Month January 2020

Mindset

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Our overall judgement per say is our mindset. What you do or say, how you act or behave is all based on your mindset. How you perceive things, how you react to the circumstances in your environment, career, relationship,religion and even spirituality.

As seen below on my Youtube channel, i shed a bit more light into the importance of your mindset..

Mindset is everything. Literally everything. Your mindset is your collage of thoughts and beliefs that shape your thought habits(which really means your whole life) and your thought habits affect how you think, what you feel, and what you do. It is mans best friend and worst enemy because it could make or break you but the best part is, each individual is in charge of theirs. It’s the only property you have as a human being.

There are two major types of mindset:

Fixed and growth mindset

Having a fixed mindset means one believes that certain things are just that way, that talent and intelligence is enough and that makes them likely to document past achievements out of fear failure while a person with a growth mindset sees challenges as a way to learn and grow. They believe new abilities can be developed via practice which helps create a love for learning and this of course makes life more exciting.

I for one, believe that as good as raw honey is, it is bitter to someone else’s taste bud and that is a Mindset right? Does that make you perceive me as a certain individual?, of course yes! That is because we are all judged by our mindset and we already do that to ourselves which is bad enough. How about we tried something different. How about we be less judgmental and just allow people grow and learn after all that’s why we are all here.

Nomatter how young or old you may be, when you have learned/gathered enough experiences according to your own role in life you sign out. Isn’t it ?

That’s right.

Having a growth mindset (the belief that you are in control of your own-skills and ability, and can learn,grow and improve) is the key to success. Yes, hard work, effort, and persistence are all important, but not as important as having that underlying belief that you are in control of your own destiny.

“Your future is only a projection of your imagination which makes your mindset your greatest asset”.

Its not about what is happening it is always about ‘why’ you think that way.. It is always about they whys’, ask yourself why you do , think, say things in a certain manner and there a new journey begins…

Till the next read.


Change

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The only word that is constant in the whole universe…

Change is like the wind when it blows .. everything scatters..ever experienced a whirlwind of emotions happy or sad, how do you react? If excited, you celebrate you smile, jump etc.. if otherwise, you scream (certainly moving), cry or even throw things around..

You see, everything that comes with change comes with change goes with change. Change is life… life is change because it is forever moving. Get it ??

Change is inevitable and until we accept that change is inevitable we may continue to live in chains.. Breaking free requires change and it is never comfortable.. You have to get comfortable with being uncomfortable.

So let’s say for instance, you have a habit of doing the same thing over and over again or you’re trying to solve a problem and you keep throwing things around does it solve the problem? You see, if you keep throwing things around you’ll end up cleaning more spots.. That’s why they say if you keep doing the same thing over and over again you’ll end up getting the same results.Imagine trying to break a wall do you do that by patting the wall ? It requires effort because it’s not in your comfort zone and that means you have to get uncomfortable yet being okay with it.

Change is always in motion

Change is fluid

Change is nature

Change is life

This decade calls for so many changes and i am super excited to see how we evolve with these changes.. We consciously create beauty when we see a need for change within and without.

Change is a constant because every matter is constantly vibrating. Even everyone is. Change is invisible just as life is you have to be it” or create it” ( “it being change”).

“Be the change you want to see in the world”..

❤️

Wake up call

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Wake up it’s 2:22. The moment you’ve been waiting for..” The bells are ringing.. The trumpets calling.. can you hear it ?? Okay,okay… born ready ! “I said”..while waking up yawning like a new born. Checked my bed size clock, 2:22am and date : 22/01/20, Oh wow another dream..

This was another wake up call and I know I needed that”. That was me from my dream space this morning and I felt I should share that message. That was me being my own wake up call in my dream..

Okay firstly, what is a wake up call?

A wake-up call means an event that makes someone realize/understand that something must change in his/her life. For example- If one’s electric bill is high, it might be a wake-up call to draw up a budget or switch off some appliances.

Sometimes, one has to be his/her own “wake up call”.

Waking up could feel like work if you’re not happy but if you are ..easy breezy.. You know how they say sleep requires peace yeah? It does require peace and that’s why we should always be our own divine source of peace individually and collectively. This could mean organizing, doing your shadow work, detoxing and integrating ( I do this to cultivate myself and I can tell you for certain it’s not for the weak).Life is fight or flight ✈️… where do you stand? What do you stand on?and if you are just waking up, please take your time… Breathe.. there really is no destination.

Yes life is a journey not a destination so your wake up call should be what can you do to enjoy yourself on this fun trip everyday after all there is no destination…

Okay,let’s look at this way. If you’re traveling to a certain place what are the things you would need to know, where would you like to visit and how ?, what activities would you partake in? What kind of people would you love to meet ?

What do you value ?

Whom do you value ?

What is your value?

Remember energy flows where attention goes..

So what defines your day? your life? your art ?

Do you have someone / something to fight or flight for ?

Then what are you waiting for ?

🔔 ringing… listen to the sound of your soul.

Start today!

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Today is this present day.

Today is also the beginning of the rest of your life.

Today is the only day you’ve got to make it right.

Today is the moment you have been waiting for.

Today is the most beautiful day you’ve ever seen. Ever watched the sunrise? Damn..

Today is the day that you get to make a different decision.

Today is the perfect day for you to start anything.

Today!!

Today is tomorrow’s today.

Today is the beginning of tomorrow. It sure is!

So what are you doing today that will make your tomorrow feel like an upgrade?!

Stop procrastinating. These are some steps that could help you start today.

1. Make a list. Just as simple as that. Could be penned down or even on the notepad on your phone. It keeps you focused. So look at your list and do one thing on it right now!

2: Set simple achievable goals : Most times, procrastination seems like the only choice due to over daunting goals. Set goals that you are certain is achievable. So if your goal feels daunting, break it into bite-sized steps. Remember, you don’t have to know every step of the way; just the next few steps immediately ahead.

3 : Write down your goals, include a deadline and a reward for yourself: This puts you into action because a goal without a deadline can be put off indefinitely.

4 : Harness fear : This seems weird but it works magic. Fear is a powerful emotion that can keep us mired in excuses. Yet, by focusing on what you don’t want, you can harness it in your favor. So write down how you will feel a year or two from now if you do nothing. Be brave and really honest with yourself about the cost of continued inaction. After all, if nothing changes, nothingchanges!

5: Be brave : Building momentum is crucial as you begin and yes that could be uncomfortable. So commit to stepping out of your comfort zone at least once per day. Start now before your fear-laden excuses, disguised as sheer laziness, kick in again. It can be something really small. After all, it doesn’t matter how fast you are going, so long as you are stepping forward in a direction that inspires and empowers you. So take that first step, then another, then another.. after all a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

6 : Visualize the end result. When you feel the emotions and imagine how it would feel at the end. This is freedom from anxiety or self -doubts. Accomplishing put off tasks could dramatically boost your confidence and energy. So why wait ? Start today.

Start now! Change your patterns. Be better…

Individuality

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I am….

The two most important and powerful words of the universe because whatever you say after that you become.

For example saying “I am a beautiful woman” means I “believe” that I am beautiful right ? Same way saying “I am clueless” means you believe you have no clue”.

Individuality simply reminds you of who you are just like the words I am”..

It reminds you that you’re a whole person and even if your choices and decisions are made by someone else it is very important that you arrive at them through independent analysis and thoughts. You know the saying “just because everyone does it doesn’t mean it is right”..Nonetheless, individuality doesn’t mean you should always be a contrarian but it suggests that you take a proactive role in your life and think for yourself.

By all means anything that makes you distinctively you is individuality. This could be in style, your temperaments,attitude,walk, slangs etc.. It’s okay to tap some knowledge and wisdom of the universe but be responsible for your actions and choices because you are “ A WHOLE INDIVIDUAL.

There are so many ways to help figure out your individuality.. You can start by making a list of things that excite you . Inclusive of activities, events, hobbies. Knowing how you arrive at certain decisions in your life could be the game changer you have been waiting for.

Everyone of us has a number of impressive yet distinctive qualities. It’s high time you embraced yours because you can not be someone else.

Words of wisdom( WOW)

Be your own Individual— You came alone and that should mean something..