There are no Losses.

Know losses because there are no losses.

To know what a loss is simply requires you to recognize it. When you do, you’ll see that what you taught you lost, happened to teach you or help you.

I have realized overtime that there really are no losses. Everything that I lost or thought was taken from me has returned in so many other ways. The choices and decisions I’ve made as I journey through this plane either affect me or effect me. But it always comes back around. My life is simply a motion picture, more like a camera with limitless lenses and angles. When I give, I receive, when I receive, I give. Even when I lose, I’m winning. Life is just like a ball that goes where it is directed. Own your life so that you can direct it where you want it to go.

To ride the wave, you have to recognize the wave. Pain is only one side of the coin, the other side is “unlimitedness”.

By definition losses mean something being taken from you. In reality it’s only being distributed around. Whatever you lose is taken from you and given to someone or something else. (aka being distributed). Someone or something else will return that something to you because the circle of life requires the game never stops . Events keep recurring, things keep happening.

A mental picture of this would be looking at it like the show must go on sort of mentality. But the juice is actually recognizing what was taken and what’s received . It happens at the same fucking time. It only might take you a while to realize or awaken 🧿

There is a constant exchange or transaction happening every moment . What you give you get. I explained this deeply in my book Sex Consciousness.

Your ability to recognize that your losses are actually redirections showing you another route or lessons or awakenings , (however you decide to interpret it ) is a super power. You have to put conscious effort to looking at things from the inside out. Start now to intentionally create your reality, that’s how you win back everything you have lost.

You might have heard this from various mentors or people that inspire you. Life is what you make of it . That’s true. You have to be skilled enough to see things as they are. You never really lose you either learn or repeat the class . Incase you didn’t know, you are not alive everyday to simply repeat your past. Today is a new day to have a second look at the pain or lessons you might have been experienced and acknowledge them for what they are. That’s where the magic begins.

Celebrate your small wins

What does an actual ‘win’ really mean?

What does it take to win or lose?

Below are my thoughts..

An actual win simply means — an achievement which means :

It takes “Ballz” to win!

In order to win or have victory, first you must take the required action.

It’s become vivid to me how much our actions are everything..Literally ‘everything’..because to win, you must take action, to lose you also must take action..Life is a series of never ending action..

So now you see how no matter the outcome of any situation you are in actions are everything. Nothing actually happens until you take action.

It’s the season of celebrations per usual but most importantly the season of love,reflection and gratitude.

We tend to live too much inside our heads and sometimes forget to acknowledge the beauty around and within us. So many people fought and conquered so many silent battles this year and even the years before but sometimes they forget to celebrate how much effort they put in after the battle has been won. This is a gentle reminder to always stay gracious and celebrate yourself..irregardless of what time it is..

Get your butt up and celebrate something you accomplished this year..no matter how small. If you think you don’t have any accomplishment to be proud of, then take a look at yourself in the mirror.What do you see?

You’re still here!

That is more than enough.

Yes or yes?

Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a bright new year!

P:S Any thing that’s accomplished should be celebrated.