which is all about balance.Universal balance!

You see, the gift is, now you have time to sort out your issues, look yourself in the mirror and face your self, face your fears, get really comfortable with your life decisions, or even uncomfortable.

Then the curse, is — not being able to go back to the life you once thought you “ had”. (Keyword- YOU THOUGHT”)..

Times have indeed changed and now I guess the great awakening is speaking for itself. The old leaves are falling off for the freshly planted seeds to grow beautifully. I’m sorry to disappoint you but life will never be the same again after this whole phenomenon and if you still expect to go back to the way things are “YOU THOUGHT” wrong. Old systems are all broken. Just by the click of one button on the news or social media, the whole world was put on isolation yet people do not seem to understand the power behind the “internet”.

You have to know separation to know oneness. (ie..You had to be isolated to be more in tune with yourself ). Now is the time to unite with your star player! Your creator! Your highest self. Because, THIS IS A WHOLE NEW WORLD.

This is not only a wake up call to conscious communities, but a UNIVERSAL WAKE UP CALL from those in command because of the rate at which the whole world is awakening. There is a huge mass awakening happening and its never happened at this rate. Of course, people will try to stop or slow it down.. Hence, the economic crisis..You’re isolated for a reason. Use it wisely because when you’re released, nothing will ever be the same again. Nothing ! Companies will begin to cut down staffs, banks will cease to be banks, schools will be shutdown totally, robots taking over most jobs,human beings micro-chipped,etc.. Remember, it is the Age of Aquarius ♒️ and It is a time for innovation, creativity and inventions. So yes! Nothing will ever be the same again. Are you ready?!

Arise o Compatriots and take back your power! Learn about your history so you can create your future. Life is finite for a reason. Nothing lasts forever. Do all you can now to be a better person to yourself and loved ones because when there are mass awakenings it also means there will be mass deaths ( Balance) ..Find your purpose and be of service because that’s what’s most important. Learn to grow and help others grow because in the end that’s all that matters.

Remember in the end no one is getting out of life, Alive.

This is the great awakening! Stay safe, remain healthy, stay positive, be kind and of course be conscious 👁

Welcome to the new world!

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What is the Spirit, soul and body?

Before i dive deep into this. I would like you to know that the human body has three parts to it. A lot of individuals do not even know this. Some people think we have just this physical body and that everything is physical.

“Your physical body is only your earthsuit”— like a physical bag that embodies the three part of you.

What I’m about to share with you would help you with the understanding of yourself as a whole-(spirit, soul, and body). Understanding the relationship between these three elements will help you towards understanding yourself.

You know how i say science, art and magic are all in one? Well, it’s absolutely true. So much mis-communicated information out there, but I’m here to share the fundamental truth to help you better your lives.

Solid liquid and gas are nothing but a higher dimension of time space and matter ..

Time is a higher dimension of liquid

Space is a higher dimension of gas

Matter is a higher dimension of solid

* Everything is everything * ( as I always say )

You must have heard about the fact that God is a tripartite — Father, Son and Holy Spirit — likewise man is three parts as well—( The body soul and spirit) The soul and spirit are the primary immaterial aspects of humanity, while the body is the physical container that holds them on here right now on earth. As human beings, we live eternally as a spirit, we have a soul, and we dwell in a body.

Your soul is is your mind, your will, and your emotions. Your Spiritually growth is determined by how much your soul has been changed by the Word of God.(simply put ie…your own words)..

Man was created as a “living soul.” The soul consists of the mind (which includes the conscience), the will and the emotions. Even in the Bible, it was written-“Be ye transformed, (In the book of romans), by the renewing of your mind(a.k.a your mindset” ).

Now listen…what that simply means is when you renew your mind,you are transformed. And if you do not renew your mind, that means you will remain the same!

Are you getting this ??

Body,soul and spirit are all one and the same just in 3 dimensions this is why we call our realm of reality the 3D—

Your soul can be in damnation just as well as your body But your spirit will always be here because it is gas —-

The way you handle your soul determines where your body goes -which simply put the way your mind works,is the way your body works.

Your spirit is like a guide,it guides you throughout your existence and that’s why you have spirit guides’— This is your compass because it is the very beginning of you!

You are a whole being and to be a whole being means knowing you have 3 parts of you and to be fully and completely connected with your truest self means knowing that you are always connected with each and every part of you. The spirit part of you (spiritual), the soulful part of you (mind, mental) and the physical part of you (body, environment,)

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SEX CONSCIOUSNESS

I believe it’s only right we talk about sex since I wrote about relationships in my last post.

So what is sex consciousness?😁

Sex sex sex !!!

Sex is simply an exchange of energy —

Consciousness is “AWARE-NESS”

Now, what is an exchange ?

What is energy ?

These are the questions you ought to know the answers to before reading this for crystal clear assimilation..

An exchange is simply a trade — give and receive

Energy is simply matter – “anything” that has weight and occupies space.

Therefore, sex is simply trading energy. Simply put, what are you giving vs what are you receiving ?(I.e, Are you aware of what you’re sexually trading?)

Spirituality is about discovering who we really are——-our true,pure or higher selves as against our self-centered, everyday egotistical self. Sexuality is obviously a very important part of that.

Please note that neither repression nor over-indulgence leads to spiritual maturity.

The link between sex and spirituality is pure and very strong. Think of sex as in nature — procreation,the diversity of plant and animal life. Here is a clue that the great life force, the relentless drive to creation, has a universal, spiritual quality. The sexual drive to reproduction in humans is called “libido,” a word which also translates as “life force.” Therefore we exchange our life force when having sex ..hmmm

It’s important to remember that every interaction between people involves an exchange of energy and sex of course involves the fullest exchange possible. In fact, its safe to consider S.E.X. an acronym for “soul energy x-change.”

We are always having sex. Yes!..Everything we do involves energy exchange. For example,when we interview for a job, go to the mall to buy anything or even meet someone new in a social setting, we will tend to be somewhat guarded. In our various social interactions, we only let so much of our true selves “out,” and we only let so much of that other person’s energy in but when we have sex with someone, however, we “open our energy portals up” to them. You might say we get naked with them on every level. This means that the auric walls that normally help us maintain our separate sense of self comes down, which definitely leads to an exchange of energies and because of this, the people we have sex with can have a much greater impact on us than other people.

All sorts of things could happen when we invite anyone to mingle his or her energy with ours. However, at the positive end of the spectrum, we can actually heal others (or be healed by them) via sexual interaction/intercourse. In your case, if you had sex with someone who had a lower vibration than yours, with the right approach you may raise that person to YOUR vibrational level.

Sex can be a very spiritual endeavor. It can stretch our capacity to be giving, compassionate and sensitive with our partner; It can challenge us to rise above ego and self-consciousness and to be fully present in the moment. Sex can take us to the edge of our boundaries, trust issues and hang-ups, where we become nothing more than who we were when we came into this world – one being reaching for bliss with another.

For many people, the ecstasy of orgasm is the closest they get to divine bliss, and as such, it can open them up to a whole new dimension of experience. I believe orgasm is the clearest experience we have of the ultimately energetic nature of life. Sex can initiate the release of “Kundalini” and encourage spiritual development. Sexual energy is one of the most potent and powerful manifestation energy and our deep desire for love leads us to many of our most important life lessons.

With the high level of connection that can be felt in the body based on how much it changes and releases, it is obvious that each person is ‘depositing’ their energies into the other through the connection of the genitals. This is where ‘the two really become one…” Sickness and diseases are just the visible transfers that everyone accepts. However, attitudes (spirits; emotions…) as mentioned in previous posts, are all vibrational energies that are being transferred into the other person.

These negative transfers will then show up in the form of pains and mental conditions, especially because they are foreign to the receiver. There really is such a thing as ‘sexual ties’, soul contracts, Karmic ties etc..and as much as we want to believe it, after sexual intercourse, you are not completely free of that person.

They have indeed left a mark on you through the act that can impact you in a very negative manner. So the next time you decide to “do a quick release…” as much as your body may ‘drug’ you to the point where you are so ‘dope’ (horny) and you can’t think straight, take a minute to rethink that act.

Is the person you are about to ‘connect and become ONE with’ worth it? Will you be okay when their spirits transfer to you?

I hope this helps you activate your sex consciousness physically, mentally and emotionally!

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The relationship between the sun and the moon

Relationship is the “KEY” to everything in life.

Please read that again..

Now let me break this down. You see, life is all about in and out (i.e inside and outside, internal and external, yin and yang)

It’s 9:19pm right now as I’m writing this, laughing at how I’m hoping you reading this “overstands”this.

The sun is the daytime and usually what we experience is people doing activities during the day and sleep (reboot i.e die) at night( is when the moon and the stars are out). See where I’m going with this?

The outside world , this world where you are reading this from is a projector screen basically! You are seeing what you are thinking plus feeling!

This is why I said in my last post if you are able to give your external activities 12 hours out of 24 hours in a day to doing whatever you do.. the other 12 hours in a day which of course is the other half, why not use it to reboot( ie sleep, create, listen , feel etc). This is the new age ! The new wave. The age of Aquarius and i believe it’s my duty to teach this in the most simplest of ways possible so we all can grasp how far fetched we think life is versus what it really really is !

The relationship that you have between your thoughts and your action is what I mean when I say the relationship between the sun and the moon. Because that’s what it actually is ..

Please read that again..! I don’t think you caught that ..

The moon is only a reflection of the sun. That’s what it is .. so it means your external actions come from within( internal : ie moon ).. Get it ??

When we understand the concept of relationship we would begin to enter into a new world. Relationship is the merging of two or more energies .. it’s that simple. This could be in form of anything. Think it so it is..!

The way you think( which is of course done in the head, is the only think that makes you act how you act ( ie the sun). Because even physically the moon only reflects the light that the sun emits. (This is why we have phases of the moon * because the reflection of light from the sun changes as it orbits around the earth)..This is why women see their periods once a month (ie once per one moon rotation aka per month).

If you notice something, about all these bodies they all rotate right? The sun rotates around the earth likewise the moon . Think deeply about this for a moment .. Why do you think that people say life is turn by turn ? ( aka rotation? Aka ‘what goes around comes around”? All of those statements are true because it is CONSCIOUSNESS! If these planetary bodies that are here to give us light have to rotate and each have their own time to shine just as the sun has day the moon has night right? Why won’t individuals understand that you also have to wait your turn ? But while wait, learn to love yourself ( which simply means accept your habits and your flaws and your awesomeness no matter how terrible you have been labeled to be. Because there is no space to be anyone else but you..! Everyone is already taken !

Create a bond between your thoughts and your feelings then you begin to take charge of your life. When you realize you are having a negative thought and you can catch yourself in the moment. Hmmmm.., then you are beginning get deep into your own ascension.

We are all royals in our own right and you got to get it so you don’t get “EAT”* (en).

Remember, you are the creator of your universe. Tune in to the right mindset and change your life.

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The Moon

So let’s talk about this very unique satellite, “THE MOON”. The brightest and largest object in our night’s sky. Earth’s only natural PERMANENT satellite. The broadcaster! The 5th largest planetary satellite in the solar system..so enough with hype right?,What is so special about the moon?

Obviously, the moon is very much underated unlike the sun. We talk a lot about the sun and how much benefits we get from it,both health and spiritual benefits. It’s just like saying we care more about daytime more than we do for nighttime and I hope you get what I mean..

This is because we sleep at night” (I wonder who made this law though) but remember according to number of hours we have in a day, half of it belongs to day and half belongs to night right? Which means we have 12 hours each for both day and night.

Esoterically what I mean is we tend to pay more attention to the outside (the sun ie the light,ideas,masculinity) more than the inside(the moon ..ie your feelings and emotions,femininity).

The moon is all about how you feel,your deepest desires, your inside, your emotions. It’s who you are versus who you show the world you are ( battle of day and night). So basically what I’m saying is —- the moon holds equal amount of power and importance as the sun does. As much as the sun is in charge of daytime (ie, light, sun) and the moon is in charge of night (dark) but sometimes the moon is up during the day.. why do you think that is ?

Everything in life is interwoven just like little particles of molecules and atoms.. every single thing. You and me, animals and plants. Every single thing (matter)..This is why all lives matter.. We have come into a time where the real truth has to be shared and that’s what Barisity is all about. Bringing the real truth back to reality..

Basically it is very important that you treat your intuition as right as you treat your logic. When your head and heart are in unison… Then you are in alignment with your solar system. No one has power over another..

So, absorb the energy of the moon just as much as you do of the sun.. The key here is balance.. if I were to relate this to a physical experience in our realm of reality, I’ll say gender equality the sun versus the moon ( masculinity versus femininity).

Life is all about balance..

Everything is everything …

“ Be the reflection of your own sunlight ” a.k.a Be you completely inside and outside -Queen Tomca

If you missed my last YouTube episode on “THE SUN”. Watch below👇👇

Till the next read..

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THE SUN

What is that bright light up there all day?

What does it have to do with our existence?

Why does it come out only during the day?

Is this even important?

Well, that depends on what is important to YOU.

Meanwhile, what you’re about to read should even bring about more questions.. (this is where you begin to use your mind ). As usual, read with a totally open mind.

okay..

The sun, the most important star in the universe. It actually is an enormous sphere of extremist hot gas that is continuously shining and spinning around. It also is the closest star to planet Earth yet it is extremely far from mother Earth.

We call it the “Solar” system because it is in the center of our system and all the planets in it revolves around the sun.

Here is what I would like you to ”over-stand”,

YOU ARE THE SOLAR SYSTEM.

YOU ARE YOUR OWN SOLAR SYSTEM

Read that again so it registers in your mind🙏🏽.

The world revolves around you. All the planets evolve around you including earth which means you are in the center which also means the core. You ! Your universe. I really hope you overstand and understand this.

The gravity that connects what you know and what you see is basically what’s going on behind the scenes” ( in your mind) in the spirit realm and that’s where all the magic happens!! (which is all in our minds). This is why i always emphasize on the power of our minds..Catch the drift??

This is where almost everyone and even most spiritual teachers got it fucked up. Heaven is within, which is the conjugation of everything inside you and the reflection is hell which is what is outside (without) because we are mirroring each other. This is why when people say we are living in hell they are absolutely right because we all are living in hell .(hilarious isn’t it?, hmmm..)

So the question is what does your solar system do in hell ? Does it sleep or does it awaken to shine? The choice is yours . It is the new age and my duty is to remind you of how individually powerful YOU ARE!

The new wave 🌊. Welcome to the age of Aquarius ♒️.

You have to be really open- minded to get this deep so you can understand that there really is more to who we are as human beings living here and it’s true no one has it all figured out but as a whole, individually and collectively we create our consciousness in every single moment..

Yes you read that right, the sun is symbolic for your actions. So who is in control of your actions? you? your spouse?, your family?, your friends?, your environment,your culture?

Who makes the decisions in your life ? Who takes action in your life? Whose life is it ? ..

The sun is in charge of the day, just as the moon is in charge of the nighttime. So what do you do during the day?

I know.. a lot of questions right ?…All I’m saying is the sun is the light you shine to the world which simply means….Your actions!

Your actions define you..So how bright are you shining today? What have you done today to bring out the light from within?

Are you living or dying ?

We have been blessed with the gift of choice so you have to open your “eye” in order for you to choose right so you can BE YOUR OWN SUNLIGHT.

I’ll be shedding more light on this via my YouTube channel… The link will be down below if you’d like to see more👇👇

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYh0itxbqR2dJTtk3TazKog

Create and recreate your own SUNSHINE!

Have a great day..

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Types of Motivation

 Motivation is literally the desire to do things. It is the crucial element in setting and of course attaining goals. It is usually interchanged with “Inspiration” and there are of course,Internal and external factors that stimulate desire and energy in people to be continually interested and committed to do anything.

Before we get into the types of motivation, it is important to acknowledge a few things..

First of all, we say our main goal in life is to be as happy as possible, have you really asked yourself what it is going to take for each of us to achieve that?

Secondly, just as you must have seen on other posts on this site… i write a lot about how we all have our own individual map of reality. We see the world according to what’s important to us. Therefore,we cannot keep all the knowledge of what’s important to us in our conscious awareness always because there’s too much information and our brain is being bombarded with over 40,000 bits of information every moment and we might get lost or distracted into some of all that data. This is why it’s important to keep yourself motivated to enable you filter through all that data in order to get the job /task done.

So, there are two major types of motivation :

Intrinsic and Extrinsic Motivation.

Intrinsic Motivation is geared toward internal rewards and re-inforcers. This is just like when we celebrate our success when we do well and then beat ourselves up when we don’t .Intrinsic just as the name implies is geared towards internal rewards. Internal rewards are associated with high academic and occupational achievement.

It seems motivation is strongest when we do it for the fun of it…or for the feeling of accomplishment. It could be a hobby, or a career path, or our purpose in life even. Some examples of internal reinforcers are “Shoulds”, “Musts”, and “Oughts”, a guilty conscience, and even Toxic Shame.

Traits of intrinsic motivation can be seen in believing in ones self. For example, you may be motivated to get a promotion because of self-improvement or the joy of learning. Conversely, you might be motivated to succeed because you want to positively affect the lives of the people around you.Some examples of internal rewards are achievements, enjoyment, a sense of competence etc..

Extrinsic Motivation is geared toward external rewards and reinforcers. This is more common than intrinsic motivation because it includes achieving things due to a specific incentive, fear, or expectation, all of which depend on external factors. For example, people may want to get a promotion because of the expected raise that comes with it..(an this is obviously geared towards an external reward). Some examples of external rewards are money, praise, awards, etc. Few examples of external reinforcers are disciplinary action, boundary-setting, procedures and policies.etc..

Motivation is actually more complex than simply defining it by its internal or external drivers. Each broad type of motivation has many sub-types of its own, but having a broader view of the types of motivation could be the foundation you need to start something new.

Basically, ask yourself, ”what is the reason behind your actions and how did you arrive at that?”… ”Did i do that out of love or out of fear”?

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Motivation

The word motivation is one of the most used words i believe.It is “a reason or reasons for acting or behaving in a particular way.”This word certainly cuts across all races, ages and even differences.

A motive is an impulse that causes a person to act. Motivation is an internal process that makes a person move toward a goal. 

Motive + action = Motivation

So two things are involved here: a reason , then action!

Motivation is a word we use a lot but do we really understand what it means to be motivated?

It means, YOU NEED A REASON TO TAKE ACTION!

Read that again.

So i believe that means no matter how inspired one is, until you take action you were never really motivated. This is due to the fact that motivation can only be inferred by noting a person’s behavior. 

Anything or anyone can be a motivation. It all depends on the reason you are searching because at the end of the day only you can take the action it requires. This is why your point of view in any situation is really important.

When i was about 4/5 years old i remember how my dad would take me everywhere and introduce me like i’m an adult so i’ll say hi, my name is ..nice to meet you., whomever i was stretching my hands to would go.. Wow, that is interesting. The next thing i’ll notice is, they treat me as an adult because of how my father had made me approach them. This eventually inspired most of the kids around me to greet or speak to people in a certain manner and before i knew it i became an adult before i was even 7. My actions became inspiring to make my father’s friends want me around even though i had nothing to say..

So sometimes, the reason to take action may not necessarily be from where or whom you expect it to come from and that requires focus to take action. This boils down to…*how bad do you want it*? I say this a lot but i’m sure you would agree with me.

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Learning |2|

In my last post, i wrote about learning and asking yourself the right questions. Today, i want to teach you how to know how you learn.

There are actual learning styles, which refers to the means in which a person acquires information best.There are four main different types of learning, that is,: visual , auditory, verbal and kinesthetic learning.

Visual (spatial): You prefer using pictures, images, and spatial understanding.

Aural (auditory-musical): You prefer using sound and music.

Verbal (linguistic): You prefer using words, both in speech and writing.

Physical (kinesthetic): You prefer using your body, hands and sense of touch

If you pay close attention to yourself you will already know your learning style. Ask yourself how do you prefer learning naturally. However, certain individuals have more than one type of learning style and that’s awesome.

Now that you know how best you learn by looking at those four awesome categories above, try this exercise for 24 hours/48hours 🙏🏽.

Observe all the things you’re inhaling or learning via your learning method and see if it aligns with where you want to be.
Make a list of the things you remembered all through the day during the exercise (just before you sleep) and ask yourself genuinely if those things you gathered were all aligned with where you want to be.

When you look to learn something, everything because to happen to enable you learn that. You start seeing ads, maybe numbers, movies, experiences etc… all these are happening to enable you learn it, but learning is a choice just as your life is ..

This is how you know that you learn every single day but you have to know how you learn. (“because you are paying for it with your time”)do you get it?

“Learn to live and you will live to earn”

When you pay attention to the wrong things, then, wrong things begin to manifest in your life. Here is what i mean.. Let’s say you are in a dilemma and you are definitely confused.. if you are observant, you notice you listen to certain kinds of songs, watch certain kinds of movies, listen or talk about similar experiences etc.. that’s how we are all programmed to react to something you do not understand.. but look on the flip side.. if you already knew your own method of learning you would realize we are uniquely created beings and we learn differently, we experience differently and so on…(therefore through your unique method of learning you would see a different light and come up with a possibility to better the situation) but it is your job first to know how you learn so you know what influences your actions, thoughts, words etc..

How else would you understand the beauty in our mystery?…

Till the next read.



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Learning

Learning is the process of acquiring new, or modifying existing knowledge, behaviors, skills, values, or preferences.

We learn at all times either consciously or subconsciously whether you believe it or not. We learn via using our senses and we are told we have 5 senses. I know for sure that we have more than 5 senses…(But that’s my belief). However, everything we accumulate comes from all those senses and that is how you can understand what you’re manifesting.

You see, teachers are our greatest assets because they are the story tellers and we definitely need more great teachers. I would like to implore our teachers, leaders, parents and bosses to celebrate “Trying” . Please … applaud the staff,children or students for any grades/progress at all for trying as it encourages them to learn the habit of ‘LEARNING’. Because failing is part of learning if they are shown love for “trying” I’m certain we would have more failures and that will certainly mean more success stories and not the other way around.

“We learn to live when we live to learn”

This is what i mean, you see the billboards, the media,(social media inclusive) are all teaching you something. So ask yourself what are you learning? What are you teaching yourself? What you see around you, smell, touch, watch etc…is what you are inhaling and that is all energy..What you may be learning may not even have anything to do with why are you are still alive in the first place. So i ask you again.. what are you learning?What are you acquiring?

Remember if you ‘Nourish your mind, you nourish your life”..

If you would like to see more about this please see below.

Till the next read.

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Mindset 2 ( Get the trash out)

Talk about a sequel right?

I have a lot to share as regards to this so I might add a couple more episodes to this topic just as I would on my YouTube channel.

There are two words here – mind and set”. Your mindset comprises of you and a decision. ( because everything is a choice).

Let me put it this way, take a look at your phone for instance, it is a machine just like your mind. You have so many apps on it that you don’t even use ( just like the areas of your mind you haven’t even tapped into). Please Get the trash out !! Create space and empty the unwanted thoughts and/or information clogging your phone or mind space in this instance.

If your mind is clogged, then your life is clogged!

Read that again.

You see, your mind is unlimited but what you do with it depends on how you perceive your experiences. Can you even begin to imagine how vast your mind is ?

The mind of a man built planes, ships, gadgets, bridges, robots, now they are making clones , Ai, etc.

So what would be the importance of understanding your mindset as an individual? That would be life changing wouldn’t it ?

Your mindset is your life’s foundation. It is the beginning of every action you take. You know how they say “you reap what you sow”?thats because the foundation on which you plant determines how the fruits would turn out.

You can watch more about it on my YouTube channel below

Any reason behind your action or reaction to something or someone is based on your perception ( how YOU see it) . Notice the keyword “you”.

I believe that means YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF YOUR MINDSET ( Your point of view )..

Do you know why they say “food for thought” ? It’s because the mind feeds via information. That’s right ! So feed it right . Set your mind right! Your mindset is a goldmine and you best believe that..Your mind is feeding off of millions of information every moment and it’s your duty to feed your mind right and get the trash out.

Till the next read.

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Mindset

Our overall judgement per say is our mindset. What you do or say, how you act or behave is all based on your mindset. How you perceive things, how you react to the circumstances in your environment, career, relationship,religion and even spirituality.

As seen below on my Youtube channel, i shed a bit more light into the importance of your mindset..

Mindset is everything. Literally everything. Your mindset is your collage of thoughts and beliefs that shape your thought habits(which really means your whole life) and your thought habits affect how you think, what you feel, and what you do. It is mans best friend and worst enemy because it could make or break you but the best part is, each individual is in charge of theirs. It’s the only property you have as a human being.

There are two major types of mindset:

Fixed and growth mindset

Having a fixed mindset means one believes that certain things are just that way, that talent and intelligence is enough and that makes them likely to document past achievements out of fear failure while a person with a growth mindset sees challenges as a way to learn and grow. They believe new abilities can be developed via practice which helps create a love for learning and this of course makes life more exciting.

I for one, believe that as good as raw honey is, it is bitter to someone else’s taste bud and that is a Mindset right? Does that make you perceive me as a certain individual?, of course yes! That is because we are all judged by our mindset and we already do that to ourselves which is bad enough. How about we tried something different. How about we be less judgmental and just allow people grow and learn after all that’s why we are all here.

Nomatter how young or old you may be, when you have learned/gathered enough experiences according to your own role in life you sign out. Isn’t it ?

That’s right.

Having a growth mindset (the belief that you are in control of your own-skills and ability, and can learn,grow and improve) is the key to success. Yes, hard work, effort, and persistence are all important, but not as important as having that underlying belief that you are in control of your own destiny.

“Your future is only a projection of your imagination which makes your mindset your greatest asset”.

Its not about what is happening it is always about ‘why’ you think that way.. It is always about they whys’, ask yourself why you do , think, say things in a certain manner and there a new journey begins…

Till the next read.


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Change

The only word that is constant in the whole universe…

Change is like the wind when it blows .. everything scatters..ever experienced a whirlwind of emotions happy or sad, how do you react? If excited, you celebrate you smile, jump etc.. if otherwise, you scream (certainly moving), cry or even throw things around..

You see, everything that comes with change comes with change goes with change. Change is life… life is change because it is forever moving. Get it ??

Change is inevitable and until we accept that change is inevitable we may continue to live in chains.. Breaking free requires change and it is never comfortable.. You have to get comfortable with being uncomfortable.

So let’s say for instance, you have a habit of doing the same thing over and over again or you’re trying to solve a problem and you keep throwing things around does it solve the problem? You see, if you keep throwing things around you’ll end up cleaning more spots.. That’s why they say if you keep doing the same thing over and over again you’ll end up getting the same results.Imagine trying to break a wall do you do that by patting the wall ? It requires effort because it’s not in your comfort zone and that means you have to get uncomfortable yet being okay with it.

Change is always in motion

Change is fluid

Change is nature

Change is life

This decade calls for so many changes and i am super excited to see how we evolve with these changes.. We consciously create beauty when we see a need for change within and without.

Change is a constant because every matter is constantly vibrating. Even everyone is. Change is invisible just as life is you have to be it” or create it” ( “it being change”).

“Be the change you want to see in the world”..

❤️

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Wake up call

Wake up it’s 2:22. The moment you’ve been waiting for..” The bells are ringing.. The trumpets calling.. can you hear it ?? Okay,okay… born ready ! “I said”..while waking up yawning like a new born. Checked my bed size clock, 2:22am and date : 22/01/20, Oh wow another dream..

This was another wake up call and I know I needed that”. That was me from my dream space this morning and I felt I should share that message. That was me being my own wake up call in my dream..

Okay firstly, what is a wake up call?

A wake-up call means an event that makes someone realize/understand that something must change in his/her life. For example- If one’s electric bill is high, it might be a wake-up call to draw up a budget or switch off some appliances.

Sometimes, one has to be his/her own “wake up call”.

Waking up could feel like work if you’re not happy but if you are ..easy breezy.. You know how they say sleep requires peace yeah? It does require peace and that’s why we should always be our own divine source of peace individually and collectively. This could mean organizing, doing your shadow work, detoxing and integrating ( I do this to cultivate myself and I can tell you for certain it’s not for the weak).Life is fight or flight ✈️… where do you stand? What do you stand on?and if you are just waking up, please take your time… Breathe.. there really is no destination.

Yes life is a journey not a destination so your wake up call should be what can you do to enjoy yourself on this fun trip everyday after all there is no destination…

Okay,let’s look at this way. If you’re traveling to a certain place what are the things you would need to know, where would you like to visit and how ?, what activities would you partake in? What kind of people would you love to meet ?

What do you value ?

Whom do you value ?

What is your value?

Remember energy flows where attention goes..

So what defines your day? your life? your art ?

Do you have someone / something to fight or flight for ?

Then what are you waiting for ?

🔔 ringing… listen to the sound of your soul.

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Start today!

Today is this present day.

Today is also the beginning of the rest of your life.

Today is the only day you’ve got to make it right.

Today is the moment you have been waiting for.

Today is the most beautiful day you’ve ever seen. Ever watched the sunrise? Damn..

Today is the day that you get to make a different decision.

Today is the perfect day for you to start anything.

Today!!

Today is tomorrow’s today.

Today is the beginning of tomorrow. It sure is!

So what are you doing today that will make your tomorrow feel like an upgrade?!

Stop procrastinating. These are some steps that could help you start today.

1. Make a list. Just as simple as that. Could be penned down or even on the notepad on your phone. It keeps you focused. So look at your list and do one thing on it right now!

2: Set simple achievable goals : Most times, procrastination seems like the only choice due to over daunting goals. Set goals that you are certain is achievable. So if your goal feels daunting, break it into bite-sized steps. Remember, you don’t have to know every step of the way; just the next few steps immediately ahead.

3 : Write down your goals, include a deadline and a reward for yourself: This puts you into action because a goal without a deadline can be put off indefinitely.

4 : Harness fear : This seems weird but it works magic. Fear is a powerful emotion that can keep us mired in excuses. Yet, by focusing on what you don’t want, you can harness it in your favor. So write down how you will feel a year or two from now if you do nothing. Be brave and really honest with yourself about the cost of continued inaction. After all, if nothing changes, nothingchanges!

5: Be brave : Building momentum is crucial as you begin and yes that could be uncomfortable. So commit to stepping out of your comfort zone at least once per day. Start now before your fear-laden excuses, disguised as sheer laziness, kick in again. It can be something really small. After all, it doesn’t matter how fast you are going, so long as you are stepping forward in a direction that inspires and empowers you. So take that first step, then another, then another.. after all a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

6 : Visualize the end result. When you feel the emotions and imagine how it would feel at the end. This is freedom from anxiety or self -doubts. Accomplishing put off tasks could dramatically boost your confidence and energy. So why wait ? Start today.

Start now! Change your patterns. Be better…

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Individuality

I am….

The two most important and powerful words of the universe because whatever you say after that you become.

For example saying “I am a beautiful woman” means I “believe” that I am beautiful right ? Same way saying “I am clueless” means you believe you have no clue”.

Individuality simply reminds you of who you are just like the words I am”..

It reminds you that you’re a whole person and even if your choices and decisions are made by someone else it is very important that you arrive at them through independent analysis and thoughts. You know the saying “just because everyone does it doesn’t mean it is right”..Nonetheless, individuality doesn’t mean you should always be a contrarian but it suggests that you take a proactive role in your life and think for yourself.

By all means anything that makes you distinctively you is individuality. This could be in style, your temperaments,attitude,walk, slangs etc.. It’s okay to tap some knowledge and wisdom of the universe but be responsible for your actions and choices because you are “ A WHOLE INDIVIDUAL.

There are so many ways to help figure out your individuality.. You can start by making a list of things that excite you . Inclusive of activities, events, hobbies. Knowing how you arrive at certain decisions in your life could be the game changer you have been waiting for.

Everyone of us has a number of impressive yet distinctive qualities. It’s high time you embraced yours because you can not be someone else.

Words of wisdom( WOW)

Be your own Individual— You came alone and that should mean something..

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2020 vision – The redefinition

It’s the 2020’s finally!

The 20th year of the 3rd millineum.

The 20th year of the 21st century and also the 1st year of the 2020’s decade. Wow!!

It’s been a long-ass time coming. We have been expecting you.

For generations, 2020 seemed like the perfect year to come”. A year full of expectations, plans, visions and even huge unexpected changes because of the so called vision 20/20.

What does that mean exactly ? Does Vision 2020 mean to have perfect sight?

According to numerology 2020 = 4

The number 4 signifies – practicality, pragmatism,building solid foundations, home, families, business growth etc .

I for one believe it’s a year full of twist and turns. The year of crystallized visions. The year of Redefining!

On a global scale , the world is changing and 2020 is a physical manifestation of our collective imaginations in terms of growth. So basically the year of massive growth and of course the return”.

This would probably be the redefinition of new global deals, trades, policies, music, art, politics, growth and mostly spiritual awakenings all over the world and that requires individual efforts. We have to redefine where we are in every area of our lives because times have just changed and we are about to experience a whole new decade which usually comes with new energies, waves,sounds, styles etc.

Words of wisdom —Redefine your mind, body and soul. Sculpt and remold!

Wishing you all the best decade of your lives ❤️

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Celebrate your small wins

What does an actual ‘win’ really mean?

What does it take to win or lose?

Below are my thoughts..

An actual win simply means — an achievement which means :

It takes “Ballz” to win!

In order to win or have victory, first you must take the required action.

It’s become vivid to me how much our actions are everything..Literally ‘everything’..because to win, you must take action, to lose you also must take action..Life is a series of never ending action..

So now you see how no matter the outcome of any situation you are in actions are everything. Nothing actually happens until you take action.

It’s the season of celebrations per usual but most importantly the season of love,reflection and gratitude.

We tend to live too much inside our heads and sometimes forget to acknowledge the beauty around and within us. So many people fought and conquered so many silent battles this year and even the years before but sometimes they forget to celebrate how much effort they put in after the battle has been won. This is a gentle reminder to always stay gracious and celebrate yourself..irregardless of what time it is..

Get your butt up and celebrate something you accomplished this year..no matter how small. If you think you don’t have any accomplishment to be proud of, then take a look at yourself in the mirror.What do you see?

You’re still here!

That is more than enough.

Yes or yes?

Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a bright new year!

P:S Any thing that’s accomplished should be celebrated.

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Recreate!

We are here to create and re create. It is our nature to create! (Nature”,“ natural”).. Take note of those words. As a matter of fact. Read that again..

It is our nature to create therefore you should by law of nature create yourself, your kind of food, your style your “anything”!

We are coming into a new decade and energetically I know this is going to be a hell of a decade..It’s like having a do over of a bad pot of noodles ..

Life is really about individuality and to create you have to destroy ! It is what it is..

I’ve come to create and create I will ✌️

Creating simply means mixing and mastering if I were to describe it the way an artist would. Just as a chef mixed water and pepper to make soup.Just as a writer creates a vivid imagination in your mind while reading.

We have so many labels for things that our words can’t describe hereby making language a huge barrier for pure communication.. Art is a very huge part of life and every single one of us creates everyday. Consciously or Subconsciously .. but we are too busy to slow down and breathe..

We are recreational animals but it’s unfortunate we have to pay to re- create as most of the beautiful natural recreational facilities are now tourist centers and one has to pay. However, do not be discouraged it’s okay to be a clown in this boxed” world. To be recreational doesn’t mean use all the eggs/ sperm in your body to create”. It basically means to learn mix and master something..anything ! Otherwise help/elevate those who can..

I would love to see a world with so many creators living freely and most importantly recognized because there are so many people waiting for someone to take the lead..So many lost souls who need to find their way home..

Wake up !!!!!

The world needs you today. The world needs you right now..

The Universe is screaming come on baby! Take back your power and create..

We are ready for the 2020’s..Let’s FCK shit up !!

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Dreams and Visions

What are dreams ? I mean really what are dreams in the definitive sense?

How do you know it was a dream ? Do you know remember it always ? Does it matter ?

Do you know about visions ? Do you understand what it means to have one? Have you ever felt the need to understand any of your dreams and visions ?

I know .. I know I’ve asked so many questions but hey 👋 ..

We attend to our daily, weekly or yearly dreams, goals and visions , our plans for the future, the visions we might have for our next job or next vacation etc. But do we even evaluate the dreams and visions we have? Is it so scary now to be yourself first before anything else ? We tend to run away from the main purpose or reason we are even living in this magical place called Earth and we deliberately chose to run away from the truth because it seems scary..

Dreams are guidance from your highest self to you and it is a special tool you could use to mould your life.. I believe that’s the best way to put it…

I’m writing to implore you to always try to remember your dreams and pen it down it may literally be all you might need to live the life you deserve or desire..

When you are able to merge your dreams with our physical futuristic dreams or practical dreams then you have unlocked a special treasure within you and that my dear royalties is my piece for you today.

Words of Wisdom (WOW) ;

“Help God by helping yourself “ just as it states in the Bible “ Heaven helps those who help themselves” ..

Remember one thing that cannot be recycled is wasted time!

Till the next read

Te amo…

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Mornings are Mournings

Good morning Royals, How do you do?

It’s a beautiful morning isn’t it?

Have you ever wondered why morning sounds like mourning ?

Why wake” sounds like wake wakeeping?

Death and rebirth, sleep and wake are all interwoven.

Mornings are new beginnings everyday.

Mourning is a new beginning in its own way ( after a transition/ sleep )but still a “ new beginning”..

When a person dies, a wake-keeping is done. Know why it’s called a wake-keep”? Do you even ask these questions?

Everything we try to do again” is a “morning or a mourning” .. We are either creating or destroying!

Keyword above “do again”- ( everything you want to do has already been done”)It’s all about perception.

Mornings are mournings “ A good morning means goodnight to the you I saw/knew/met yesterday.. I.e The old you” ( which is simply death to yesterday”). We need to begin to * Over-stand not understand * that our words were mostly derived from other cultures, philosophies etc..

How you feel every morning has a huge influence in your whole life. Do you feel like you’re having a good morning ? Or do you feel like you’re mourning?

Everyday is money. Every morning is a bag of money. Spend it wisely!

Word of Wisdom ( WOW) ;

Remember your mornings define your money..Sip a cup of money every morning so you won’t be mourning when others are yawning*

Good morning Royals👑❤️

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Gratitude equals Addition

All things bright and beautiful

All creatures great and small

All things wise and wonderful

The lord God made them all

That’s a verse in the old catholic hymns book”

Those words always struck a chord within me anytime I come across em’..Wanna know why?

Well, one of the very first things my parents taught me growing up was gratitude 🙏🏽 and it was the best skill they could have instilled in me.

I always wondered why ants greeted each other while marching.. Ever seen a group of ants( any kind) anywhere? Watch them for just few seconds. It’s mind blowing! A million ants could be marching and they all greet each other. Damn !!.

You can imagine how many ants there are in the world yet no matter what happens when they see each other they stop to greet. That’s love, respect loyalty and Gratitude. I believe this should be every human being’s mindset but you know what I say about Soldiers? Just like the ants not every one is designed to be a soldier and that’s perfectly okay.

You cannot be proud and grateful at the same time. Same way you cannot be proud and productive”.. Haba! Common sense should tell you that”.

From experience I’ve come to understand Gratitude is a very very very humble feeling. It takes nothing to be grateful but it looks like it takes everything.

Gratitude is not just a “ Thank you”. It is an experience, a feeling , a vibration, an energy!.

Imagine ants being so humble greeting and loving on each other yet they are soldiers marching ! How about that???

They are the tiniest of insects but also “SOLDIERS”Gratitude has to “GLADLY” make you feel tiny as an ant. Humility begets gratitude’..

What I call HUMILITY some call HUMILIATING

Mindset!!

Gratitude is one of the most necessary skills you could learn but the hardest to hold onto because humans prefer the “Ego” and honestly it’s super easy to be proud. I mean anyone can be Proud after all.

Even the Bible says “Give thanks in “Every Situation”. The same Bible says “ Pride comes before a fall” ..

The energy of gratitude automatically attracts more things to be grateful for. It’s as simple as 1+1 =2

Gratitude = Addition

It’s that simple..

When you are grateful for good things more good comes your way. Gratitude is attractive. Damn that sh** is sexy…

So my dear Royalties, you gotta wake that ass up ! Jump up if you can because you have for one “Life inside of you” to be thankful for.

Just like fueling fire..The more fuel you pour, the larger the fire gets. Such is the energy of gratitude.The more grateful you are the more fuel you’re pouring onto the fire..

What are you grateful for today?

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“How hungry are you”?!

Humming this morning a song “In pidgin language ( native to Africa)

“One Sunday morning ,I wake up from sleep.. I go kitchen I no see food 🥘..

I put on my dress I go one canteen, dem gimme two Loi-loi, one meat..

I chop am no pay.. dem pour me egusi soup, I Dey take style Dey lick am cause the soup was so sweet..

😂

P:S If you know this song we should have a physical office for family meeting ✌️

Meaning of song : One Sunday morning after waking up,I checked on some food in the kitchen to no avail. I dressed up,stepped out to a canteen,placed an order: Two fufu(Loi-loi as is called is cassava starch like eba “) one meat( beef or whatever ..lol) in Egusi ( melon ) soup.

Knowing fully well there was no money to pay I ate and waited to be asked for payment and they*The canteen owners” poured soup on me” as punishment (their point of view) and I licked the soup poured on my body because it was so sweet. ( the songwriters point of view)

How insanely ridiculous is that ?!

That was a very popular song during my childhood around my aunties for some weird reason😒. I believe it has a relevance to what I call “The food chain of how we behave as human beings”. We are programmed to kind of wait till things get terribly bad/sour.. before we do what we’ve always known we would do and that is what brings about Shame,anxiety/depression etc.

According to Paul Coelho” Going after a dream has a price.

It may mean abandoning our habits, it may make us go through hardships, or it may lead us to disappointment.

But however costly, it’s never as high as the price paid by people who live in their comfort zone.

A dream doesn’t have to be a career, marriage, PHD or even traveling the world.It could be a very important decision to be made that may seemingly be irrelevant to you now because *YOU THINK YOU STILL HAVE TOMORROW.. sigh

How hungry are you ?

Every dream REQUIRES SACRIFICE!!

“As you all know by now my weird sense of humor is here thinking .. (according to the song/poem “at the beginning..” )whoever created that song made a seemingly stupid sacrifice to feed” but she did it anyway so she could eat.”

P:s .. I’m sure she could have begged to eat, but she chose what she thought was her “only choice”

It’s all about “PERSPECTIVE”

Anyway back at it:

Keyword : SACRIFICE”

It may mean abandoning your choices/habits or even leaving your family. It may make us go through the dark rabbit hole. Still…

How hungry are you ??? What are you willing to let go to receive?

No guts to glory !

How bad do you want it ?

Till next read❤️

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SHARE!!

Why do we hide our feelings ? Especially the bad ones ?

Why?

Why do we share the good ones and get scared to share the bad ones ?

What is it with the word “Bad”?

Why do you believe in “good or bad”?

Have you ever wondered why??

You see.. we have all been programmed to believe words in what we read, what we are told and mostly what we watch.

Words are in everything !!! Everything! Even in silence .. Same as numbers and symbols.

Sharing is simply connecting. It’s one of the main reasons why we are all here. It’s a part of your purpose as a human being to SHARE! The good, the bad and the ugly and until we come to realize that.. there’s a lot to unlearn.

Sharing detoxifies the soul. Just as exercise detoxifies the skin.

Share what you can how you can. Tomorrow is not certain.

Till the next read ❤️